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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!!

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By *orgeous_BabeCouple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!! "

95% of single males on here are timewasters.

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!!

95% of single males on here are timewasters."

And they complain us cpls do not reply by creating a post about it. We fancied a threesome with a guy tonight and every single one bottled it after a few messags ffs.

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By *ounghorse77Man
over a year ago

neath

Sorry to hear this, I hope you find the genuine single men out there, as that’s what gives single men a bad reputation on this site people like them.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!! "

Such a shame when there are genuine guys out there. Hence why they get tarred with the same brush

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!!

95% of single males on here are timewasters."

"95% of single males on here are married."

Fixed it for you!

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Sorry to hear this, I hope you find the genuine single men out there, as that’s what gives single men a bad reputation on this site people like them. "

Sorry to say that after tonight we put the blocks back up yet again. It's a shame a few spoil it for others.

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

Boooring. Maybe after a message or two decided you wasn't for him/them. Maybe look at the other guys you were messaging. Say you met the one.. you a time waster to the others. Just turns out none them wanted to meet you. Hardly worth rounding up to single men

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!!

Such a shame when there are genuine guys out there. Hence why they get tarred with the same brush "

You sir are a rare breed. It was nice chatting to you last night. Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Boooring. Maybe after a message or two decided you wasn't for him/them. Maybe look at the other guys you were messaging. Say you met the one.. you a time waster to the others. Just turns out none them wanted to meet you. Hardly worth rounding up to single men "

Now you are being defensive. As for not for them that is fine but just bloody man up and say so not waste peoples time. We can take rejection but not timewasting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel 95% make it much more difficult for the genuine minority. Don’t give up, there are good single fellas about x

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I feel 95% make it much more difficult for the genuine minority. Don’t give up, there are good single fellas about x"

Thanks dan. Guys like yourself are rare on here. We know there are genuine guys on here. But abuse if you say no thank you and the keyboard wanker types ruin it for good guys on here.

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

I'll give you some advice lol

There's two types of bloke on here. Those who got women coming out their ass and they treat you accordingly and then there the bloke that have come on the forum's and suck ass just to even feel like they spoke to a women. I'm not defensive or a key border. Just real

I personally see couples as just the Mrs dragging a bloke she don't even want to fuck around with her.. (just my view/not always the case)

As a single bloke you calling out as a time waster, if a couple comes through I might entertain it a few messages but if ain't for me ill leave it. Just like you no doubt do with your inbox. Not everybody gets a no thank you. That's what makes me assume I am speaking to the bloke. As women rarely so no thank you. So why should blokes?

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By *neoffwelshladMan
over a year ago

West Wales

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By *ilthy brownieMan
over a year ago

yours


"We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!!

95% of single males on here are timewasters."

Not me I'm the 5% x

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By *ilthy brownieMan
over a year ago

yours


"We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!! "

Bastards!

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By *rMrsMorningstarCouple
over a year ago

near bridgend

It is really frustrating to be messed around and then to stumble across a reply from someone here who did exactly that to us, we kept on waiting and waiting and nothing, 3hours just waiting. You know who you are.

Really biting my tounge not to mention you but it's people for the likes of you who make this place unpleasant.

Shame on you!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Sadly I've had a lot of male time wasters who have agreed to meet, confirmed on the day and then not shown.

Some have contacted me again afterward with a variety of reasons, some have not. I tend not to give second chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's getting hard on here now we had a good few males that do turn up but like u said 95% are no good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they stop the real men from any chance of getting a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men are taken or married so they get there fix I’ve the keyboard, just be honest and upfront I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always be happy to chat as that is why I am on here, but I can never find a genuine couple

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By *ardiffuncutMan
over a year ago

Tonyrefail

The problem with all this is there is the online persona which everyone puts out - then there is the real meeting element - for some people honesty is not at the forefront and therefore as the deadline for a real meet approaches - then the unravelling of the exaggerated claims and expertise are finally going to be tested - especially as some people will make claims to pull themselves ahead of the highly competitive nature of contacting and building towards a meet - us single men are numerous!!!

So how does this get fixed?

I see a lot of statuses which state - make an effort - be special - be huge - be able to go for hours........ So to some people they will create the character and hope to fake it to make it - but then realise they are not going to.

I have limited success in here - firstly only available every other week due to childcare arrangements (to which I get accused of being Married as my time is limited) and I am honest - I am not a Duracell bunny with a foot long cock - so I manage expectations - this means I am comfortable to go ahead with a meet and not bail.

The one time I was treated as a timewaster was a genuine issue (a bad case of diarrhea) and when I messaged early to advise - I was blocked - I guess this is where the "95%" do make it difficult for the genuine.

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I'll give you some advice lol

There's two types of bloke on here. Those who got women coming out their ass and they treat you accordingly and then there the bloke that have come on the forum's and suck ass just to even feel like they spoke to a women. I'm not defensive or a key border. Just real

I personally see couples as just the Mrs dragging a bloke she don't even want to fuck around with her.. (just my view/not always the case)

As a single bloke you calling out as a time waster, if a couple comes through I might entertain it a few messages but if ain't for me ill leave it. Just like you no doubt do with your inbox. Not everybody gets a no thank you. That's what makes me assume I am speaking to the bloke. As women rarely so no thank you. So why should blokes? "

Ok just to clear things up this is joanne. We both look at the messages but john lets me run the profile as he wants me to be in control of who we meet so i will feel more comfortable. We are not one of those cpls where the woman drags the hubby around who she does not have sex with, accually quite the opposite as to put it bluntly he is the love and fuck of my life! We have a deep and very loving connection. This is some thing we have both talked about doing together and not one of us being pressurised in to doing it by the other. We came on here to meet cpls mainly but now and again we both have the urge to just invite another lady or guy to join us. Laat night like several times before we messaged several people and as the previous times it started off good and then they stopped replying. We sent pics and they were happy to meet. I get like you first said they changed their minds about meeting us and we respect that decision but at least just man up and tell us not just ghost. I can understand why you got defensive and thats fine. But arrogance is a horrible trait that nobody likes. Try to remember that please. Joanne.

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By *hunks91Man
over a year ago

port talbot

And this is why it’s hard for most men on here. And the small majority don’t get a chance.

However if you do fancy a chat and see what comes

Of it feel free to message me. X

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By *arl JamesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hey Joanne, good morning would be good to chat

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"The problem with all this is there is the online persona which everyone puts out - then there is the real meeting element - for some people honesty is not at the forefront and therefore as the deadline for a real meet approaches - then the unravelling of the exaggerated claims and expertise are finally going to be tested - especially as some people will make claims to pull themselves ahead of the highly competitive nature of contacting and building towards a meet - us single men are numerous!!!

So how does this get fixed?

I see a lot of statuses which state - make an effort - be special - be huge - be able to go for hours........ So to some people they will create the character and hope to fake it to make it - but then realise they are not going to.

I have limited success in here - firstly only available every other week due to childcare arrangements (to which I get accused of being Married as my time is limited) and I am honest - I am not a Duracell bunny with a foot long cock - so I manage expectations - this means I am comfortable to go ahead with a meet and not bail.

The one time I was treated as a timewaster was a genuine issue (a bad case of diarrhea) and when I messaged early to advise - I was blocked - I guess this is where the "95%" do make it difficult for the genuine."

Hi. Not all ladies want foot long cocks as getting your cervix bashed is not high on my agenda. I can see it from your end also where cpls can be seen in a bad light as believe me we had as much cpls peevus around as singles so cpls are not exempt from acting like wankers either on here. It just all the getting ready and build up to be let dowm pee's us all off in here and i mean singles and cpls get messed about. Dont worry about cock size or going for hours and not everyone on here is after that. Joanne.

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By *ardiffuncutMan
over a year ago

Tonyrefail

Agree we are all different and I wasn't for any moment tarring all with the same brush - honesty is key - as is genuine connection - if people bailed - see it if you can as part of the vetting process - you dodged an untrustworthy person.

I do also get the build up and anticipation element - it is a killer to get ready and hopeful and it doesn't happen - especially when no closure by saying not coming.

Oh and I am happy with my lot in life and what I am into/after.

Hopefully you get some more reliable to have fun with.

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"And this is why it’s hard for most men on here. And the small majority don’t get a chance.

However if you do fancy a chat and see what comes

Of it feel free to message me. X"

Bit to close to home for me babes sorry as we are port talbot based ourselves. But thank you for being so polite jo xx

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Agree we are all different and I wasn't for any moment tarring all with the same brush - honesty is key - as is genuine connection - if people bailed - see it if you can as part of the vetting process - you dodged an untrustworthy person.

I do also get the build up and anticipation element - it is a killer to get ready and hopeful and it doesn't happen - especially when no closure by saying not coming.

Oh and I am happy with my lot in life and what I am into/after.

Hopefully you get some more reliable to have fun with.

"

For now we will stick to cpls at chams as thats more our thing. Its just now and again we get the urge for a guy or girl to join us as equals and not at all to be treated as our plaything. We are all adults on here and after the same good connections, friendships and good sex. Why some cannot act like adults and just say they changed their minds. Thats all i am saying really. Jo.

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

If it ain't the women dragging her husband around is the bloke using his wife as a lure to get at single females as bored (again no need be defensive as said is just my visions. Right or wrong is irrelevant) the rest is up to you ain't it... as can see there loads blokes here in the forums trying get through to you. Message me they saying lol no doubt all up in your inbox as well. Don't waste their time lol

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By *elshhorseMan
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Good morning all, yes there are loads of timewasters out there, keyboard wankers, etc etc , yes it gives us single men a bad name, I'm just glad I haven't been tared with the same brush, as my veries prove it,I may not be everyone's cup of tea so to speak, but who ever I'm with or speak to on here or in the club,on a sat night, from couples,single females,and males, I treat with respect, even if it's showing then around, or just general chit chat, I have been called a gentleman amongst other things, lol.

I'm sorry to hear that people are getting messed about,which is wrong but that's the way some people are.

Just stay strong , enjoy what you are doing, and have a very horny time.

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

You should try the bloke side of things on here you see who the real time wasters are. Some the shit I could call out but don't as not all them time wasters going in the same box to be shamed in the forums.

I don't doubt there lots losers on here. Sat in front their pc churning cheese all day as you say messaging everything on here. Quick to blow and done with a few messages an pics exchanged but have take good with the bad and move on. All the best

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

Oh lord a mercy to all the time wasters you have done it again

Now we have to restore their faith in single mens once again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a a such a saddening post.

This place would be perfect if it weren’t for the dreamers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But, it is full of dreamers......

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

When single males or females (unless we already know them) messages always check profile (if we match) then actual meet verifications (social or play) if they dont match any of them or one of us are not interested then its a no simple really.

The same also applies for couple's.

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By *odney1997Man
over a year ago

Coytrahen

I’ll just stick to the clubs… less hassle and I’m crap with messaging

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By *ai MyrddinMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

This is why I much prefer clubs and meeting genuine people who are not time wasting fantasists.

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By *ussellmyMassonMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It’s a shame because it ruins for that small percentage of single males who are looking

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By *oves2please2021Man
over a year ago

cardiff

It’s not just single guys that let the site down.

In 2weeks I’ve had 2 cpls let me down.

It probably seems that way because there are more non genuine single guys then cpls.

It’s just as frustrating for us too as the bad 1s make it more difficult for the genuine ppl

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD


"We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!! "

It's a same as some of us single male like myself find it hard to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boooring. Maybe after a message or two decided you wasn't for him/them. Maybe look at the other guys you were messaging. Say you met the one.. you a time waster to the others. Just turns out none them wanted to meet you. Hardly worth rounding up to single men "

Your logic is flawed, the ops post suggests there was conversation & guys did want to meet but they failed to follow through. Your rationale for them being time wasters to the guys they don't meet, makes no sense whatsoever. People post a meet, they chat to a few who rely & from that few someone clicks & a meet is agreed, not meeting them all isn't being a time waster because a meet had not been agreed. A time waster is someone who agrees a meet,ghosts and/ or fails to show up for said meet. Its not rocket science but your comment certainly highlights another reason single guys struggle X

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"It’s not just single guys that let the site down.

In 2weeks I’ve had 2 cpls let me down.

It probably seems that way because there are more non genuine single guys then cpls.

It’s just as frustrating for us too as the bad 1s make it more difficult for the genuine ppl "

No i agree cpls can be just as bad.

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Boooring. Maybe after a message or two decided you wasn't for him/them. Maybe look at the other guys you were messaging. Say you met the one.. you a time waster to the others. Just turns out none them wanted to meet you. Hardly worth rounding up to single men

Your logic is flawed, the ops post suggests there was conversation & guys did want to meet but they failed to follow through. Your rationale for them being time wasters to the guys they don't meet, makes no sense whatsoever. People post a meet, they chat to a few who rely & from that few someone clicks & a meet is agreed, not meeting them all isn't being a time waster because a meet had not been agreed. A time waster is someone who agrees a meet,ghosts and/ or fails to show up for said meet. Its not rocket science but your comment certainly highlights another reason single guys struggle X"

Thanks peachy xx

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By *ac711Man
over a year ago

south Wales


"We thought we would give single guys another go tonight after going to chams last night. We approached several guys tonight who could accom to play with us. You guessed it after several ping pong messages they all went quiet. So we have blocked single guys yet again. So please guys if you bottle it and have no intention of meeting dont piss us cpls or single ladies about just to get your keyboard wank fix. Just watch porn instead please!!!! "

Have a look at my profile if it suits you I’m available

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"Boooring. Maybe after a message or two decided you wasn't for him/them. Maybe look at the other guys you were messaging. Say you met the one.. you a time waster to the others. Just turns out none them wanted to meet you. Hardly worth rounding up to single men

Your logic is flawed, the ops post suggests there was conversation & guys did want to meet but they failed to follow through. Your rationale for them being time wasters to the guys they don't meet, makes no sense whatsoever. People post a meet, they chat to a few who rely & from that few someone clicks & a meet is agreed, not meeting them all isn't being a time waster because a meet had not been agreed. A time waster is someone who agrees a meet,ghosts and/ or fails to show up for said meet. Its not rocket science but your comment certainly highlights another reason single guys struggle X"

I was thinking the same thing.

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By *alclmMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Shame about that.

I haven't been that lucky to get invite.

I could only accom from time to time.

And I very let anyone down.

But I do prefer to meet up at a club because I fixed two meet up with couples and only the man was bye himself.

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By *hekinkyduoCouple
over a year ago

neath

Well on our profile it says we only meet bisexual men as hubby and myself are bisexual we gt loads of messages of males that got straight on they profile but keep saying that they are bisexual but when we ask if they have ever been with a bloke they say no and when we say that we will not meet they start sending nasty messages they we bloke them but they bloke us first

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry


"Boooring. Maybe after a message or two decided you wasn't for him/them. Maybe look at the other guys you were messaging. Say you met the one.. you a time waster to the others. Just turns out none them wanted to meet you. Hardly worth rounding up to single men

Your logic is flawed, the ops post suggests there was conversation & guys did want to meet but they failed to follow through. Your rationale for them being time wasters to the guys they don't meet, makes no sense whatsoever. People post a meet, they chat to a few who rely & from that few someone clicks & a meet is agreed, not meeting them all isn't being a time waster because a meet had not been agreed. A time waster is someone who agrees a meet,ghosts and/ or fails to show up for said meet. Its not rocket science but your comment certainly highlights another reason single guys struggle X

I was thinking the same thing.

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Probably knew was messaging 10 other blokes same time. got bored waiting on a reply. Set something else up

An you would agree. You one the ones with out clubs or forums no hope lol

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

Everybody knows this a lame ettempt to box all blokes as you see regular from the same stale heads in the forum regular. But as you you see unless you a sucker. The blokes ain't having it. Just because a couple guys swapped pics an couldn't be fucked to reply. Is life. Move on

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By *alclmMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Well on our profile it says we only meet bisexual men as hubby and myself are bisexual we gt loads of messages of males that got straight on they profile but keep saying that they are bisexual but when we ask if they have ever been with a bloke they say no and when we say that we will not meet they start sending nasty messages they we bloke them but they bloke us first"

Well as hopefully you could Both see off my meets am bi and am not like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boooring. Maybe after a message or two decided you wasn't for him/them. Maybe look at the other guys you were messaging. Say you met the one.. you a time waster to the others. Just turns out none them wanted to meet you. Hardly worth rounding up to single men

Your logic is flawed, the ops post suggests there was conversation & guys did want to meet but they failed to follow through. Your rationale for them being time wasters to the guys they don't meet, makes no sense whatsoever. People post a meet, they chat to a few who rely & from that few someone clicks & a meet is agreed, not meeting them all isn't being a time waster because a meet had not been agreed. A time waster is someone who agrees a meet,ghosts and/ or fails to show up for said meet. Its not rocket science but your comment certainly highlights another reason single guys struggle X

I was thinking the same thing.

Probably knew was messaging 10 other blokes same time. got bored waiting on a reply. Set something else up

An you would agree. You one the ones with out clubs or forums no hope lol "

Again no sense but hey you've always been the same on the forum.

It doesn't read too me as though anyone is having a go at 'ALL' single guys, some of us Ladies would be lost without them, but what we do care about is the level of dross that's drowning out the good guys. I reckon you'd feel a lot lighter & get better results if you lost that big chip on your shoulder, I can feel it from here X

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Boooring. Maybe after a message or two decided you wasn't for him/them. Maybe look at the other guys you were messaging. Say you met the one.. you a time waster to the others. Just turns out none them wanted to meet you. Hardly worth rounding up to single men

Your logic is flawed, the ops post suggests there was conversation & guys did want to meet but they failed to follow through. Your rationale for them being time wasters to the guys they don't meet, makes no sense whatsoever. People post a meet, they chat to a few who rely & from that few someone clicks & a meet is agreed, not meeting them all isn't being a time waster because a meet had not been agreed. A time waster is someone who agrees a meet,ghosts and/ or fails to show up for said meet. Its not rocket science but your comment certainly highlights another reason single guys struggle X

I was thinking the same thing.

Probably knew was messaging 10 other blokes same time. got bored waiting on a reply. Set something else up

An you would agree. You one the ones with out clubs or forums no hope lol

Again no sense but hey you've always been the same on the forum.

It doesn't read too me as though anyone is having a go at 'ALL' single guys, some of us Ladies would be lost without them, but what we do care about is the level of dross that's drowning out the good guys. I reckon you'd feel a lot lighter & get better results if you lost that big chip on your shoulder, I can feel it from here X"

A chip? more like a fucking bolder. Guys like this make it harder for the nice ones. Which to be fair a good few have posted on here. It is a wonder he has not been kicked off here with his attitude and disrespectful comments about women.

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

For calling you out for calling blokes out for nothing. You should be kicked off. Is a hate post.

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"For calling you out for calling blokes out for nothing. You should be kicked off. Is a hate post. "

And this from the guy who slagged other guys off on posts. Easy to check your past posts on here. You are very aggressive. Id advice ladies to stay well clear!!!!

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

Actally let's be factual. No disrespect to any women. Just you. Your whole post disrespectful to men. .

Separate comments other day was a guy saying any more bad news fuck his mental health. So you thought ohe yeah. Let me how on just to say you got a small cock.

You all see through

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By *ornywelsh2sum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Actally let's be factual. No disrespect to any women. Just you. Your whole post disrespectful to men. .

Separate comments other day was a guy saying any more bad news fuck his mental health. So you thought ohe yeah. Let me how on just to say you got a small cock.

You all see through "

not a small cock, no cock at all, im a woman lmao. if you dont like what you read in a forum post then dont reply to it, no one forced you to, but you cant seem to help your self. your the one looking like an absolute tool. and a lot of people seem to think the same

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry


"Actally let's be factual. No disrespect to any women. Just you. Your whole post disrespectful to men. .

Separate comments other day was a guy saying any more bad news fuck his mental health. So you thought ohe yeah. Let me how on just to say you got a small cock.

You all see through

not a small cock, no cock at all, im a woman lmao. if you dont like what you read in a forum post then dont reply to it, no one forced you to, but you cant seem to help your self. your the one looking like an absolute tool. and a lot of people seem to think the same

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you are the tool. Me I've been on here 2 months an at point where I turn women down got so many lol . You can't even get blokes to meet you and there blokes up in everyone's inbox but still... lol

PS. Insult all you want on your man hating post.. single blokes like me are just fine even with all the demonising that goes on in the forums from the same people.

PSs. I never looked as never do. So no idea. But I know mental health ain't no joke so I was fine come on and say that

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