FabSwingers.com forum: Genuine single guy

By *nitadwon2020 OP Man
over a year ago

aberystwyth

Having read many of the posts regarding ‘single guys not being genuine’ I’d like to say a few things from my point of view.

I can see how so many women and couples feel it’s a waste of time as I can see many of the same comments about single guys from being too pushy, rude and offensive or not following things through or clearly not being ‘sane’.

Not just me saying this but for me I’m a professional 40 year old who has his head screwed on and here for a meets and good times with like minded people.

I would say for I wouldn’t even get a reply from 5% of the messages that I send and that amongst the fact that I’m based in a remote area makes thjngs very hard to arrange meets etc.

I ain’t Brad Pitt but I’m no gremlin either (sorry best way for me to put it) but I feel like as with everything people will get tarnished with the same brush which I guess is natural especially in this type of site and the reasons why people are on here.

I realise that I have the need to travel for meets due to my location and for that reason alone I wouldn’t waste anyones time because I have to plan for these meets etc.

If there’s any genuine woman or couples that are looking for good times with a ‘genuine guy’ then I would of thought you can see that through this message and how it’s put from an initial stand point of course.

Anyhow - sorry for the essay but it is very frustrating as when I do get to meet they can see I’m a genuine, honest and someone they can have a great time with, but to get to that point is increasingly difficult.

Take care all and enjoy yourselves!!!

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By *ougar1966Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Three dick pics and a profile that says nothing is not going to get you far.

Make your profile interesting and read other peoples profile before messaging them. Guys usually get one chance to get a response and 95% fail at the first hurdle and get blocked or ignored.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Three dick pics and a profile that says nothing is not going to get you far.

Make your profile interesting and read other peoples profile before messaging them. Guys usually get one chance to get a response and 95% fail at the first hurdle and get blocked or ignored.

Same thoughts. You need to write your profile to get ladies interested and that counts for single ladies or ladies of a cpl. To be honest the lady in a cpl has the final say in most meets so you need tp get her attention. Give us a more indepth view of yourself not just the flannel you think we want to hear as most are seasoned and can see through the bullshit so to speak. Nice cock though i will say

joanne.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Don't need to be a long bio but more about yourself. We know what you are after on here lol. Make it a but interesting ect. Jo

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

I wouldn't even listen to women telling how to get women as is just on a individual level and they all different. Some want cocktail pics etc some dont. I get meets all time with women. so many don't even bother with veris no more.

Just be real. Come through as you are. But remember most women already got 5 blokes swinging through so most not even looking until the blokes go elsewhere. So move on quick and don't harrass. Generally I'll try again with mail opened but not deleted or replied but after a couple times they pretty much dead on here to me and don't mail again.

Profile. Just a picture rather than blank or cock. Big write out don't really mean much. The trick is the perfect message. That's how you get through. Is all in the message

Any more tips I might have charge lol

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley

another tip... Dont look for women from Barry as it seems stud muffin above has all the women pretty much sown up

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

"another tip... Dont look for women from Barry as it seems stud muffin above has all the women pretty much sown up

Not just Barry son lol

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Too many buzz words. What does professional actually mean? Lots of people are I don't think it's something that needs to be highlight - and to the extent it is on here.

And genuine? It's an easy word to throw around and much harder to prove. I think people need to focus more on proving it, than using it as something to rely on and throwing it out when things aren't going their way. Genuine doesn't mean anything until a meet and the negotiated stuff happens. Then it's proven!

Also, the word fun. Never use the word fun. You haven't said this to be fair, but its advice nonetheless. We all know what we're here for, so use the words. Don't be graphic or explicit but talk tastefully about what excites you perhaps? That certainly isn't for everyone, but we read a well written piece about someone's turn-ons, it makes us more intrigued.

Sorry, this is a bit of a rant so please don't take it personally.

In a nutshell what in trying to say is, describe you. What you're here for and maybe a bit about why. What you're interests are. Make it personal, about you. Essentially you're selling yourself here, so stand out and be different by being you.

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

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By *nitadwon2020 OP Man
over a year ago

aberystwyth

Hey guys,

Thanks for the feedback and noted on all points so thank you.

Please see my ‘updated profile’ and maybe you can see a positive difference.

(Yes the profile pic is meant to be funny for a reason).

It’s just very frustrating for me because when I do meet people it’s great but then it’s getting to that point is so hard.

My name is down for the Swansea social next month so I hope that could help and then at least people can see the ‘real me’.

Thanks again guys because it’s very good for you too take your time.

And Joanna - thanks for the compliment

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Hey guys,

Thanks for the feedback and noted on all points so thank you.

Please see my ‘updated profile’ and maybe you can see a positive difference.

(Yes the profile pic is meant to be funny for a reason).

It’s just very frustrating for me because when I do meet people it’s great but then it’s getting to that point is so hard.

My name is down for the Swansea social next month so I hope that could help and then at least people can see the ‘real me’.

Thanks again guys because it’s very good for you too take your time.

And Joanna - thanks for the compliment

You're welcome. Good luck on here

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