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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just for fun this to see what others say

You put up a meet today post and get 3 offers ... if no1 offer doesn't turn up would you go to no2 or 3 knowing you have already turned them down for what you thought was better or would you cut your loss and do bugger all ..or something else .

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By *ananaNoDramaMan
over a year ago

Caerdydd

I think anybody who uses this site to meet would understand just how unreliable some of the people are on here so I think it’s fair play to move on to your next choice if the first was a no-show or cancelled. At the end of the day you were presumably looking to meet one person/couple at once so you had to make a choice at who you thought was most suitable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

BTW this is just for fun this has not happened to me , have been here way too long to not know the ins and outs of fab

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, Not in


"BTW this is just for fun this has not happened to me , have been here way too long to not know the ins and outs of fab "

It has happened to me and I then go to No2. Much better to meet than just give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d go on to number 2, but kudos to you if you’re getting 3 offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cut my losses because I'm in the mindset for what enticed me to no 1 & that's unlikely to be what I'd wanted. No"s 2 & 3 will keep for another day when what they're offering might be what I'm seeking X

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By *hunkeeMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Clydach

Looking at it from the no. 2 or even no. 3's point of view, and depending on the type of rejection, if they'd been rejected I doubt they'd give "you" a second chance anyway.

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

I think if you're straight with numbers 2 and 3, and you say "Thank you for the interest, but I've got a meeting set up already", then you go back to them with "It fell through, are you still available?" you might get a positive response. It's when people mess you about, go silent or lie ("I'm not meeting, I'm out shopping with my sister" was a belter, confirmed to be bollocks when they posted the veri from the meet later) that the problems creep in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you're straight with numbers 2 and 3, and you say "Thank you for the interest, but I've got a meeting set up already", then you go back to them with "It fell through, are you still available?" you might get a positive response. It's when people mess you about, go silent or lie ("I'm not meeting, I'm out shopping with my sister" was a belter, confirmed to be bollocks when they posted the veri from the meet later) that the problems creep in."

I remember that one haha she was so sly

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

Sly is a very polite description.

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