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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry to sound pathetic.

But would anyone be able to look at my profile tell me what is wrong with it? (Or am I just ugly) I don’t get any luck on here.

Many thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your verifications say differently. You met someone a week ago?

Your only public photo is a dick pic which may put some people off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve had a couple of meets but not much luck Rory replies.

Ahh ok. I shall change that. All advice welcomed Thankyou. X

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

You have glowing reviews, sometimes quality over quantity is better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’d just love to explore more that’s all.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"I’d just love to explore more that’s all. "

Wouldn't we all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d just love to explore more that’s all.

Wouldn't we all "

True.

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Photos are nice, profile text though is all about what you want and not much about you. E.g. what do you offer the people that you want to meet? swinging is much more than fucking. It's friends with wicked benefits not ONS NSF. There are people that use Fab as a fuck site though, rather than a swingers site.

You've had 3 recent meets which is a lot more than some single guys. Get to socials and if possible clubs. Get your personality across.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Photos are nice, profile text though is all about what you want and not much about you. E.g. what do you offer the people that you want to meet? swinging is much more than fucking. It's friends with wicked benefits not ONS NSF. There are people that use Fab as a fuck site though, rather than a swingers site.

You've had 3 recent meets which is a lot more than some single guys. Get to socials and if possible clubs. Get your personality across."

Good advice above. You have done better thsn guys who been in here years. Jo

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's just difficult for single guys on here, just enjoy the forums and go to socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Photos are nice, profile text though is all about what you want and not much about you. E.g. what do you offer the people that you want to meet? swinging is much more than fucking. It's friends with wicked benefits not ONS NSF. There are people that use Fab as a fuck site though, rather than a swingers site.

You've had 3 recent meets which is a lot more than some single guys. Get to socials and if possible clubs. Get your personality across."

Thankyou for the advice I’ll rearrange my bio.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Photos are nice, profile text though is all about what you want and not much about you. E.g. what do you offer the people that you want to meet? swinging is much more than fucking. It's friends with wicked benefits not ONS NSF. There are people that use Fab as a fuck site though, rather than a swingers site.

You've had 3 recent meets which is a lot more than some single guys. Get to socials and if possible clubs. Get your personality across.

Good advice above. You have done better thsn guys who been in here years. Jo"

Haha. Thankyou, I’m loving the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Photos are nice, profile text though is all about what you want and not much about you. E.g. what do you offer the people that you want to meet? swinging is much more than fucking. It's friends with wicked benefits not ONS NSF. There are people that use Fab as a fuck site though, rather than a swingers site.

You've had 3 recent meets which is a lot more than some single guys. Get to socials and if possible clubs. Get your personality across."

I’ve edited it. Fingers crossed that’s better x

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"Sorry to sound pathetic.

But would anyone be able to look at my profile tell me what is wrong with it? (Or am I just ugly) I don’t get any luck on here.

Many thanks. "

Is this post a piss take ? Veris within weeks ?

I think your doing fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to sound pathetic.

But would anyone be able to look at my profile tell me what is wrong with it? (Or am I just ugly) I don’t get any luck on here.

Many thanks.

Is this post a piss take ? Veris within weeks ?

I think your doing fine "

Reason I ask must message 50 people and get one reply. Just seems odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never rush a good thing !

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Always read someones profile before messaging. They may have age limits, code word etc and may not answer based on that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always read someones profile before messaging. They may have age limits, code word etc and may not answer based on that."

Always do. Feel it’s only fair.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"Sorry to sound pathetic.

But would anyone be able to look at my profile tell me what is wrong with it? (Or am I just ugly) I don’t get any luck on here.

Many thanks.

Is this post a piss take ? Veris within weeks ?

I think your doing fine

Reason I ask must message 50 people and get one reply. Just seems odd. "

Nothing odd about not getting a reply ?

I have single fem friends who get over 1k messages a week. Would you read every one ?

Don't bother messaging it's a waste of time anyway. Just get to socials and clubs as you are physically there for people to see who you are.

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By *ear SkillsMan
over a year ago

Pontypool

I would say it's because your one of the hordes of men on here looking for sex and not an actual swinger. If that's not the case why are you stating you don't get much luck, the lifestyle isn't about getting lucky. I've not had a meet off here ever I don't think. Just with people I have met while at events and clubs. Everyone you message will recieve hundreds of messages and in a few minutes your nowhere near the top of their inbox and trust me they are not spending all day going through just to reply to them all.

The fact you have had meets off here shows your doing well better than me at getting attention so your doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read this thread & that profile & thought he's seeking numbers, women aren't notches, ticks, experiences. Maybe go away & rethink your approach X

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Always read someones profile before messaging. They may have age limits, code word etc and may not answer based on that.

Always do. Feel it’s only fair. "

But do you always follow it? We're strict with our boundaries, I'm sure others are too. So if you haven't hit exactly what they're looking for, why should you expect a response? What happened if out of those 50 messages, 49 of them were saying no thanks - does receiving a reply make you feel any better?

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"Sorry to sound pathetic.

But would anyone be able to look at my profile tell me what is wrong with it? (Or am I just ugly) I don’t get any luck on here.

Many thanks. "

Can’t view your profile I must be too old lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to sound pathetic.

But would anyone be able to look at my profile tell me what is wrong with it? (Or am I just ugly) I don’t get any luck on here.

Many thanks.

Can’t view your profile I must be too old lol "

Can’t view yours either

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"Sorry to sound pathetic.

But would anyone be able to look at my profile tell me what is wrong with it? (Or am I just ugly) I don’t get any luck on here.

Many thanks.

Can’t view your profile I must be too old lol

Can’t view yours either "

Apparently you’ve blocked me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to sound pathetic.

But would anyone be able to look at my profile tell me what is wrong with it? (Or am I just ugly) I don’t get any luck on here.

Many thanks.

Can’t view your profile I must be too old lol

Can’t view yours either

Apparently you’ve blocked me "

That’s what mine says about you.

O that’s sad your profile pic looks amazing

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Get to some socials or clubs and meet people face to face would be my advice. We travel a fair bit with us living on the arse end of Wales but it's been totally worth it!

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"Get to some socials or clubs and meet people face to face would be my advice. We travel a fair bit with us living on the arse end of Wales but it's been totally worth it! "

Sounds like where I live lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get to some socials or clubs and meet people face to face would be my advice. We travel a fair bit with us living on the arse end of Wales but it's been totally worth it! "

That’s my plan for new year. Hopefully see you guys soon.

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