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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do people know if someone wants to with them? It seems unless someone tells me they want to sit on my face I'm clueless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, I'm oblivious unless told or shown

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

Me also - not a clue.

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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago

deepest, darkest West

I find a direct, "would you like to fuck?" helps clear the air, one way or another.

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys


"I'm the same, I'm oblivious unless told or shown"

Same, I just assume people are being friendly

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By *alum 69-69Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's a bit of a minefield tbh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never assume if someone wants to play unless they ask me.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We're also totally clueless. Chatting with a couple at a club, a few years ago, the lady kept playfully squeezing Rob's bum and even slipped her hand up his boxers leg. Totally just thought she was being friendly so didn't follow up on it.

She then got all huffy and they left We literally need it spelling out in small words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're also totally clueless. Chatting with a couple at a club, a few years ago, the lady kept playfully squeezing Rob's bum and even slipped her hand up his boxers leg. Totally just thought she was being friendly so didn't follow up on it.

She then got all huffy and they left We literally need it spelling out in small words "
can I fuck you

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By *laytonAMan
over a year ago

Newport

Its all about Communication and consent, right... Just talk and be yourself.

I was on here before and left and really had to ask myself what i want from the site, update profile. Etc.

End of the day its a swingers site not a hook up site there's a big difference.

If someone is interested it will be obvious and things will happen if you're genuine.

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By *igNick1381Man
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"We're also totally clueless. Chatting with a couple at a club, a few years ago, the lady kept playfully squeezing Rob's bum and even slipped her hand up his boxers leg. Totally just thought she was being friendly so didn't follow up on it.

She then got all huffy and they left We literally need it spelling out in small words "

As she's stroking your dick

...so, this economy ay

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"We're also totally clueless. Chatting with a couple at a club, a few years ago, the lady kept playfully squeezing Rob's bum and even slipped her hand up his boxers leg. Totally just thought she was being friendly so didn't follow up on it.

She then got all huffy and they left We literally need it spelling out in small words

As she's stroking your dick

...so, this economy ay"

That was pretty much how it went I think we were chatting about mortgages at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what u all mean. I never assume anyone is interested in me so I just admire from afar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find a direct, "would you like to fuck?" helps clear the air, one way or another. "

Quickest way to the block list

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By *ttoWoman
over a year ago

llanelli

I always assume I’m unattractive so an ‘I like you, I’m attracted, would you like this to go further’ would clarify without being offensive???????

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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago

deepest, darkest West


"I find a direct, "would you like to fuck?" helps clear the air, one way or another.

Quickest way to the block list "

That's disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find a direct, "would you like to fuck?" helps clear the air, one way or another.

Quickest way to the block list

That's disappointing. "

Not my block list, but me onto the recipients no doubt

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By *asper707070Man
over a year ago

Penarth

Not just me then? I'd probably need smacking with a very big sign to realise anyone was interested... FFS!

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By *ariadcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff/Bristol

Mutual eye contact says a lot

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By *elshhung50Man
over a year ago

caerphilly

Maybe before meet I allways suggest a sign that I want to go further

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By *hunkeeMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Clydach

Reading this profile, I'm glad I'm not the only who has issues reading signs

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"I know exactly what u all mean. I never assume anyone is interested in me so I just admire from afar lol "

Ewe is too gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also clueless reading signs of interest

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By *ardiffGeekMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I usually find out when it's too late and then look back at all the signs I missed. No matter how obvious.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"I find a direct, "would you like to fuck?" helps clear the air, one way or another. "

That’s an approach I would appreciate

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I'm as good as blind at reading signs, I just prefer the straight forward approach.

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3

Always been oblivious (or just plain unattractive)

But there’s a massive dichotomy too as There’s this myth about confidence and taking control and the reality of damaging friendships and losing respect by being forward after misreading.

In all honesty I usually find out years later when the chance is long gone that there was a mutual attract.

It’s slightly more complicated as I don’t think anyones ever met me and gone ‘wow’, I tend to grow on people I guess and that always came as a catch 22 as I’m sure that was mostly because I wasn’t trying to fuck them when everyone else was. Ah well, I got by in the end

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By *affygt61Man
over a year ago

rhondda

It started with a kiss.....

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By *jolnir85Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I’m rubbish when it comes to reading signs of interest. You’re better off just telling me straight. Wonder how many opportunities I have potentially missed because I’m clueless. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont make the first move for fear of rejection to be honest. I would rather them ask if I wanted to play sometime.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I won't make the first move either... I tend to chat and see if there's attraction and chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know exactly what u all mean. I never assume anyone is interested in me so I just admire from afar lol

Ewe is too gorgeous "

Aww thank u x

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Always thought I was ok at reading the signs. After missed opportunities and making a tit of myself misreading platonic friendships, I've concluded I'm bloody hopeless at it.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Really good question, whilst being very confident and outgoing, the first time you try and kiss somebody etc, especially these days, there is always a doubt

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

So ladies what are your "signs" you give off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm interested in someone I tend to look at them often and try to make eye contact. But I'll never be the first one to make conversation lol. But once we're talking I may touch their leg or arm subtly in conversation. I'm slightly more direct if I've had a few drinks tho lol.

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales


"I wont make the first move for fear of rejection to be honest. I would rather them ask if I wanted to play sometime."

Asking them if they want to play sometime and or a wink to send a radar to get the conversation going seems like a nice suttle way to give a sign of interest

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

A wink will always promt a response from me on the basis that nobody would send a wink in the first place if I hadn't aroused their curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a club I tend to bend over in a room, I seem to get interest that way

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By *uckwife69Woman
over a year ago

swansea

As a woman I feel the signs are quite easy to read, but as a cpl it is much more difficult to work out if people are interested in you both... not just one of you....

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

We are both chatty and it's not always easy to realise it not someone just being friendly....

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By *nsatiables21Couple
over a year ago

Neverland


"We are both chatty and it's not always easy to realise it not someone just being friendly...."

This is literally us. Hubby is a fan of the direct shall we get a room whereas I'm oblivious to the signs

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always thought I was ok at reading the signs. After missed opportunities and making a tit of myself misreading platonic friendships, I've concluded I'm bloody hopeless at it."

This lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im naturally flirtatious so sometimes I think they are just being flirty back without wanting to lead anywhere. I definitely need to be told they want to play with me or I just think its friendly

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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago

swansea

Clueless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont see the signs untill it's to late, a would you like to fuck approach would be much better.

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