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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering, how many people, actually talk about contraception prior to engaging in activity?? If you are going/have been bareback (god forbid) with someone. Do men ask if the female is on the pill/coil/injection or do you as a female tell said male prior to engaging??

This came up in conversation with a friend of mine.. and he just assumed that the person he was seeing at the time was on the pill, it didn't occur to him to ask, could have been a messy situation lol

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By *ronwpebrMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I always discuss it! I'm too old to beca father again ... and too poor!!

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By *hunkeeMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Clydach


"Just wondering, how many people, actually talk about contraception prior to engaging in activity?? If you are going/have been bareback (god forbid) with someone. Do men ask if the female is on the pill/coil/injection or do you as a female tell said male prior to engaging??

This came up in conversation with a friend of mine.. and he just assumed that the person he was seeing at the time was on the pill, it didn't occur to him to ask, could have been a messy situation lol"

Always use condoms regardless of her being on the pill or using other methods - safer all round.

For me personally, I've only ever not used anything in committed, long term relationships.

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By *lan96Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Having a vasectomy was the best but painful thing ever.

No chance of me having any more kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's ever mentioned when chatting with someone I always ask the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know several men above fallen foul of this one, so at a guess I'd say they don't see it as their problem. I'm too old to talk to talk contraception, but I do talk safety X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem as far as I'm concerned as all the women I've met lately have been well past child bearing age,though always assume I'll be using a condom anyway.

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By *edi123Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

Always carry a rubber and always practice safe sex even if the other person/couple is t bothered

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By *ac711Man
over a year ago

south Wales

Having a vasectomy doesn’t mean anything what about STDs ffs I’ve had one but always offer to use a condom

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By *riginalbanana7Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Always ask but there’s always that bit of excitement of the risk of pregnancy. Especially with a hot wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always ask but there’s always that bit of excitement of the risk of pregnancy. Especially with a hot wife "

Me and my partner will always not use anything while together but rules are the guys will always use condoms with me and other half will always use condoms with other women.. plus we do get ourselves tested to be extra cautious x

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By *riginalbanana7Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"Always ask but there’s always that bit of excitement of the risk of pregnancy. Especially with a hot wife

Me and my partner will always not use anything while together but rules are the guys will always use condoms with me and other half will always use condoms with other women.. plus we do get ourselves tested to be extra cautious x"

That’s completely understandable.

Also very sensible. The only point I was trying to get at was it feels so naughty to breed someone’s wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on the pill for 7 years now but always make sure to use a rubber. Yes I know it's unlikely I'd get pregnant anyways but there's far scarier things out there that need to be protected from!

That being said if I'm seeing someone regularly and we are exclusive in terms of going Bareback that can be very fun, but trust must be built for this to happen, would never just do it off the cuff - as those of you who've seen me throwing condoms round chams will know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The words that come out of my mouth have been my contraception lately, FML I need to get better at this

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By *ordL98Woman
over a year ago

Talbot Green

It's a conversation that you need to have before the meet, and should never be assumed. Personally I hate the feel of condoms and prefer bareback, but not with any anyone.

It's probably a good place to remind everyone of the service provided by Frisky Wales, the free test and post STI check you can do at home. Worth doing periodically, even if you use condoms

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

They never ask. They must think I'm past it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a conversation that you need to have before the meet, and should never be assumed. Personally I hate the feel of condoms and prefer bareback, but not with any anyone.

It's probably a good place to remind everyone of the service provided by Frisky Wales, the free test and post STI check you can do at home. Worth doing periodically, even if you use condoms "

I reckon they get a lot of regular custom from this site, I do one every month even if its only my mouth I've used. But like you I do prefer BB fun & will indulge in that if I know I've got a long enough break in fun coming up to go through the testing process before getting back out there. I'll often take a break of a month or so X

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"They never ask. They must think I'm past it."

But you only 42!

While you might not want children you are certainly capable!

An odd thing to assume!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get asked but I always insist on condoms.

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By *inx and ViperCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Viper is snipped and I’m on contraception but we still insist on condoms, Sti’s aren’t fun either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to presume, now I just rubber up until I'm sure they're on something. I'm a handful as it is, last thing I need is more of me.

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