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By *avrick180 OP   Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

Well what a wank this site is hit 50 and ur fucked can't even get a tex or a meet some on here only after younger of older and you see a lot of younger women with older men give us over 50s a chance

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Moaning will get you nowhere....

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By *avrick180 OP   Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

After 7years makes you think if us over 50s have a chance on here only a rant

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Try going to socials,good night out and a bloody good laugh.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

What makes you think it's your age that's the problem? Have people said it?

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By *avrick180 OP   Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

Yeah tryed it be like billy no friends on that night spend a lot to get in and go home and no chats so whats a single man to do I'm not the only one to have said this

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Spent a lot to get in ? It's £2.50.....

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Yeah tryed it be like billy no friends on that night spend a lot to get in and go home and no chats so whats a single man to do I'm not the only one to have said this "

Half the people at socials are guys. And they attend regularly and have a good time.

Did people actually refuse to speak to you?

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By *avrick180 OP   Man
over a year ago

Pontypool


"What makes you think it's your age that's the problem? Have people said it? "
yes been told Ed it a few times that I'm to old and looking for younger even tho thay say looking for 49 plus

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By *e_SocksWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think a few bits are getting confused here.

So going to a swingers club as a single male can be expensive but going to a swingers social tends to either be free or as another on the thread said £2.50-£3. That's mainly to cover the room hire.

Your very negative OP and that isn't a good trait.People who complain about not getting meets or finding the site hard don't get far. The site gives what you put into it. Comment on forum posts attend the socials and your personality will shine through.

As for being age focused in a social environment it doesn't really matter as no one cares when your having a laugh

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"After 7years makes you think if us over 50s have a chance on here only a rant "

You have been on here 7 years?

Have you ever had success??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spent a lot to get in ? It's £2.50....."

Found this funny, I love the socials.

I have to say though op I really don't think its your age sorry, only saying as I'm 51 and doing just fine so maybe try and alter your approach, refresh your bio and pics ? Just suggestions, may help may not but best of luck to you going forward

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Over 50 and having the best time

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

It's the grizzling threads that would put me off to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the grizzling threads that would put me off to be honest "

Nothing worse than a complainer!

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By *ibbler and the NobblerCouple
over a year ago

Maesteg

Honestly, putting up two forum posts complaining isn't going to look good. There's better ways of asking for help when you feel you're struggling. You get out what you put in , I've made loads of friends who I also see outside of the clubs. Get to socials more ,mingle and just get out there

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"Honestly, putting up two forum posts complaining isn't going to look good. There's better ways of asking for help when you feel you're struggling. You get out what you put in , I've made loads of friends who I also see outside of the clubs. Get to socials more ,mingle and just get out there "

Says everything you need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the whinging entitled updates that told me all I needed to know, didn't even need to look at the profile X

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By *exyswingerbbwWoman
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"It's the whinging entitled updates that told me all I needed to know, didn't even need to look at the profile X"

This comment is spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm forty nine in a couple of months so I'd er, better make the most of it eh

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

It's definitely being over 50 that's the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's definitely being over 50 that's the issue."

I know. Like, I have met literally zero over fifties who are active singers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooppss...think you have been told.

At the end of the day everyone is entitled to choose who they want to meet and what they want to do.

That may frustrate you as it does most of us single guys on here but its reality.

Lots of guys, not many girls, you need to up your game or accept what it is

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"It's definitely being over 50 that's the issue."

There are plenty successful over 50s on here.

Guys seem quick to blame age on here if they don't get sex.

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By *ia RooCouple
over a year ago

Margam Port Talbot

we are both well over 50!! and enjoying life, have a few good Fab friends who we meet up with as its not all about Wham Bang Thank You Mam sex.

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

Well I'm over 50 and trust me I'm no slim diva like I was in the past and there's no complaints in meeting, ok it has been slower but that's due to covid and people are more selective.

I think you should revamp your profile and let people know about your wants and hobbies as well as putting some more pictures on, when at socials become a little more talkative and outgoing.

I hope this helps

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By *idlaldiMan
over a year ago

bridgend

Well im over 50 and lost the need to rant several years ago. I now grin a lot more, its life dont let it get you down, just smile when it does

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By *carlett CumslutWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

From your other thread you’ve been here 7 years and never been that successful, so that’s not just since being 50 is it Mr OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly now OP from reading your 2 current threads, why do you stay on here if the site is making you so angry and frustrated? Surely it can't be good for you and isn't providing you for whatever it is you're seeking. The site should be fun and enjoyable and it is obviously is currently neither for you. Take a break and concentrate on your social life outside of Fab, maybe come back in a few months with a fresh outlook on things. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'll be 60 next month & I know all I might want or need socially & sexually can be met via this site & as soon as I'm fit for fun I'll be getting back in the game. The fab experience has never changed with my aging, if anything its improved X

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By *irateking1965Man
over a year ago

swansea

Well.said miss, eloquent and concise

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By *irateking1965Man
over a year ago

swansea

I've always been an admirer of women of a certain age and it hasn't changed throughout my whole life and I doubt it will even though I'm the same age as the women I admire and also the older woman too , they are confident enough to say what they want and and to tell you if what you're doing isn't working for them , so gents you need to be just that a gent with these lovely women , if you can't meet them admire them from afar and enjoy.

Pirateking1965

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