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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This has always intrigued me.

I need attraction at a meet to be able to get in the mood and preform.

From reading lots of profiles and verifications it would appear that men don't need the same.

Am I right?

How can you 'stand to attention' if there is no attraction?

Enlighten me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I prefer a social meet before as there needs to be an attraction,if I don't fancy the lady then I wouldn't feel the urge to take things further.

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By *attoodchapMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Us men are just dogs! Sex is always much better when there's an attraction but we can aroused pretty easily!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I’m not sure how you would know from profiles and verifications that their was no attraction.

I’ve yet to see a veri that says “I wasn’t attracted to her but any hole Is a goal and I fucked her anyway”. ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol granted I haven't seen a veri saying that.

But there seems to be such a variety of woman on some mens verifications.

It just got me thinking as I have always assumed everyone has a 'type'

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

I personally brain wise prefer to find someone attractive.

Horn fog however changes a man. Its only after post nut clarity you realise what you just slept with. Although tbh I've been attracted to my veris

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

However, my advice to a lot of men is, before making a important decision, have a wank first. Post nut clarity makes you see sense.

Wank before you message folks!

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By *attoodchapMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"However, my advice to a lot of men is, before making a important decision, have a wank first. Post nut clarity makes you see sense.

Wank before you message folks!"
that's the best advise I was ever given....never make a decision before having a wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wank, looks like I will just have to go with the flow

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales

I can’t just fuck anyone. Has to be a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There HAS to be an attraction, or it just isn’t something to take further.

I DO have a ‘type’ I’m particularly attracted to, but through my lifetime I have been out with a couple of ladies who don’t fit that usual ‘type’...

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

So much I could say here but I will spare you all from it .

I can't play with 'just anyone'. I definitely need to be attracted to the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has always intrigued me.

I need attraction at a meet to be able to get in the mood and preform.

From reading lots of profiles and verifications it would appear that men don't need the same.

Am I right?

How can you 'stand to attention' if there is no attraction?

Enlighten me "

I think quite a few women tend to have a "type" that they look for here, but agree, I have seen some male profiles that indicate they don't necessarily.

Not sure it's a crime, but just would make me somewhat wary of the "any holes a goal", if you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has always intrigued me.

I need attraction at a meet to be able to get in the mood and preform.

From reading lots of profiles and verifications it would appear that men don't need the same.

Am I right?

How can you 'stand to attention' if there is no attraction?

Enlighten me "

By no means all but a fair few men see any hole is a goal.. empty the sack in someone is better than a wank..

Slightly off subject..

I worked with a single male and to be fair he was single in South Wales and he'd boast about some 'skank' he'd fucked from fabswingers saying she was rough as fuck etc etc so I'd read his veri and it was all compliments..

He had no idea we was on this sight but it was an eye opener and we wondered how many more do this in the works canteen on a Monday morning.

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By *ookinglocal888Man
over a year ago

barry

Most blokes sat with it in their hand all day churching cheese messaging EVERY single women on here. And on other sites. Blokes will do anything that replies literally. And more so on here if get anything that replies they on it. Most getting palmed by the females and looking at everything. Most will do whatever replies. Women got thousand blokes a day coming through. Easy be select. Although they all getting done and spat out back end by the same 5 hunks on here going through all the women

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By *ercman50Man
over a year ago

blackwood

I’m a fat older guy and you could say can’t afford to be choosy but I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh no, definitly not a crime. Each to their own and all that.

I just seem to get soany message from men who appear to 'fuck' anything.

It's just not something I could do so it intrigued me to the logistics of it.

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Got to be an attraction for me everytime...its how we are....

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By *oolybullyMan
over a year ago

Close enough

Fortunately attraction can be found in many forms.

You may excuse something you don't like for something that really turns you on or you can find many attractions and then something can override that and turn you right off.

No one is perfect and sometimes it's those imperfections that set people apart.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

If I'm not attracted to a women I won't meet them, let alone fuck them

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By *AZTASTICMan
over a year ago

Barry

Definitely need attraction. And flirting early on gets the feeling stirring. And I live a good snog . then anything goes

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No I need attraction, I'd make a crap sex worker

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By *orthMan
over a year ago

Swansea

It's how you approach the scenario and work out what both parties want from a meet. I love anon to groups so I'm easily pleased lol

I've met people i wouldn't necessarily approach out and about but after said meet I'd pick them over a "show piece" any day due to how we clicked while playing etc.

Just because they are beautiful and perfect in every way, doesn't mean they can't also be one of the worst meets lol.

I go with the approach of we're all here for a very similar reason so just indulge and go out side the comfort zone you're used too and indulge in something "different"

Doesn't mean standards,safe sex or hygiene gets cast aside

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Wow this takes some reading, the mind of a man,?, As a man most guys will boast about their weekend conquest and how good he was, which really means he probably prematurely ejaculated,as most young med did, lol,and all men are not dogs or don't give a shit only a certain few, usually those who hassle the ladies through fab chat, decent men do respect a love the fairer sex as it should be, as for OP question their does have to be attraction between 2 3 or 4 people it wouldn't work if not, attraction Is what lights the fire, for some to say it's just a fuck shows their true colours and that goes for fella's and the girls.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley

Umm as I use a club most of the time I'd say that yes guys (what I call the wanking dead) will pounce on any action happening in a chance to get a fuck.

However, I'd consider it an honour to be asked to play, and I have actually been diplomatic and declined when not attracted.

I always talk to whoever I don't play with so I'm not the only hole is a goal sort of person I guess ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats an interesting thought if someone who your not attracted to was in a mass orgy , do you skip it and move to the next hole

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"thats an interesting thought if someone who your not attracted to was in a mass orgy , do you skip it and move to the next hole "

Yes, just because they're there it doesn't mean you have to play with them

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