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Anyone willing to introduce a newcomer to Charms Newport?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always wanted to visit the swinging sites but always get to nervous to go by myself, would love if anyone who’s been there before to walk me through it as I have zero experience

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

You can only attend Chams as a member. Call the club for prices and if there is still a waiting list. You cant attend as a plus one.

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

It might be better to try a smaller club outside for Wales if you can make the trip. Membership is usually needed, and single-male limits are often (sensibly) in operation.

That said, not going alone (once you have fulfilled membership requirements) is sensible. Being alone having to introduce yourself to new people every time can get extremely morale-crushing.

I recommend going to socials first, and getting to know people, though finding a social with regular attendees can sometimes be difficult.

It is tricky, but with lucky and hard work you can get there.

[Just don't go for sex. That's incredibly creepy, and single men are too numerous to get it. I'd imagine for over 50% of us single men, the lifestyle is no different to going to the pub on a weekend. That is probably how it should be]

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

Oh, and a few other things. NEVER go wandering around a club. If people want to invite you up to a room, then do so, but otherwise stay in the social areas (usually downstairs). The parade of single men wandering around upstairs like lizards is always an awful thing to see. I must confess that I have done that, and it is utterly disgraceful. There is no making up for it. Ever.

If you cannot speak to people downstairs then leave immediately. Men like us are the utter worst when we are hovering pathetically around.

TheOriginalCJ has a list of dos and don'ts somewhere here. Will try and find it and bump it tomorrow. It is the gold standard of what to do and not to do when in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wanted to visit the swinging sites but always get to nervous to go by myself, would love if anyone who’s been there before to walk me through it as I have zero experience "

I have in known from previous experience that people will couple up with u or let you go on there membership not sure if this has changed did not know of a waiting list I use to be a mamber as a couple

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Waiting list is for single males only at the moment. If you go on someones couple membership and the staff realise that you arent the registered couple you can have your membership revoked. A lot of people wont risk it now.

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

The better option may be to give up on this lifestyle, and either commit to a monogamous relationship or accept growing old and alone. Just how it is.

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