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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having read endless threads about how tough it is for single guys to get meets, I thought I would take an opportunity to test exactly how many actually have the bottle to see one through. We have a hotel suite booked in Swansea for this Thursday. There will be us and another couple. I kid you not, the female half of the other couple is absolutely stunning. I will let you decide about me. We are ready to invite 3 or 4 genuine, discreet single guys who can be bothered to send a decent message and a clear face pic!

Please, no comments about how this belongs in the "meet" section. It allready is! Just thought it would be interesting to people to find out how many genuine messages we get. I will post the results.....Emma x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only it was Friday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think guys have it terrible, they just have to accept it takes time to be trusted and it won't necessarily happen straight away.

Whilst I'm sure you're party will be great, many will be put off by fact you have no veris,pictures and fact you're very new here. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think guys have it terrible, they just have to accept it takes time to be trusted and it won't necessarily happen straight away.

Whilst I'm sure you're party will be great, many will be put off by fact you have no veris,pictures and fact you're very new here. Good luck "

We have veri's, just choose not to show them! We have pics, but only send them when we know we are getting some back! We are indeed new to the site but not the lifestyle as our profile states! The response has been massive! Just interesting to find out how many will actually see it through! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

then I stand corrected. Just as there are many time wasters there are many people who are cautious about revealing identities.

Hopefully you'll get the genuine sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

timewasters can come in all forms couples do a lot of teasing and then saying NO if they dont fancy single fella or falsecouple profile and the fella who is being false profile obviously shites himself and dont turn up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be interesting to see how this turns out then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"be interesting to see how this turns out then ?"

I think we all suspect we know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we invite 3 man to a meet in a hotel it cost us £120 and nun ov them cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we invite 3 man to a meet in a hotel it cost us £120 and nun ov them cam"

Well if elected to meet someone I think I'd book....maybe ask them to book it if they have been invited to join you....would sort out who are time wasters.

Funnily enough there's another thread ongoing about a couple who's done it too. It's

not just males, although by virtue of the fact this site is full of them it will seem like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update!!!

Messages without pics: 14 Deleted

Invites without messages: 12 Deleted

Blatant fakes: 6 Deleted

Couples: 2 Replied

Messages with pics: 23 Replied

Invited: 6

Confirmed: 3

Spaces left: 1

Just also want to stress that this is a genuine meet! The post is just a bit of fun on the side. Just like swinging really lol....Emma xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In very very interested but can't message you. Have pics via private x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In very very interested but can't message you. Have pics via private x"
That's because you are outside our age range. Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So far so good! Huge thumbs up to the single guys on the site! Every message we recieved with a pic attached was answered and every no thanks was taken in a curteous manner. We have 3 guys confirmed to attend who have all provide confirmed mobile numbers. All 3 seem great from their messages and I genuinely think they will all turn up. We shall see! lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In very very interested but can't message you. Have pics via private xThat's because you are outside our age range. Have fun x"

Ageism.....is a Terrible thing...LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's ok. Age limits are there for a reason. Everyone has different preferences. Have a great time anyway

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By *aninthemiddleMan
over a year ago

caerphilly


"Update!!!

Messages without pics: 14 Deleted

Invites without messages: 12 Deleted

Blatant fakes: 6 Deleted

Couples: 2 Replied

Messages with pics: 23 Replied

Invited: 6

Confirmed: 3

Spaces left: 1

Just also want to stress that this is a genuine meet! The post is just a bit of fun on the side. Just like swinging really lol....Emma xxx"

im one who got a reply nice to get one even if it was a no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even though they said they were 100% certain they could make it and we swapped phone numbers and chatted extensively. 1 out of 3 turned up. The other 2 completely bottled it! Sorry to any genuine guys we turned down but after only a 33% sucess rate we will not be doing this again as we have to assume 66% of the guys on here are just fantasists lol...xx

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By *danteMan
over a year ago

rhonda

sorry to hear it didn't quiet work out as planned but you should have used the rule of 3 you should have invited 9 then you would have been sorted just like in life third to the tax/insuranace man third to the home and the rest to yourself if lucky 3 is allways good but mores better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though they said they were 100% certain they could make it and we swapped phone numbers and chatted extensively. 1 out of 3 turned up. The other 2 completely bottled it! Sorry to any genuine guys we turned down but after only a 33% sucess rate we will not be doing this again as we have to assume 66% of the guys on here are just fantasists lol...xx"

Name and shame....Shocking and thats what f@@ks it up for us genuine guys...

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By *AYMan
over a year ago

swansea

You should ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shocking! I'm one that got a reply even though it was a no. it was just nice to get a message back as a lot of couples don't even reply. even when you read and understand their profile. I don't get much free time, as you will understand from my profile. but these bad examples of single men spoil it for the genuine ones. 2 more genuine singles could have had plenty of fun with those 2 sexy couples. I for one would have loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"shocking! I'm one that got a reply even though it was a no. it was just nice to get a message back as a lot of couples don't even reply. even when you read and understand their profile. I don't get much free time, as you will understand from my profile. but these bad examples of single men spoil it for the genuine ones. 2 more genuine singles could have had plenty of fun with those 2 sexy couples. I for one would have loved it "

I agree mate....it's Bad enough as it is Without Knobheads adding to the mis-conception

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By *wanzMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Even though they said they were 100% certain they could make it and we swapped phone numbers and chatted extensively. 1 out of 3 turned up. The other 2 completely bottled it! Sorry to any genuine guys we turned down but after only a 33% sucess rate we will not be doing this again as we have to assume 66% of the guys on here are just fantasists lol...xx"

Some of us GENUINE guys are frequently turned down unfortunately ... Hopefully next time I'll get a big YES rather than the polite 'No' ... The problem is - now another couple won't be playing ...

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