FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for a couple

By *ltSenpaiCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Merthyr Vale

We’ve mainly done cam on here but are looking to branch out, what we’re looking for advice on is meeting separately. What do you guys do to make sure the other person is safe etc.

By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Either meet at an organised social or a social in a public place. Both of you be present as so many couple accounts arrange a social and only the man turn up.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take my wife to meets and wait outside,or if we accommodate I'm always around in the garage.

Myself I always tell wife post code and address contact number

By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Lou only meets after a social, and it'll be on a different day. She'll give me the address she's going to, and drop me a text every hour or so. Other than that I trust her judgement on it, and we've had no causes for concern so far.

I would say though, any boundaries etc you put in place early on, go back to every now and again and see if it's still working. We had some pretty rigid rules very early on (coming from a bdsm world) that we would didn't really apply in the enm world.

By *ltSenpaiCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Merthyr Vale

Thank you guys! Do you find it easier doing everything from the couple account or are there benefits to having one separate to the couples account?

By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

We do it all from the couples account, but before this we used tinder. She found tinder easier to use and this site a pain in the ass because of adhd. So we find it easier having one account where everything goes through. Easier to show each other conversations and profiles, easier to browse through together etc. That's from an ND perspective though, we tend to stick to one thing at a time.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my ex we used the couple account mainly but for hitting the spot with little notice we used Tinder or Viva, it's pointless trying here for last minute. If we met separately we always sent our location via what's app on arrival & shared pics etc along the way. You'll find your own methods as you go along your journey X