FabSwingers.com forum: bumping into someone you know

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi all so this is one of my fears, bumping into someone i might know on a social in chams etc , how to over come this or anyone got a story to share lol

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Everyone wants discretion. Most won't out someone they know as they will be outed themselves.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley

"hi all so this is one of my fears, bumping into someone i might know on a social in chams etc , how to over come this or anyone got a story to share lol "

It's not a problem if you bump into them at a social or a club as they are on here for the same reasons as you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone wants discretion. Most won't out someone they know as they will be outed themselves."

agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"hi all so this is one of my fears, bumping into someone i might know on a social in chams etc , how to over come this or anyone got a story to share lol

It's not a problem if you bump into them at a social or a club as they are on here for the same reasons as you ?"

I guess they are

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

I've been out shopping and come home and had a message going on my god I saw your sexy ass getting on the bus really creepy old man and I was with my little girl so happy he didn't come over lol

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"I've been out shopping and come home and had a message going on my god I saw your sexy ass getting on the bus really creepy old man and I was with my little girl so happy he didn't come over lol

Wow, yeah that's pretty creepy

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By *elshlovers22Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

We went shopping one Sunday and come home to a veri off of a woman that had seen us shopping saying "seen his lovely couple in my local shop today very nice"

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By *ouble_Trouble_X2Couple
over a year ago

caerphilly

We have seen a few people we know on here, one of them is a friend of the family which makes it rather amusing at times x

We just have our little side jokes and chats and nothing ever gets mentioned x

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By *eachykeencurvesWoman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Omg this reminds me last year I was putting petrol in my car and this older man approached me at the forecourt and I was thinking he needs help or something and he just loudly says you’re _eachykeencurves on fab? I’m not ashamed but found it really unnerving. Touch wood since it’s never happened again but I did deny it to him and he never messaged me whoever it was.

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By *ot And Sexy CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Near You

We bumped into someone we know in Newport social. We said hi but she totally blanked us sadly! We’re all there for the same reason so thought why not say hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes at the Carmarthen social a few years ago. He wasn't part of it and we did chat briefly. He's never said anything about it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to live a few doors up from a hot wife couple that are on here,they knew I was on here I would occasionally say hello & have a quick chat if they we’re outside when I walked past,fab or swinging was never mentioned. They’ve recently moved & have blocked me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We went shopping one Sunday and come home to a veri off of a woman that had seen us shopping saying "seen his lovely couple in my local shop today very nice" "

lol

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Yes I was a bit upset xx

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By *xocetMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

Think you’ve got to deal with it sensible and like an adult.

Just a shame that too many people can’t manage that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I've met a few, most have been fine about it, some have been awkward, 2 I had fun with, 1 I meet regularly. 1 I wroth with (that's entertaining) & 2 made threats to out me to my workplace. I called their bluff because I'm long past caring X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living in a small-ish town, lob a random stick and it bounces off an ex and lands on a relative...

Extra care is sometimes needed, but the most important thing to remember is we're all adults, here for mostly the same reason.

Discretion is often appreciated on all sides.

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By *hriscaroline36Couple
over a year ago

Treharris

Our first ever trip to a club we bumped into a couple we have known for 12 year, kids grown up together same nursery and school etc. Our opinion at the time was noone has any reason to be more embarrassed as the other as we're all in the same place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Living in a small-ish town, lob a random stick and it bounces off an ex and lands on a relative...

Lol amazing

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By *ohnny DelusionalMan
over a year ago

Swansea

"hi all so this is one of my fears, bumping into someone i might know on a social in chams etc , how to over come this or anyone got a story to share lol

It's not a problem if you bump into them at a social or a club as they are on here for the same reasons as you ?"

Yes, but what if it's your mom?

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"hi all so this is one of my fears, bumping into someone i might know on a social in chams etc , how to over come this or anyone got a story to share lol

It's not a problem if you bump into them at a social or a club as they are on here for the same reasons as you ?

Yes, but what if it's your mom?

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Then it will prove the old adage "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree" correct.

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By *enAndReginaCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"hi all so this is one of my fears, bumping into someone i might know on a social in chams etc , how to over come this or anyone got a story to share lol "

We don’t tend to meet local. Even though there are a few clubs closer, closest club we go to is xtasia. Closest social we have been to is Bristol, but we are considering going to others in Wales.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Omg this reminds me last year I was putting petrol in my car and this older man approached me at the forecourt and I was thinking he needs help or something and he just loudly says you’re _eachykeencurves on fab? I’m not ashamed but found it really unnerving. Touch wood since it’s never happened again but I did deny it to him and he never messaged me whoever it was. "

How could he tell it was you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to chams Newport and a guy approached me and said don't I know you ? He had a think about it and said yes we work at the same place. I was horrified as I had family working there also. Turned out he was dating a female swinger friend of mine that I use to go to the socials with.

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By *leasure-QueenWoman
over a year ago

The twilight zone

I bumped into a couple I knew at a fab social. It wasn’t a big deal, female half called me a dark horse and we laughed about it.

We’re all here for the same thing and discretion is usually a given

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By *he tunnelsCouple
over a year ago

newport

Bumped into a single male we know also a couple The male who works with me both at chameleons , no drama as we all after the same thing

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