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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would you feel if someone you thought you knew well referred to a couple as 'rough, but 'a good start back into swinging' then promptly met them for 'mediocre' fun. Would you accept that, would you be happy to be thought of or used in that way, tell the other party or just butt out & leave those with no morals where they belong? I see this as a swinging site where trust & respect are key & this just doesn't sit right with me. I certainly hope no one meets me with such thoughts on their mind hence why I stick to club meets nowadays

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By *lwaysHangryMan
over a year ago

newport

Tell them.

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

Sounds like someone to avoid

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By *ac711Man
over a year ago

south Wales

What does a mediocre person mean?

a person that is not very good at something or not very good at anything in particular, or something that is not very good: These people are just mediocrities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does a mediocre person mean?

a person that is not very good at something or not very good at anything in particular, or something that is not very good: These people are just mediocrities. "

No idea but it's not a word I'd like to called, although I think that's one of the few words I would ever be called

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By *ac711Man
over a year ago

south Wales

We all have bad experiences on times Can’t be perfect or amazing at every meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all have bad experiences on times Can’t be perfect or amazing at every meeting "

Very true, bringing up my pastie while being gave fucked was one of them although he loved it because he thought it meant his cock was huge

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By *ac711Man
over a year ago

south Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be upfront with any issues and how you feel. That way everyone knows where you stand and where they stand best way to be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always be upfront with any issues and how you feel. That way everyone knows where you stand and where they stand best way to be! "

He knows where he stands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always be upfront with any issues and how you feel. That way everyone knows where you stand and where they stand best way to be!

He knows where he stands"

Good I'm glad! X

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By *ilthy brownieMan
over a year ago

yours


"How would you feel if someone you thought you knew well referred to a couple as 'rough, but 'a good start back into swinging' then promptly met them for 'mediocre' fun. Would you accept that, would you be happy to be thought of or used in that way, tell the other party or just butt out & leave those with no morals where they belong? I see this as a swinging site where trust & respect are key & this just doesn't sit right with me. I certainly hope no one meets me with such thoughts on their mind hence why I stick to club meets nowadays "

Everyone I've met on here trust dearly but some people u just got to leave them alone..only honest trusting pervy people for me please x

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By *un loving man 35Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Dosnt sound really good but still up to you hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would completely distance ourselves from that person also we wouldn't tell the couple as we wouldn't want to get involved in any kind of drama that could possibly occur.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would completely distance ourselves from that person also we wouldn't tell the couple as we wouldn't want to get involved in any kind of drama that could possibly occur. "

You've captured exactly where I'm at, it's immoral, disrespectful & manipulative but not for me to point out to the couple, because people always shoot the messenger. I truly believe in Karma, what goes around, comes around.

Thank you everybody, its hard to think straight when you're being gaslight X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would completely distance ourselves from that person also we wouldn't tell the couple as we wouldn't want to get involved in any kind of drama that could possibly occur.

You've captured exactly where I'm at, it's immoral, disrespectful & manipulative but not for me to point out to the couple, because people always shoot the messenger. I truly believe in Karma, what goes around, comes around.

Thank you everybody, its hard to think straight when you're being gaslight X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would want to be told if I was part of the couple. That type of person isn't someone I would want to be fucking. I would respect the messenger.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

I think I would probbaly tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how well you know the cple. Would they take it as concern or wld they take as you're just jealous (as pple can use that as a defence mechanisim) this would put you in a bad situation with the cple. In this instance just mention that they should be aware of that person as you don't think they are as transparent as they seem. Good luck either way. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going to leave it there tbh, I'm unable to approach the couple due to age range etc & tbh I don't want the fallout. I've done my bit by telling said person what I think of the behaviour & cutting all contact. I think it's for couples/ people to carefully vet who they choose to meet. This was more a check that I wasn't over reacting X

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