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Females wanting social meets 1st

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By *ig bird bright OP   Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Ladies what is your view on this please?

Do most off you like a social meet up first at public places etc , socials clubs over a drink in a pub ???

Or do you go straight in and just turn up at a hotel or there's etc not having met them before and get straight down to having fun

I am a lady who likes to do the social meet first to feel safe and see if theres any chemistry etc , then arrange something another time if comfortable . Just I found that alot off men expect it to be sex straight away .

Your thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were straight in but we do talk alot with the people were meeting and so far its been great.

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By *ig bird bright OP   Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Are you with a partner or on your own

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By *host25Woman
over a year ago

caerphilly

Honestly I've just dived straight in because I'm rubbish at 5je social stuff until I've been intimate lol, but I've never met people off this app, only other social media where you have a bit more of a background (ie peek at friends, surnames etc. Always take a screenshot of who I'm meeting just incase I go missing lol). But I have hrard of a few who've been attacked off places like here so it scared me off for a bit ( haven't met up for years half of it is incase I meet some psycho) am on my own though.

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By *ig bird bright OP   Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Yes its different using other platforms like you said there's more information there to go on . And it is scary meeting on your own as a single lady, as you never now how things are going to turn out, as you said heard alot off bad things about men being strange physco and them being attacked.

We as women are aloud to change our mind and say no, but some men don't like that fact and try and pressure you , as turn up thinking there going to get sex no matter what

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I rarely meet one to one socials due to how I've been treated by men on here. I attend a few of the organised socials when I'm able to. I'd rather social at Chameleons and if there is a mutual attraction rooms are already readily available. I feel safer there as my boyfriend is there with me, we play together and separately

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By *carlett CumslutWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

I used to meet up straight away, before covid things here were a lot better. People were more respectful and I rarely got stood up. Since covid this place has turned into trash. A lot of dreamers, let downs and selfish folk just looking for their own pleasure.

Now I only meet at social events or clubs. It takes someone very special to arrange a 1-1 social! I’ll only play outside of a club once I’ve gotten to know that person and feel safe going to theirs/a hotel

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By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago

Neath,united kingdom


"I used to meet up straight away, before covid things here were a lot better. People were more respectful and I rarely got stood up. Since covid this place has turned into trash. A lot of dreamers, let downs and selfish folk just looking for their own pleasure.

Now I only meet at social events or clubs. It takes someone very special to arrange a 1-1 social! I’ll only play outside of a club once I’ve gotten to know that person and feel safe going to theirs/a hotel "

Although I don't play solo outside of clubs I have to absolutely agree with you! Plus if they stand you up their a complete fool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet via an organised social or club & still rarely meet 1:1 or in my own home. The morals on some men nowadays is shocking, its all about the one off & move on to the next, the numbers game. Even the most polite, respectable, believable guys are like it so I no longer provide them the chance. I'll fuck on my terms in a club & then walk away X

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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago

deepest, darkest West

I'm all about the socials before meeting up. Either 1:1 or in an organised social. The times where I have jumped right in have been the worst sex ever. So now, if someone doesn't have the time to get to know me outside of the bedroom, they aren't getting me in one.

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I only ever went straight in without a social once. Never again, it was a disaster

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By *alclmMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's nothing wrong with that

Meet up for a social first

Why not

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By *igSlinkyCouple
over a year ago

pontardulais

Definitely prefer social first coz there needs to be some chemistry or it just doesn’t work for me

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By *live and PopeyesCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Every Time we like to see who we are meeting

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Chat online and social first. Might be a very quick social before getting down to fun, it might be several socials.

Depends on how I feel things are going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never socials, just straight into the bedroom for me.

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By *orny43sumCouple
over a year ago

merthyr

As a couple who love meeting with a female, we totally happy to do a social meet 1st, and there has to be a mutual connection for fun times to begin xxx

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By *hocoholic22Woman
over a year ago

rhonda

I can’t see point in doing socials first tbh. I dont wanna marry them. Lol. I won’t meet un verfied men mind. I just tend to think yolo an go for it . Im also with a lush guy on a couple account and we meet but have never done socials etc just straight into it.

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By *ummer breeze300Woman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Always a social first we might not fancy each other inreality then can get awkward.

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By *ac711Man
over a year ago

south Wales

Due to my disability I’m not able to travel, but always happy to meet at my place chat over a coffee and see if we hit it off

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

Think it’s whatever you’re most comfortable with. We often do a social first, and always if we are meeting a female on her own , as we want her to feel comfortable.

Also we’ve been caught out with men using really old photos and looking nothing like expected, so that’s why we prefer it.

This is not to say a good social mightn’t lead to play straight after if it goes well and everyone wants to.

Red

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

A social first for me. Years ago I was more daring and would meet and get down to it. I had a few unpleasant experiences so now will only agree to a social meet initially

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

Social always. I have to be attracted to someone in the flesh (not just looks) before I go anywhere near them. X

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