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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

HELP me........ I have been on here for a while and have chatted to many a person, who have all been very sociable ......but I never seem to end up getting them to meet up......in fact I have met one person twice and had positive verification and feedback, but no more meets

What am I doing Wrong.....I have offered lifts to socials, asked if I can take people and go with people to socials to......its party season and i would love to party......help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well at least you have had one meet and been verified lots of single men aint had that yet. Only suggestion I can make is go into the chat rooms not old chat cos not many in there but new chat. Let the members get to know you and as long as you follow the chat room rules you should be fine and who knows you may have some fun Good luck Cat

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"HELP me........ I have been on here for a while and have chatted to many a person, who have all been very sociable ......but I never seem to end up getting them to meet up......in fact I have met one person twice and had positive verification and feedback, but no more meets

What am I doing Wrong.....I have offered lifts to socials, asked if I can take people and go with people to socials to......its party season and i would love to party......help "

Get along to a social and chatvgetvto know people and they will probably verify you..you have got a verification but the profile of that person is hidden.. so for us we wouldnt count that one and think it wasnt that recent...as we mentioned before..abiut going socials..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HELP me........ I have been on here for a while and have chatted to many a person, who have all been very sociable ......but I never seem to end up getting them to meet up......in fact I have met one person twice and had positive verification and feedback, but no more meets

What am I doing Wrong.....I have offered lifts to socials, asked if I can take people and go with people to socials to......its party season and i would love to party......help "

look at your profile as a selling point be honest plenty of face pics and visit socials meet people who others trust then your on your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only agree with the others ...

Get yourself noticed, in the right way, get asking to a social or an event, start chatting, and start posting in the forums

Above all else, patience is the greatest virtue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for All the help and tips folks look forward to the next social then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up dude, this website is so cliquey it's pointless. Just visit the wales chat room and try to start a conversation with someone. They will ignore you. Period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give up dude, this website is so cliquey it's pointless. Just visit the wales chat room and try to start a conversation with someone. They will ignore you. Period."

well i have never seen you there try new chat room people want reliability stick with it

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Give up dude, this website is so cliquey it's pointless. Just visit the wales chat room and try to start a conversation with someone. They will ignore you. Period."

we use wales chat and dont ignore anyone unless of course they are being ignorant childish or rude... even chat to people we wouldnt meet but they then think if you chat you will meet even if not what we are looking for..

I think looking at forum today weather is having an effect on some peoples attitude today.. it all seems to be blokes throwing toys out of cock.. cause they cant get a fuck..

if guys grew up a bit it might change for them.. not aimed at op as we have chatted and messaged.. come chat to us as we said at cardiff social..

People welcome to come chat and we will verify you ...

Cant do much more for people..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

remember can only veri on cam or meet i veri newbies in room chat as long as face on cam lol

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Give up dude, this website is so cliquey it's pointless. Just visit the wales chat room and try to start a conversation with someone. They will ignore you. Period.

well i have never seen you there try new chat room people want reliability stick with it "

Thats what i thought Warren.. Dont remember seeing the username in chat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on Fab for 2 years and had some fantastic times, so it's not about throwing anything out of a pram. In my judgement, it is the most difficult room to get accepted in. That's my point. No offence meant, just an obversation. And the reason i don't go in there is because I gave up on it a long time ago!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I've been on Fab for 2 years and had some fantastic times, so it's not about throwing anything out of a pram. In my judgement, it is the most difficult room to get accepted in. That's my point. No offence meant, just an obversation. And the reason i don't go in there is because I gave up on it a long time ago!"

right but your sweeping statement made it that everyone was like it and we are not and Warren talks to everyone.. there might be the odd one or two but maybe you should try again..might help or go socials..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, thanks for the advice x

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans


"Give up dude, this website is so cliquey it's pointless. Just visit the wales chat room and try to start a conversation with someone. They will ignore you. Period."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree the chat room is for the select few. Just send out nice messages put up good face pics the rest is easy I was on here for 5 months last time and had over 30 meets just be nice

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By *izzly1Couple
over a year ago

here

Maybe if every single guy who comes into that room didnt try to f*** every single woman on cam it wouldnt be so 'clique'.. im not saying every single man is the same.. but last night two or three single men came in.. went straight onto saying... "oh ******** view my cam and can i cum meet u in *******" not.. hey room or how is everyone.. they just jump in.. its a community room not a directing room... i wont go on webcam in there now unless im with T. As refusal often offends.

To change the lyrics.. a little more converasation.. a little less action.. and remember guys.. 50% of a womans orgasm is given mentally not by ur cocks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I went and said Hello to a few people in the chatroom befor and they were All very polite....I guess a lot of established people Will tend to form friendships....that's what we All do I guess....

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By *izzly1Couple
over a year ago

here

It can take me a few minutes or a while to join in to a conversation.. if its already busy it might take a while to get into it. Just dont keep flitting in and out and u will get an opportunity to join in. Most people will see a single man in and out of a room as looking for cam fun... or thats how i see it in chatrooms anyhow. My other half was where you are.. he said patience was the key to acceptance.. if u rush in u wont get far. (Just my opinion)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All advice welcome x

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By *wanzMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I'm smirking at the way that couples and single females are so happy to recommend that single guys use the chat rooms and even more go to 'socials' when they have blanket bans on single guys.

I've been in the site now about three years and there is nothing more daunting that going to a social if playing the single guy card ... Cliques do exist - and its VERY hard to get amongst them at socials etc ...

My honest genuine advice from a single guy : Be patient, don't force things to happen, don't expect fireworks - It will happen... slowly but surely

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I'm smirking at the way that couples and single females are so happy to recommend that single guys use the chat rooms and even more go to 'socials' when they have blanket bans on single guys.

I've been in the site now about three years and there is nothing more daunting that going to a social if playing the single guy card ... Cliques do exist - and its VERY hard to get amongst them at socials etc ...

My honest genuine advice from a single guy : Be patient, don't force things to happen, don't expect fireworks - It will happen... slowly but surely "

Socials can be a bit daunting but if you verifications as it does help then thats the easiest way to get them. We have only been to Cardiff and found it very friendly and welcoming.

We only meet single men so although we recommend socials we do not have a blanket ban on men.

Oh and we were really struggling and finding the site not what we expected and about to leave until a couple talked us into going to a Cardiff Social and it made such a difference and made a difference in chat as well because people then realise you are genuine.

So we couldn't recommend it enough. if you are happy with site and what you are getting out of it then brilliant no need unless you enjoy a nightout with other members but if you are not getting meets then they are perfect you can get verified and possibly arrange further meets..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think of the site as a pub

You'll feel a stranger for the few times you go in at the start, but by hanging around you'll get to be seen ....

You'll also start to recognise other oriole, and can feel bold enough to join in a conversation

If you were to barge in and say "look at my cock" on the first occasion you'll rightly be ignored or shown the door

So come on in, join in and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for the help....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just made a tit out of myself...for not knowing what vanilla meant......anybody want to fill me in on thd meanings of words please...

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