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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I ignore messages from users who haven't read my profile fully; I can always tell that they haven't due to the content of their message.

Then I receive a barrage of abuse for not replying to their message or a string of baiting messages

This must happen to a lot of people on here. Do you delete and block or just ignore?

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By *adfun90Man
over a year ago

cwmbran

I’m always fair when messaging however I’m getting annoyed now with the amount of people that ask for pictures of face pics you send them over and they read message and ignore they don’t even have the decency to send a pic of themselves they say us men are worse but there’s couples and women on here that’s rude and give the swing scene a bad name like I said I’m fair I’ll message if I don’t get a reply then oh well but if I get a conversation going and they ask for a face pic then don’t reply it bugs me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never ask for a face pic as I dont send them. I only meet in the club or organised socials so there is no need. But I get messages containing dick/pussy pics daily and from the message header and content its clear they havent read my profile and it gets annoying. If someone cant read my profile properly I definitely wont be thinking of meeting them.

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Do you delete and block or just ignore?"

All three. Recently we had a couple consistently message. We replied, then ignored, deleted and ultimately blocked. Then the male partner sent us an abusive message from a single man profile, and blocked us. Tragic.

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By *ev257Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I also have a couple's account n constantly the same with us.

Ask people not to send cock pics or messages just saying "hi" or if no profile pictures then don't send message, we won't respond, n yet they still keep coming.

If they keep sending then we block them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wont even open them if the message heading is not what Ive asked for in my profile. Its the same for my couple account.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

Before I reply to any messages I look at the profile and pictures first... if I find something I don't like I either say no thanks, or delete. Still get abuse for not replying though. It's my profile and I'll run it as I wish

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By *ougar1966Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Normally just delete unread if it is obvious they haven't read my profile. Any further messages then just a block. Sometimes if I am peed off with the same message time after time I will reply and tell them where to go!!! Long winded cut and paste messages sent over and over again over a period of time does wind me up...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cut and paste messages are the worst! Sending 100 messages out hoping that 1 will reply

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

If people can't be bothered to read your profile, I doubt they are interested what appeals to you and more likely what the other individual wants.

Therefore, at first I would delete. If the individual becomes aggressive or nasty, then I would block.

Life is to short to allow certain individuals to live rent free in my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can always tell if my profile hasn't been read whwn I get sent messages.

I click on the profile to see if it appeals to me without opening the message.

If it doesn't then I delete the message without reading it.

It frustrates me so much that they don't take the tiny amount of time it takes to read my profile, it would have them getting rejected as I am very picky.

If they message back asking why I deleted their message I use the block button

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people can't be bothered to read your profile, I doubt they are interested what appeals to you and more likely what the other individual wants.

Therefore, at first I would delete. If the individual becomes aggressive or nasty, then I would block.

Life is to short to allow certain individuals to live rent free in my head.

"

Exactly what I have put in my profile. If they cant be arsed to spare a few minutes getting to know me through my profile they arent going to care about my pleasure on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ignore messages from users who haven't read my profile fully; I can always tell that they haven't due to the content of their message.

Then I receive a barrage of abuse for not replying to their message or a string of baiting messages

This must happen to a lot of people on here. Do you delete and block or just ignore? "

Reply, politely in the first instance.

If they are persistent, delete and block.

I've more people on my block list than friends list lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a simple BLOCK here

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Block is used as a last resort, but that's still quite a lot. People who obviously have not read the profile are a nuisance. We try to be polite all the time but ultimately it's block

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"It's a simple BLOCK here"

You may block stax's, but I know you not block shaft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up with messaging women, they're too demanding on here. Must be able to accommodate, must have a car, must attach a face pic, must have a big cock, must read my profile, must write a considerate message to a total stranger but cannot say "Hi". I'm waiting for a lady to spark up a conversation, hasn't happened yet. Shock horror.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I ask for my profile to be read, I don't demand anything.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"It's a simple BLOCK here

You may block stax's, but I know you not block shaft "

Haha I'm loving this reply! It's your other name I prefer

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"Before I reply to any messages I look at the profile and pictures first... if I find something I don't like I either say no thanks, or delete. Still get abuse for not replying though. It's my profile and I'll run it as I wish "

I have the same approach and it’s written in profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a simple BLOCK here

You may block stax's, but I know you not block shaft "

I'd never block you Shaft

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"It's a simple BLOCK here

You may block stax's, but I know you not block shaft

Haha I'm loving this reply! It's your other name I prefer"

What name is that sexymama?

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

If I'm sending mail. I use get confused think why they open but not delete. Surely just delete ill know you not interested and never come again or am I on a maybe list or what lol. But these days I just think women so swamped in mail/male is a like a delete yourself mate? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually enjoy reading the profiles as it gives a good indication of the person/people you are thinking of contacting.

There's lots to gain and is a potential time saver by taking the time to read a profile as you get a decent gauge of their personality/attitude, effort and not least potential red flags (not to mention respecting their wishes of no contact if you don't fit what they are looking for).

Making the effort to read a well written profile is also a good conversation starter opposed to the usual boring messages which I know I've been guilty of myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually enjoy reading the profiles as it gives a good indication of the person/people you are thinking of contacting.

There's lots to gain and is a potential time saver by taking the time to read a profile as you get a decent gauge of their personality/attitude, effort and not least potential red flags (not to mention respecting their wishes of no contact if you don't fit what they are looking for).

Making the effort to read a well written profile is also a good conversation starter opposed to the usual boring messages which I know I've been guilty of myself x"

I'm the same & really enjoy the humorous ones, which are sadly few & far between X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say, if I message someone, I always read the profile first, not just bombard as assume.

Women must get so many messages on here though, must be nuts ! Us men are chuffed if we get a reply lol

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By *illy_BoboMan
over a year ago

Blackwood

I will tell you my favourite thing to see on profiles is a verification which starts with "Well, what can I say...".

I just block the person who wrote that and then the verified person's account.

I've read profiles, sent the face pics etc and the majority of the time messages are just deleted which is fine as what I do now is just block that person's account so I don't message them again and be a nuisance.

I now just look at the pictures, read the verifications and will message if I see something I like but I'm mostly here as a voyeur.

The minority I have spoken to and had a conversation with I have enjoyed but I get the feeling from this site that going to socials etc is the way to go if you want to meet people in the flesh.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"It's a simple BLOCK here

You may block stax's, but I know you not block shaft

Haha I'm loving this reply! It's your other name I prefer

What name is that sexymama?"

Peter

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By *ittleLillyTV/TS
over a year ago

Pontypool

It’s always an instant block for me. If they’re that disrespectful online just imaging how they’ll behave in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will tell you my favourite thing to see on profiles is a verification which starts with "Well, what can I say...".

I just block the person who wrote that and then the verified person's account.

I've read profiles, sent the face pics etc and the majority of the time messages are just deleted which is fine as what I do now is just block that person's account so I don't message them again and be a nuisance.

I now just look at the pictures, read the verifications and will message if I see something I like but I'm mostly here as a voyeur.

The minority I have spoken to and had a conversation with I have enjoyed but I get the feeling from this site that going to socials etc is the way to go if you want to meet people in the flesh."

It's a sad fact that some women & no doubt some men have had really bad experiences when meeting people in private, even where they've done a coffee 1st. I know socials, clubs or parties aren't always foolproof, it just feels a bit safer. I do miss the random meets, but the risks outweigh those feelings X

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"It's a simple BLOCK here

You may block stax's, but I know you not block shaft

Haha I'm loving this reply! It's your other name I prefer

What name is that sexymama?

Peter "

I had to think about that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Another few people blocked today for not reading my profile but also some reading my profile and trying their luck anyway i.e. to get me to meet them alone outside of a club and meeting without the knowledge of my partner. It's not difficult to be respectful and read a profile!

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Tend to block if unsolicited friend requests are sent, as clearly stated on profile, so clearly haven't read. Generally won't reply to people we feel aren't a fit for what we look for, but do say hello to those who do.

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