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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whys it so difficult to get genuine meets with women on here? I see complaints about time wasters and idiots messing women around but yet when the genuine decent guys attempt to message we get ignored completely.

Used to be a good place to meet like minded women but now not so much unfortunately

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By *ilady RoseWoman
over a year ago

Merthyr Vale

You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.

Who wants to meet an invisible Man?!

It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.

Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.

Who wants to meet an invisible Man?!

It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.

Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem!"

Exactly this. I wouldn't even bother reading your profile without pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not blind date so I wouldn't look either. You really need to look at the profiles of successful guys & see how it needs to be done. If you really want this lifestyle you'll make those changes, if you're looking for a quick fuck you'll soon find you're in the wrong place X

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

First rule of fab.....

Nothings impossible just need patience...

All things good eventually comes to he who waits

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By *oves2please2021Man
over a year ago

cardiff

It’s far from impossible..

Be yourself

Be genuine

And persevere.

Your playing the numbers game here as a single guy.

Amongst the fakes and time wasters there’s hundreds of us.

Make yourself stand out.

Be polite

Don’t be needy

And don’t pester.

Good luck

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By *hetwoofus.Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend


"You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.

Who wants to meet an invisible Man?!

It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.

Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem!"

Spot on, profile is the main part then verification then photos.

Or its a delete for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t look at profiles without some form of profile photo. Silhouettes are no good dude

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By *art777400Couple
over a year ago

swans/Pembrokeshire

Wiv been on here for months, now and a lot of woman leading people, on all we want is a female to join us, in Pembrokeshire but we can travel, is not a problem, but a night mare finding someone, iv got photos and 10000% trusted people. Anyone help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wiv been on here for months, now and a lot of woman leading people, on all we want is a female to join us, in Pembrokeshire but we can travel, is not a problem, but a night mare finding someone, iv got photos and 10000% trusted people. Anyone help"

There's no photos of you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about numbers,there’s probably 10x more men than women or couples on here. I’ve been on here for over five years . I’ve often wondered why bother , but just now & again I get lucky. Ever the optimist I’m still here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.

Who wants to meet an invisible

Man?!

Well to be honest I've had my face pic as my profile photo for the last year and that made no difference what so ever, still same old ignorance or fake profiles messaging me. Literally removed my photo less than a week ago.

Photo or not still nothing lol

It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.

Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem!

Exactly this. I wouldn't even bother reading your profile without pictures."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s far from impossible..

Be yourself

Be genuine

And persevere.

Your playing the numbers game here as a single guy.

Amongst the fakes and time wasters there’s hundreds of us.

Make yourself stand out.

Be polite

Don’t be needy

And don’t pester.

Good luck "

Probably one of the nicest guys on here judging by women's posts and statuses lol. I've been on and off for 8 plus years with a few profiles and was a very enjoyable site but it's gone to the dogs now to be fair. And I'm always polite and 100% genuine lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t look at profiles without some form of profile photo. Silhouettes are no good dude "

I've always had profile pics on here and literally took it off less than a week ago due to fake accounts and tine wasters but just put my pic back up

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Best thing on here is try not to take it to seriously if you can attend social events as they help you to meet a variety of people and club events

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

I think peopke like to blame anything other than themselves ooooo single bloke this. Time waster single bloke that... boring once again....

Is on you as there plenty blokes on here with plenty women queing up..

You just ain't floating no boats I guess son. No game confirmed by coming to the forums to cry/complain about how is everyone's else fault you can't get through to no one

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By *ohnny DelusionalMan
over a year ago

Swansea

'Down said the witch and they flew to the ground, she searched for the OP but no OP was to be found, then out of the bushes on thundering paws bounded a new single male with his cock in his...?' OK at this point it starts to unravel somewhat.

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge


"You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.

Who wants to meet an invisible Man?!

It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.

Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem!"

And this is why, the bellend has left. That'll learn him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair he may just have taken a step back to reflect on his profile & come back with a big reveal via a new profile. But I'll recognise that silhouette anywhere so I'll spot him X

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By *hriscaroline36Couple
over a year ago

Treharris

We'd like to add for anyone reading thinking the same as OP, what effort have you really made? Does your profile have a real bio and not just 3 words, do you have pictures of mire than just your dick. Noone wants to see that, do you send good messages or is it the one line message alonf the lines of (your Mrs looks hot or worse) have you attempted to attend a social or club, and actually talk to people. If you're like OP and done none of the above at minimum then I'd say its more you that's shit and a time waster.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've given up trying to meet couples on here so I have fun looking though the forums and writing in the story section

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By *ion6-9Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"You have a silhouette profile ...."

My silhouette is my best feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a silhouette profile ....

My silhouette is my best feature."

I'm not sure it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its very hard to get womens attention or even talk to you when I'm courteus and nice on here to even get a potentional meet

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By *ubergenieWoman
over a year ago

Neath


"Yeah its very hard to get womens attention or even talk to you when I'm courteus and nice on here to even get a potentional meet"

Being courteous and nice is the bare minimum of decent human behaviour. Just wanted to point that out.

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Ive had "courteous" messages that ignore my whole profile which shoes they aren't courteous at all

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

*shows

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