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By *avrick180 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

A lot of women on here only seem to go for the pretty boys or looking for 8in and over cock

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Oh dear

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I go for guys with good pics and an interesting profile. Six packs and pretty faces do not appeal to most women I know here.

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By *avrick180 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

Wish more women was like you and see the best in a person and not the size of hes cock and if he's got a 6pack

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

All about personality and chemistry for me.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Wish more women was like you and see the best in a person and not the size of hes cock and if he's got a 6pack "

I speak to more fab women than you as I go to parties and clubs. I don't know any that seek 6 packs and big cocks. ALL the ones I know look at the whole package.

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By *avrick180 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

"Wish more women was like you and see the best in a person and not the size of hes cock and if he's got a 6pack

I speak to more fab women than you as I go to parties and clubs. I don't know any that seek 6 packs and big cocks. ALL the ones I know look at the whole package."
I bet but iv been on here 7years only had one meet that was good as I took her out for food and drinks even tho she did not look any thing like her photos but thought as a gentleman I would treat her as that's the way i am maybe because I'm old school

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

"I bet but iv been on here 7years only had one meet that was good as I took her out for food and drinks even tho she did not look any thing like her photos but thought as a gentleman I would treat her as that's the way i am maybe because I'm old school "

And therein lays the issue. It's nothing to do with 'old school' or having manners or treating ladies like ladies instead of pieces of meat or a set of inconsequential holes to fill. It's about the attitude and the effort you put in to your Fab 'presence'. Threads like these and the other one you started will do nothing but harm your opportunities. Because all ladies will do is see them and steer clear of you. They don't need to bother to find out why it's one meet in seven years, they just see the rant and move on almost immediately.

I am tired of repeating myself to people. But every now and then I see something like this that irks me from my slumber and say this:

Get along to a club or a social event and put the graft in. Show that you are willing to put the groundwork in so that people can get to know you and decide that you actually are a decent person and that you aren't just looking for a quick fix (if that is actually the case for you).

Otherwise you really are lost in the sea of literally thousands of other guys who fit the same label as you and even though you might not deserve to be classed like them for all I know, ladies will pass on by anyway because they have very limited time and a mass of potential people out there. So why wouldn't they be selective about the people that interest them?

Good luck OP, but threads like this will not help. If you feel frustrated, log off and come back after some time away

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By *avrick180 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

"I bet but iv been on here 7years only had one meet that was good as I took her out for food and drinks even tho she did not look any thing like her photos but thought as a gentleman I would treat her as that's the way i am maybe because I'm old school

And therein lays the issue. It's nothing to do with 'old school' or having manners or treating ladies like ladies instead of pieces of meat or a set of inconsequential holes to fill. It's about the attitude and the effort you put in to your Fab 'presence'. Threads like these and the other one you started will do nothing but harm your opportunities. Because all ladies will do is see them and steer clear of you. They don't need to bother to find out why it's one meet in seven years, they just see the rant and move on almost immediately.

I am tired of repeating myself to people. But every now and then I see something like this that irks me from my slumber and say this:

Get along to a club or a social event and put the graft in. Show that you are willing to put the groundwork in so that people can get to know you and decide that you actually are a decent person and that you aren't just looking for a quick fix (if that is actually the case for you).

Otherwise you really are lost in the sea of literally thousands of other guys who fit the same label as you and even though you might not deserve to be classed like them for all I know, ladies will pass on by anyway because they have very limited time and a mass of potential people out there. So why wouldn't they be selective about the people that interest them?

Good luck OP, but threads like this will not help. If you feel frustrated, log off and come back after some time away

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first rant iv made plus on that side you a lot younger than me 5months and had more meets than me

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By *avrick180 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

But being that when you talk to a woman with respect and not just a bit of meat gets you no ware as I have known that in the past

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

"first rant iv made plus on that side you a lot younger than me 5months and had more meets than me "

And so you have highlighted another possible stumbling block. If you read my profile instead of just checking the verification tally, you will see that I am not new. And yet you made assumptions and responded with them which shows maybe reading profiles isn't something that you do very thoroughly. And trust me the ladies know if their profile has been read and understood. This is just a new account. I have been on the scene for almost as long as you have and it has taken me this long through nothing less than hard work and effort to be where I am at now. Like a few other single males on here in South Wales, I am known at almost every single event and welcome at all of the major socials without invitation BECAUSE I bothered to get out there, time and again year after year, and make connections with people, and most aren't sexual in nature either.

Trust me if I sat at home hoping my pics and my profile would be enough, I would have quit a very long time ago. In fact I did. At least twice. My age is nothing but a number. Neither is yours. Not when you are in person meeting people for the first time at a social because funny enough people don't ask you about how old you are and then stop talking to you immediately if they don't like the answer. Yet on here, they can and do and filters also get involved.

Get face to face with people and you will discover that you're much more likely to be able to talk to people. And then after that, go with the flow.

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By *avrick180 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

Done clubs and that be sat there all night not a chat tryed mixing with people and getting blown out when trying to talk to then so what more can a 50 year old do

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

They stop dwelling on the fact that they are 50 in the first place. If you have that negativity inside you already then it will just convey itself whether you want it to or not and it will not end well.

It's just a number. I know many people who are older than you, male too, and loving life because they just let it go and stopped caring about the number. It sounds like it's your own attitude that is holding you back. Let it go and live, you have the whole world in front of you

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Good luck OP, I don't have much else to say that doesn't flog a dead horse. It's not a curse, unless you choose it to be

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By *avrick180 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

OK mate cheers just sometimes I feel its a dead end on here

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By *hunkeeMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Clydach

It can be difficult to break into the social side, especially when starting out, you are going into an already established group and it is daunting, especially if you're prone to shyness like me.

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By *aidinwalesWoman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

"It can be difficult to break into the social side, especially when starting out, you are going into an already established group and it is daunting, especially if you're prone to shyness like me."

This is where the singles only socials used to come in handy … everyone was in the same position and it was generally an ever changing group of people rather than established groups of friends

Might be worth thinking of getting these up and running again

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By *hunkeeMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Clydach

"It can be difficult to break into the social side, especially when starting out, you are going into an already established group and it is daunting, especially if you're prone to shyness like me.

This is where the singles only socials used to come in handy … everyone was in the same position and it was generally an ever changing group of people rather than established groups of friends

Might be worth thinking of getting these up and running again "

That would be good. I was lucky enough to attend the last Newport social with a friend, unfortunately she is no longer on the scene. Would be nice to get more involved and meet some new people.

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By *ougar1966Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Threads with titles like "Fu*king Shit" will not help your cause....

There is nothing in your profile that makes you stand out from the dozens of other men that message everyday, so why would I bother selecting you to message??

You are a smoker which will seriously reduce the amount of people that will meet you....

If you put the same effort into your messages to Women on here, as you have in your profile, then you want get any responses from the majority of us.

Just my opinion....

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By *EDHEADSLUT_KINGCCouple
over a year ago

city

I feel you pain mate took me well over a year to find my way as single bloke but what I did find was going to parties and socials helps connect with others cpls singles and then people get to know hope that helps budide good luck

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

sort them out maid

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley

It's no way anything to do with looks as women don't just go for the chippendale look alike.

Putting effort In reaps rewards. You do not need to message if you attend social events and clubs.

However, attending them doesn't mean anything will happen unless you actually talk to people when your there.

I've said on threads lots of times before, and you have others telling you the same.

Take their advice

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Look at the guys who are successful. What are their pics and profiles like? Do they attend socials and clubs?

You won't get far sitting on fab sending messages unless you have the profile and pics to tempt women in. There are new guys getting meets within a couple of weeks. And they don't have 6 packs or big dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at the guys who are successful. What are their pics and profiles like? Do they attend socials and clubs?

You won't get far sitting on fab sending messages unless you have the profile and pics to tempt women in. There are new guys getting meets within a couple of weeks. And they don't have 6 packs or big dicks."

A post like that isn’t needed there are lots of mixes of people at the club there are large slim old young, you cannot just say things like u have and expect people to say oh I will meet you so they will feel sorry for you. I’m the kind of person that prefers larger guys and girls

you have just 100% put everyone off you by this post and tbh I really don’t blame them

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

The heading of this post " fucking shit " suggest you can be a little aggressive and maybe no gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The heading of this post " fucking shit " suggest you can be a little aggressive and maybe no gentleman"

Red flag alert springs to mind #justsaying

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

"I bet but iv been on here 7years only had one meet that was good as I took her out for food and drinks even tho she did not look any thing like her photos but thought as a gentleman I would treat her as that's the way i am maybe because I'm old school

And therein lays the issue. It's nothing to do with 'old school' or having manners or treating ladies like ladies instead of pieces of meat or a set of inconsequential holes to fill. It's about the attitude and the effort you put in to your Fab 'presence'. Threads like these and the other one you started will do nothing but harm your opportunities. Because all ladies will do is see them and steer clear of you. They don't need to bother to find out why it's one meet in seven years, they just see the rant and move on almost immediately.

I am tired of repeating myself to people. But every now and then I see something like this that irks me from my slumber and say this:

Get along to a club or a social event and put the graft in. Show that you are willing to put the groundwork in so that people can get to know you and decide that you actually are a decent person and that you aren't just looking for a quick fix (if that is actually the case for you).

Otherwise you really are lost in the sea of literally thousands of other guys who fit the same label as you and even though you might not deserve to be classed like them for all I know, ladies will pass on by anyway because they have very limited time and a mass of potential people out there. So why wouldn't they be selective about the people that interest them?

Good luck OP, but threads like this will not help. If you feel frustrated, log off and come back after some time away

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100% this. Get yourself to the socials or the clubs. It’s the best way to get the most out of FAB. Ranting about it in the forums really isn’t going to give you a good reputation. Listen to the others in this thread OP. There’s a lot of good advice that you should definitely take on board. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish more women was like you and see the best in a person and not the size of hes cock and if he's got a 6pack

I speak to more fab women than you as I go to parties and clubs. I don't know any that seek 6 packs and big cocks. ALL the ones I know look at the whole package.I bet but iv been on here 7years only had one meet that was good as I took her out for food and drinks even tho she did not look any thing like her photos but thought as a gentleman I would treat her as that's the way i am maybe because I'm old school "

That just drove to my button and not the one you think. Some men have absolutely no clue X

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Op you have had good advice off the ladies and mr marmite who we met at the swansea social. This post would have done more harm than good for you unfortunately as most of us see this as a tad aggressive and shows you're very frustrated when things don't go the way you want. Big red flags buddy. Get to socials instead moaning on here and change your profile as there is nothing in ut at present to attract others. Listen to advice given and act in it.

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

We certainly don't look for 6 packs etc, its stated on our profile. We have chatted with you and yes found you polite but also you were unable to chat about anything other than this site. We also asked you for a social but you couldn't get there and couldn't accommodate. So the question arises how do you plan on meeting people?

Social events are good way to meet up as it's been pointed out above.

Hope you figure it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FUCKING SHIT !!! Thought it was a tread on problems with the toilet .

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"We certainly don't look for 6 packs etc, its stated on our profile. We have chatted with you and yes found you polite but also you were unable to chat about anything other than this site. We also asked you for a social but you couldn't get there and couldn't accommodate. So the question arises how do you plan on meeting people?

Social events are good way to meet up as it's been pointed out above.

Hope you figure it out."

Maybe he is married and thats why.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Seems like youre more interested in pretty boys with big willies than women bro

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By *ammo2k20Man
over a year ago

Newport

Honestly personally couldn't care if no one meets me lol life goes on!

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

"Seems like youre more interested in pretty boys with big willies than women bro "

This has just made me burst out laughing.

Mr Average Penis here is happy to report no shortage of female company. The secret? Women are human beings. Act accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play Bud,youve just committed Fab suicide.. no one on this site expects anything without a fair bit of effort. As a single guy expecting women to just roll over and say yes, then you are completely diluded. I wonder with posts like this wether Fab is actually a swingers site or a lonely hearts club forum

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By *ilthy brownieMan
over a year ago

yours

Manners with a lot of respect and patience goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, I've got a pretty average sized cock and a face like a bag of spanners and I seem to do alright...

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By *appytaffWoman
over a year ago

blackwood

Thing is I think the op did just want us women to roll over etc

The post is really just a reflection on the attitude of some to us fab ladies

Personally I’m clear in my profile thst there’s effort required to engage me and yet I still get random let’s fuck messages etc

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By *ammo2k20Man
over a year ago

Newport

"I dunno, I've got a pretty average sized cock and a face like a bag of spanners and I seem to do alright... "

Omg I spat my drink out I laughed way too hard bahaha this is the best

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By *tonerslut40Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

so what if I like a big cock? lol but genuine respect is what matters and lack of it is what keeps me from meeting a person, no matter how big the dick is. maybe start there op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno, I've got a pretty average sized cock and a face like a bag of spanners and I seem to do alright...

Omg I spat my drink out I laughed way too hard bahaha this is the best

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I'm so glad that the accurate description of my face has made you laugh!

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By *ammo2k20Man
over a year ago

Newport

"I dunno, I've got a pretty average sized cock and a face like a bag of spanners and I seem to do alright...

Omg I spat my drink out I laughed way too hard bahaha this is the best

I'm so glad that the accurate description of my face has made you laugh!

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Lol im sorry I couldn't help it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno, I've got a pretty average sized cock and a face like a bag of spanners and I seem to do alright...

Omg I spat my drink out I laughed way too hard bahaha this is the best

I'm so glad that the accurate description of my face has made you laugh!

Lol im sorry I couldn't help it

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I'll let you off, Im playing it for laughs anyway!

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Maybe bend the attitude a little dude. I find women are actually looking for a connection first and not just a quick fumble and go

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By *ia RooCouple
over a year ago

Margam Port Talbot

OP putting post up in the forums just because you cannot get meets, what woman would meet you now? Try start and saying something nice for a change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP putting post up in the forums just because you cannot get meets, what woman would meet you now? Try start and saying something nice for a change."

Exactly, this post screams beta male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP putting post up in the forums just because you cannot get meets, what woman would meet you now? Try start and saying something nice for a change.

Exactly, this post screams beta male."

What's a "beta" male?

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

"OP putting post up in the forums just because you cannot get meets, what woman would meet you now? Try start and saying something nice for a change.

Exactly, this post screams beta male.

What's a "beta" male? "
guessing alpha male vs beta male

hehehe amusing

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

"OP putting post up in the forums just because you cannot get meets, what woman would meet you now? Try start and saying something nice for a change.

Exactly, this post screams beta male.

What's a "beta" male? "

I'd your asking you may be one, no offense meant

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Everyone’s looking for something different.

If you can’t cope with the rejection then sites like this really aren’t the best place to be.

Maybe get out on the socials or clubs and get to meet like minded people. You’ll increase your friendships in the lifestyle and maybe get talking to more people, maybe even find someone who’s after the same things

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

"Everyone’s looking for something different.

If you can’t cope with the rejection then sites like this really aren’t the best place to be.

Maybe get out on the socials or clubs and get to meet like minded people. You’ll increase your friendships in the lifestyle and maybe get talking to more people, maybe even find someone who’s after the same things

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Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP putting post up in the forums just because you cannot get meets, what woman would meet you now? Try start and saying something nice for a change.

Exactly, this post screams beta male.

What's a "beta" male?

I'd your asking you may be one, no offense meant "

Sorry, I don't subscribe to made up "red pill" BS

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

"OP putting post up in the forums just because you cannot get meets, what woman would meet you now? Try start and saying something nice for a change.

Exactly, this post screams beta male.

What's a "beta" male?

I'd your asking you may be one, no offense meant

Sorry, I don't subscribe to made up "red pill" BS

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out of interest, what does “red pill” mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP putting post up in the forums just because you cannot get meets, what woman would meet you now? Try start and saying something nice for a change.

Exactly, this post screams beta male.

What's a "beta" male?

I'd your asking you may be one, no offense meant

Sorry, I don't subscribe to made up "red pill" BS

out of interest, what does “red pill” mean? "

It's some Internet b*llshit. Guys take "the red pill" and realise that the world is divided into "alpha males"

and "betas" (normal blokes)

Oh yeh, and that feminism is evil and women should serve "the alphas"...

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF

Lol ! And there was me thinking “ fucking shit “ was going to be some interesting anal faux pas tale

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