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By *eard and Tatts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

.... Then you message, its 2 days later and they proceed to never read the message and were online 17 mins ago.

Why?

Don't waste my time

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By *uilder1206Man
over a year ago

oakdale

That’s certainly up there with 1-5 works messages, normally by people without avatars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good wink, it's a nice way of showing interest that doesn't put pressure on or bog down the Mailbox X

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Love a good wink, it's a nice way of showing interest that doesn't put pressure on or bog down the Mailbox X"

I’d love to wink at you but can’t.

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By *ustUS in CardiffCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We never pay any attention to winks. If the 'winker' was really interested they would send a message.

Winkers or wankers!

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon


"We never pay any attention to winks. If the 'winker' was really interested they would send a message.

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We tend to use it as a way to see if people are interested, if not then it avoids any awkward chat

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By *rwgMan
over a year ago

Ammanford


"Love a good wink, it's a nice way of showing interest that doesn't put pressure on or bog down the Mailbox X"

Shane I can’t wink you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer a wink before a message. Most messages are from people who haven't read our profile so are ignored. With a wink we can check out the profile to see if we are interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate winks. I don't respond. Send a message instead

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

I have always deleted winks.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"Love a good wink, it's a nice way of showing interest that doesn't put pressure on or bog down the Mailbox X"

100%, okay my mail box is not bog down, but a wink is still nice.

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By *andomAccessMemoryMan
over a year ago

Usk

Forum is the best way to start chatting to peeps, the message way can be a bit forward and overwhelming if your popular/ a woman. The wink is a nice neutral way of showing interest but I see how if they don’t respond to your reply it could be irritating, but, at least you get the measure of their interest in you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve started sending winks as the vast majority of my messages I send don’t get replied to,if I receive a wink I’ll always repond ,the last woman that winked at me I met a couple of days later & we had a great evening,so winks can be worth while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets are via winks, I keep my filters tight to show down the ndola from guys who clearly don't read the profile & I actively seek what I like & will wink. If I receive a wink I'll look at the profile & if I think it fits what I'm looking for I'll message or wink back X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to receive a wink so I could add to this thread.

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By *eard and Tatts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Yeah new rule.

Grow some Bollocks and send a message

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys


" I actively seek what I like & will wink. If I receive a wink I'll look at the profile & if I think it fits what I'm looking for I'll message or wink back X"

This, a mutual wink leads to a message and then go from there. Its how I got several meets on my previous profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a good wink, it's a nice way of showing interest that doesn't put pressure on or bog down the Mailbox X"

Fully agree

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By *ornyhubbyhornywifeCouple
over a year ago

Neath


"Love a good wink, it's a nice way of showing interest that doesn't put pressure on or bog down the Mailbox X"

I like the wink too. Don't want to keep messaging people that might not be interested. They can wink back or message if they are interested then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah new rule.

Grow some Bollocks and send a message "

I'd rather not, they look a bit too Bulky for my liking X

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By *aerFilthyGuy!Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

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By *aerFilthyGuy!Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Most of my meets are via winks, I keep my filters tight to show down the ndola from guys who clearly don't read the profile & I actively seek what I like & will wink. If I receive a wink I'll look at the profile & if I think it fits what I'm looking for I'll message or wink back X"

 

 

By CaerFilthyGuy! Man

just this minute! 

Caerphilly

I cant wink at you Mandy, but we've previously met (twice) so guess I'm lucky in that respect... lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my meets are via winks, I keep my filters tight to show down the ndola from guys who clearly don't read the profile & I actively seek what I like & will wink. If I receive a wink I'll look at the profile & if I think it fits what I'm looking for I'll message or wink back X

 

 

By CaerFilthyGuy! Man

just this minute! 

Caerphilly

I cant wink at you Mandy, but we've previously met (twice) so guess I'm lucky in that respect... lol x

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

I like the wink function, its a great way to show interest. Just wish I could do it with only one eye

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

I only get them off blokes lol block..

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By *ilthy brownieMan
over a year ago

yours


"I only get them off blokes lol block.."

Same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try winking but most women think my contacts are playing up!

Shit dad jokes I know lol

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I always respond to winks as it's a sign of obvious interest, and the ensuing get togethers that started with a wink have led to some fantastic friendships, but I do get why women and couples with their in boxes brimming with fan mail don't always respond to winks as they would never get the time to answer them all.

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By *uckyNineMan
over a year ago

prescot

I’m such a winker!!

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By *oupleofkinks82Couple
over a year ago

torfaen


"I try winking but most women think my contacts are playing up!

Shit dad jokes I know lol"

Love a good dad joke

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

I only send a wink if I'm really really interested. The reason I dont message is because couples and single females get inundated by men. I don't want to be one of those pests that puts them off Fab

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By *ngelLordCouple
over a year ago

Newport

We do use the and like the wink and if wink back a message will be sent if we wink first but we not send if profile empty we look at overall profile not just pics

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By *eard and Tatts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran


"We do use the and like the wink and if wink back a message will be sent if we wink first but we not send if profile empty we look at overall profile not just pics "

Quality over quantity

If people take the time to talk that can be alot hotter then looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the aim of the thread is to seek others views not to keep repeating your own until people agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a good wink, it's a nice way of showing interest that doesn't put pressure on or bog down the Mailbox X"

I would love to wink you but I can’t see your profile

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


".... Then you message, its 2 days later and they proceed to never read the message and were online 17 mins ago.

Why?

Don't waste my time"
I know some people have a lot of messages on here and they bulk delete so it could just be your message got lost in amongst all that.

Winks come be a great way to show someone your interested we are useless with winks tho we keep forgetting to check them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are these people with hundreds of messages? Not me

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By *unning-ManMan
over a year ago

Prestbury

A wink, or fabbing a photo, is a bit like catching someone's eye in a bar. If they are busy or not interested then you won't get a response back.

Of course if you don't like a wink as an opening gambit that is fine, just ignore them.

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea

Loves a wink

Wink away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loves a wink

Wink away"

I would,but you’ve blocked messages & presumably winks from single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink makes them think

But wink to much you will go blind

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By *inkyKissCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We wink if we're interested and if others reciprocate, great, and vice versa.

Sometimes we'll read a message, then mark unread so the other half can read it also, make sure we're both up for it, and reply. Hence the latency. All for the best.

P&L x

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By *WkinkymaleMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

I wink and will reciprocate if I receive one

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By *oves2please2021Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I’m a winker…

I feel it’s less Intrusive.

If the recipient likes and they wink back il always follow up with a msg..

Winking definitely has its benefits

Feel free to wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy a wink. If we get one and like what we see and read, we'll wink back in hopes of a convention starting up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pay attention to winks, I'd rather a message to be honest!

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