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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I pinched this idea from another thread so let’s see if it will work in Wales

Ps I’m looking to

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By *honddaRhinoMan
over a year ago

Porth

yes I am looking for fwb as well

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By *oobyliciousnessWoman
over a year ago

outside Llanelli.

You are going to get plenty of offers hope it works out for you. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are going to get plenty of offers hope it works out for you. X "
thanks x

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By *ubforfandcoupleMan
over a year ago

pontardawe


"I pinched this idea from another thread so let’s see if it will work in Wales

Ps I’m looking to "

I am interested...

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By *reeneyes72Man
over a year ago

aberdare

I sent you a DM on Sunday

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

We’re FWB looking for a sexy single lady to join us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always looking. Who isn’t. What about fwb with free surf lessons x

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By *ola xWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry Shropshire

Also looking for a regular fwb too

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By *ELSH-FARMERMan
over a year ago

south Wales

Fwb or a fb would good

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

On the hunt for a friend with benefits here. Must be someone who gets a weird sense of humour though lol

And is up for the odd night at the cinema or pub for a bit of grub.

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

We are a fun couple with bi fem, looking for a lady to join us regularly, nights out and hopefully more

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By *unnybunsWoman
over a year ago

Between here and over there

Looking for a socials buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the hunt for a friend with benefits here. Must be someone who gets a weird sense of humour though lol

And is up for the odd night at the cinema or pub for a bit of grub. "

Same here but they're like gold dust, so much fuck n go nowadays. I knows it always been like that, but much more blatant about it than ever X

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"On the hunt for a friend with benefits here. Must be someone who gets a weird sense of humour though lol

And is up for the odd night at the cinema or pub for a bit of grub.

Same here but they're like gold dust, so much fuck n go nowadays. I knows it always been like that, but much more blatant about it than ever X"

Well the fuck n go has its place and uses. Even if i was seeing a fwb regularly thered still be the odd occasion for it. But it would be nice to be mates with someone. Getting a conversion started is the first hurdle.

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By *hrisy69Man
over a year ago

chester/hawarden

I miss having a regular FB/FWB she went and got married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love having a regular FWB !

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By *carlet11Man
over a year ago

Pontypool, Llanelli, St helens

Interested in someone for midweek fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for FWB or FB also

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy. "

Oh there are reliable guys out there

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By *loveyourassMan
over a year ago

Newport

I would love to have a FWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the hunt for a friend with benefits here. Must be someone who gets a weird sense of humour though lol

And is up for the odd night at the cinema or pub for a bit of grub.

Same here but they're like gold dust, so much fuck n go nowadays. I knows it always been like that, but much more blatant about it than ever X

Well the fuck n go has its place and uses. Even if i was seeing a fwb regularly thered still be the odd occasion for it. But it would be nice to be mates with someone. Getting a conversion started is the first hurdle. "

I totally agree, there is a place for fuck n go, but it isn't that satisfying as the only option if your looking to get into a naughty friendship, that's more the here n now in between kind of thing. FWB aren't meant to be exclusive, the clues in the name but some guys seem to think FWB = tied down, if only they knew me & my lifestyle view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love having a regular FWB ! "

OMG is that scenario man Osprey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pinched this idea from another thread so let’s see if it will work in Wales

Ps I’m looking to "

This would be amazing ps I’m looking too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy. "

I would turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for a lady friends with benefits to join us both.

Together and separate.

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By *woscoopsswanseaMan
over a year ago

swansea

Would love a fwb for regular play by ourselves and with others

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

Oh there are reliable guys out there "

Totally agree CJ.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I think the majority of singletons on fab are looking for fwb.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"On the hunt for a friend with benefits here. Must be someone who gets a weird sense of humour though lol

And is up for the odd night at the cinema or pub for a bit of grub.

Same here but they're like gold dust, so much fuck n go nowadays. I knows it always been like that, but much more blatant about it than ever X"

A fab has to more than a fuck and go, surely!. I like to get to know my fwb and that includes nights out, nights in cooking food. Not a relationship, but a mutual respect and understanding.

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"On the hunt for a friend with benefits here. Must be someone who gets a weird sense of humour though lol

And is up for the odd night at the cinema or pub for a bit of grub.

Same here but they're like gold dust, so much fuck n go nowadays. I knows it always been like that, but much more blatant about it than ever X

A fab has to more than a fuck and go, surely!. I like to get to know my fwb and that includes nights out, nights in cooking food. Not a relationship, but a mutual respect and understanding. "

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By *MSWestleyMan
over a year ago

Pen Y Fai, Bridgend


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy. "

That’s criminal…I’ll DM you…

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By *MSWestleyMan
over a year ago

Pen Y Fai, Bridgend


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

That’s criminal…I’ll DM you…"

Ah…Filters…can’t DM you…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much rather have a fwb over a fook and go.

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By *ncutthickness13Man
over a year ago

newbridge

Fwb would be just what the doctor ordered hopefully I don't get ghosted like casper this time though lol

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By *oasterMan
over a year ago

Sth Wales

I am looking for FB / FWB. Swansea west can accom

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

This is the ideal for me..

Anywhere across South Wales works for me but the closer to the West coast the better!

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By *areth100Man
over a year ago

hereford


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy. "

I’d turn up for you sassy mouth lady. But your age limit says I can’t ??

Look lovely xx

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy. "

You're backing the wrong horses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

You're backing the wrong horses. "

They are indeed, fortunately for me I have found exactly this

And it is exactly that, cooking, sofa, bedroom, nights out, days out and nights away, checking in on each other to make sure all is okay.

Didn't think I would find it but perseverance and waiting on the right woman has paid dividends

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

You're backing the wrong horses.

They are indeed, fortunately for me I have found exactly this

And it is exactly that, cooking, sofa, bedroom, nights out, days out and nights away, checking in on each other to make sure all is okay.

Didn't think I would find it but perseverance and waiting on the right woman has paid dividends "

Sounds fantastic! You're both lucky to have found each other.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

You're backing the wrong horses. "

Yep, guys like Roger, Simon and myself are the ones that actually turn up after arranging something.

If I've spent time getting to know a lady over messages and phone calls you cab rest assured that when she texts saying "hey fancy popping over coffee and a film" I'm turning up.

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

You're backing the wrong horses. "

Well those horses are bloody great at disguising themselves as genuine, nice men. My bullsh*t radar doesn't seem to work on here!

I've been given the advice of going to a club or social to get to know people that way but I'm quite intimated by the thought. X x

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By *ai MyrddinMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy. "

Seriously? There’s some utter bellends that give the genuine guys a bad name

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By *leasure-QueenWoman
over a year ago

The twilight zone

I like a social and a catch up with my play mates, but doing things together like cooking, days out, cinema etc feels too much like a relationship to me.

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By *ai MyrddinMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

You're backing the wrong horses.

Well those horses are bloody great at disguising themselves as genuine, nice men. My bullsh*t radar doesn't seem to work on here!

I've been given the advice of going to a club or social to get to know people that way but I'm quite intimated by the thought. X x "

I’d be happy to accompany you to a social to hopefully make you feel less intimidated. Absolutely no strings attached. If you want to go to one that I’m able to attend let me know

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

You're backing the wrong horses.

Well those horses are bloody great at disguising themselves as genuine, nice men. My bullsh*t radar doesn't seem to work on here!

I've been given the advice of going to a club or social to get to know people that way but I'm quite intimated by the thought. X x

I’d be happy to accompany you to a social to hopefully make you feel less intimidated. Absolutely no strings attached. If you want to go to one that I’m able to attend let me know "

Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy.

You're backing the wrong horses.

Well those horses are bloody great at disguising themselves as genuine, nice men. My bullsh*t radar doesn't seem to work on here!

I've been given the advice of going to a club or social to get to know people that way but I'm quite intimated by the thought. X x "

Don’t feel intimidated by it. Socials are by far the best way to get the most out of fab and they’re always fun. Newport one is a good one to go to. There’s usually 150-200 at that one. Check the forum if you are interested. If you do feel a bit adventurous you can always swing by Greenhouse afterwards for a club trip experience.

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X "

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman.

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By *ai MyrddinMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman. "

Many thanks Roger. As are you sir

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

We do what we can, old chap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman. "

I too can confirm this.

Haven't bumped into dai in a while but always the gentleman.

And can also vouch for Toby and Roger not being time wasters, fully into the swing life and far from being here to mess anyone around, both good guys

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman.

I too can confirm this.

Haven't bumped into dai in a while but always the gentleman.

And can also vouch for Toby and Roger not being time wasters, fully into the swing life and far from being here to mess anyone around, both good guys "

Alas, it's the few that give the good ones a bad name. Lots of guys think this is "instafuck"

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By *eak01Man
over a year ago

carmathen

Into fwb if interested x

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By *oyo58Man
over a year ago

wales

Very difficult to find the right person for this but once you do it's amazing, trips away abroad, shopping days, coffee dates, lingerie shopping for her not me lol, amongst other things and obviously being allowed to do this with the permission of her husband. Threesomes are amazing as well just the best thing having a fwb whos sexy as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oswestry as well here also looking for a fwb....

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman.

I too can confirm this.

Haven't bumped into dai in a while but always the gentleman.

And can also vouch for Toby and Roger not being time wasters, fully into the swing life and far from being here to mess anyone around, both good guys "

Thank ypu Simon for your kind endorsement. Next social we're both at we'll have a beer together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman.

I too can confirm this.

Haven't bumped into dai in a while but always the gentleman.

And can also vouch for Toby and Roger not being time wasters, fully into the swing life and far from being here to mess anyone around, both good guys

Thank ypu Simon for your kind endorsement. Next social we're both at we'll have a beer together "

Certainly up for that buddy, you goi g to Newport?

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman.

I too can confirm this.

Haven't bumped into dai in a while but always the gentleman.

And can also vouch for Toby and Roger not being time wasters, fully into the swing life and far from being here to mess anyone around, both good guys

Thank ypu Simon for your kind endorsement. Next social we're both at we'll have a beer together

Certainly up for that buddy, you goi g to Newport?"

Nah its always on the weekend and I turn into a professional dad at that time. That's why the mid week social is ideal for me.

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By *edinthecornerWoman
over a year ago

currently in PDI gran caneria


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman. "

Very true, dai is a gentleman and great company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the kind of thing I would like to find on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman.

I too can confirm this.

Haven't bumped into dai in a while but always the gentleman.

And can also vouch for Toby and Roger not being time wasters, fully into the swing life and far from being here to mess anyone around, both good guys

Thank ypu Simon for your kind endorsement. Next social we're both at we'll have a beer together

Certainly up for that buddy, you goi g to Newport?

Nah its always on the weekend and I turn into a professional dad at that time. That's why the mid week social is ideal for me. "

Damn shame, I will make sure to attend the next Bridgend after this one then and have a catch up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a social and a catch up with my play mates, but doing things together like cooking, days out, cinema etc feels too much like a relationship to me.

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I get where you're coming from PQ although I have been enjoying all the numerous benefits of the fwb situation.

Most if not all of my friends are married so it's good to have someone to go to the cinema with, eat food with so its not such a solitary act, and yes really good to have someone on the sofa with me, not really doing much other than enjoying the company. I get on well with her so it just feels natural at this point.

Good to see you back, hopefully you will be doing the odd social as it would be good to see you out and about again xx

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Thank you that's very kind of you to offer. X

I can vouch for Dai being a perfect gentleman.

Very true, dai is a gentleman and great company "

I'll second this. I met dai at the Cardiff social. Top bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking at meeting new people and to go to socials

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By *ai MyrddinMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Aw thanks for the kind testimonials people. Feeling humbled x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rather enjoined the nights out,dinning out, cooking at home/theirs as well as play time. That side of things worked for us. Everyone enjoys different aspects of of the non monogram lifestyle.

Finding an fwb again would be fun.

Can also say dai is a cracking gent. Hope to see you at the next Blackwood social dai.

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By *on-derrierre...Woman
over a year ago

Buddha town

I'd love to find a FWB also. it's not as easy as it sounds x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love to find a FWB also. it's not as easy as it sounds x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the kind of thing I would like to find on here "
dm me

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By *orny43sumCouple
over a year ago

merthyr

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By *orny43sumCouple
over a year ago

merthyr


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy. "

We are finding same with ladies not showing for a social meet, so frustrating. If we arrange a meet we never fail to turn up

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

We find it’s better to meet at social events or clubs. We have made some pretty amazing friends this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a fwb, I am even free at anytime when and where needed x

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"I'd love to find a FWB also. it's not as easy as it sounds x"

Unfortunately it's not easy. A friendship needs to be built between the two parties in question. A lot of people don't have the patience for this unfortunately.

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By *rwantfunMan
over a year ago

Ammanford


"On the hunt for a friend with benefits here. Must be someone who gets a weird sense of humour though lol

And is up for the odd night at the cinema or pub for a bit of grub.

Same here but they're like gold dust, so much fuck n go nowadays. I knows it always been like that, but much more blatant about it than ever X"

I’m looking for a regular thing

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By *artlewMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Great having that fwb learning new things about each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good cuddle after a good shag is always needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it isn't easy to be fair very big struggle to find a fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

150-200

Had no idea it would be this size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy. "

That’s madness, thought you’d have them queuing at the door!

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

The fascinating thing about this site is all the strange things that happen, in our search for a friend for Jojo. You have men presenting themselves as single, but when pressed they are in a relationship, but it won’t ever be a problem. The female half of a couple messaging to say her man is available…. But mysteriously she is always unavailable to chat lol. Then of course you have to then throw into the mix, maybe she doesn’t fancy them…. and it is very difficult.

I have been around the scene for a few years and know some absolutely lovely blokes, women and couples. She is relatively new to all this but the struggle is real lol. Like others may have said socials are probably the best way to go, assuming you can make them and have the confidence to go!

Only my observations and not suggesting others might have experienced the same, peace and love

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By *on-derrierre...Woman
over a year ago

Buddha town


"I'd love to find a FWB also. it's not as easy as it sounds x

Unfortunately it's not easy. A friendship needs to be built between the two parties in question. A lot of people don't have the patience for this unfortunately."

Uou aren't wrong there Toby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to find a FWB also. it's not as easy as it sounds x

Unfortunately it's not easy. A friendship needs to be built between the two parties in question. A lot of people don't have the patience for this unfortunately."

Very true, surely having a friend with benefits also involves the friend bit. Some one to chat and hang with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, put me down on the "Wants a FWB" list please x

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

Chance be a fine thing lol but put me down on this list

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"Unfortunately it's not easy. A friendship needs to be built between the two parties in question. A lot of people don't have the patience for this unfortunately."

Well, friendship can be pretty instant. I've got quite a few swinging friends where we both just thought "Yes, you're someone I want to know" straight away, and we talk all the time about the boring bits of life as well as the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it's not easy. A friendship needs to be built between the two parties in question. A lot of people don't have the patience for this unfortunately.

Well, friendship can be pretty instant. I've got quite a few swinging friends where we both just thought "Yes, you're someone I want to know" straight away, and we talk all the time about the boring bits of life as well as the sex. "

I can vouch for Roger Bottoms as an amazing FWB and amazing friend

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Unfortunately it's not easy. A friendship needs to be built between the two parties in question. A lot of people don't have the patience for this unfortunately.

Well, friendship can be pretty instant. I've got quite a few swinging friends where we both just thought "Yes, you're someone I want to know" straight away, and we talk all the time about the boring bits of life as well as the sex. "

Totally agree with you mate. I've met many people (your good self inclded) and known I'd be be friends no problem. The Internet unfortunately is no where near as good as meeting someone face to face and realising you both compatible in what ever form you're both looking for.

Socials are the way forward for us gentlemen. Its the best way to display what we can offer. Anyway I'm d*unk and this is to philosophical, so I'll say no da all.

Hopefully see you soon Roger

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By *ilthy brownieMan
over a year ago

yours

I wish I did ??

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By *hieldMan
over a year ago

Neath

Had FWB in the past. Would be great to find another

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

It would be great to find a regular FB (time permitting) but since covid this place has become a ghost town, I live in hope perhaps one day

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"I can vouch for Roger Bottoms as an amazing FWB and amazing friend "

Awww, cheers sweetie. You're the perfect definition of FWB. We have fun, but we also meet for dinner and a catch-up without ending in bed.

One interesting thing is that so many people are saying they want an FWB. Singular, rather than various friends they see when both are free. It's making me wonder if what some people are after isn't a relationship without the responsibility, and whether there might not be jealousy issues coming into it if they do end up with an FWB?

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By *hubby11977Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Id be interested in fwb/fb

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By *vorhuegcockMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I'm interested as well if anyone wants a fwb let me know!!!

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I've had several fwb in the past and recently thought about having another. Had some time after the last one as it did become "complicated"

It's finding the right balance!

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"I like a social and a catch up with my play mates, but doing things together like cooking, days out, cinema etc feels too much like a relationship to me.

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Totally agree

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"I've had several fwb in the past and recently thought about having another. Had some time after the last one as it did become "complicated"

It's finding the right balance! "

Fancy an older experienced model?

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By *untiWoman
over a year ago

Newport


"I can vouch for Roger Bottoms as an amazing FWB and amazing friend

Awww, cheers sweetie. You're the perfect definition of FWB. We have fun, but we also meet for dinner and a catch-up without ending in bed.

One interesting thing is that so many people are saying they want an FWB. Singular, rather than various friends they see when both are free. It's making me wonder if what some people are after isn't a relationship without the responsibility, and whether there might not be jealousy issues coming into it if they do end up with an FWB?"

I've found this in the chatting stage....does make me wonder if some don't know what it actually means.

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By *hieldMan
over a year ago

Neath


"I can vouch for Roger Bottoms as an amazing FWB and amazing friend

Awww, cheers sweetie. You're the perfect definition of FWB. We have fun, but we also meet for dinner and a catch-up without ending in bed.

One interesting thing is that so many people are saying they want an FWB. Singular, rather than various friends they see when both are free. It's making me wonder if what some people are after isn't a relationship without the responsibility, and whether there might not be jealousy issues coming into it if they do end up with an FWB?"

I've had the jealousy. Sorry, not me, my FWB. She was great seeing other fellas but not fine when I would venture. Terminated years ago now. The hypocrisy was grating

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By *on-derrierre...Woman
over a year ago

Buddha town

Fwb speaks for itself I think . Friend being the prominent word . benefits are extra but a friend to have fun and naughty fun not exclusively as it's nice to have lots of friends not necessarily all with benefits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fwb speaks for itself I think . Friend being the prominent word . benefits are extra but a friend to have fun and naughty fun not exclusively as it's nice to have lots of friends not necessarily all with benefits x"

Well put

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I wouldn’t mind finding someone to go away for the odd break now and then,chill in a hot tub etc and if it’s just drinks and laughs then that’s fine by me

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By *CDecauxMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

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By *CDecauxMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Definitely interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally would love a Fwb seems somewhat a needle in a haystack

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By *avin1988Man
over a year ago

llangadog

Looking for one myself if there's anyone around the llangadog area

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By *hubby11977Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Pontypridd area or near anyone

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By *carlet11Man
over a year ago

Pontypool, Llanelli, St helens

I've been to clubs in the past but I used to go with a fwb, intrigued to go again, might make meeting women on here with getting verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to have a fwb

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"I can vouch for Roger Bottoms as an amazing FWB and amazing friend

Awww, cheers sweetie. You're the perfect definition of FWB. We have fun, but we also meet for dinner and a catch-up without ending in bed.

One interesting thing is that so many people are saying they want an FWB. Singular, rather than various friends they see when both are free. It's making me wonder if what some people are after isn't a relationship without the responsibility, and whether there might not be jealousy issues coming into it if they do end up with an FWB?"

I think people definitions of FWB, has a different meaning and not so much of the understanding of fwb. Communication is key and understaing the fundamentals what both parties objectives are of fwb.

If both parties agreed to have other fwb, then it's fine. If not and just prefer one to one, that's fine to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any FWB arrangement I might develop would never be exclusive, they might be my preferred club/social mate but I would expect them to continue having fun with others. My cuckqueen dynamic won't kick in unless I've got that added connection with the one person X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, you need to have it clearly established in the initial conversations.

Had a fwb and she got jealous. Shame as I wanted the friend part above all else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Happily invite a female fwb into the fold.. offers on a postcard please.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Great idea in principle, but for some strange reason everytime I go down that road it invariably gets complicated as they inevitably want the whole package. I am perfectly capable of washing my own socks, and cooking my own meals, and I've actually got a man what does to flick a duster over the place as required, but someone who fancies holidays together, and company at black tie do's, as well as intimate encounters wouldn't go amiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pinched this idea from another thread so let’s see if it will work in Wales

Ps I’m looking to "

pm me xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I pinched this idea from another thread so let’s see if it will work in Wales

Ps I’m looking to pm me xx"

I got 2 to interview firstly if needed I’ll message you

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By *ust him and herCouple
over a year ago

Colwyn Bay

I would love a bifem playmate in North Wales for just girl on girl fun xx

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By *idlaldiMan
over a year ago

bridgend

Id like to get to know a fwb as im single honest and down to earth. Im on a dating site and its quite shocking how some ladies are really up themselves. There are some nice ones there to. So ill keep on trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great idea in principle, but for some strange reason everytime I go down that road it invariably gets complicated as they inevitably want the whole package. I am perfectly capable of washing my own socks, and cooking my own meals, and I've actually got a man what does to flick a duster over the place as required, but someone who fancies holidays together, and company at black tie do's, as well as intimate encounters wouldn't go amiss. "

It can work, we did for 12 years but I'm not hopeful of finding that dynamic ever again, took me longer than that to find it X

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By *aidinwalesWoman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

Had a FWB for quite a number if years and it was great. We knew each other’s boundaries and expectations only really stopped when I got into a vanilla relationship and stopped using fab. He continues to be one of my dearest friends and I’d trust him with anything

He’s no longer on fab but to find that again would be fantastic It’s like looking for rocking horse poo now though !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a FWB for quite a number if years and it was great. We knew each other’s boundaries and expectations only really stopped when I got into a vanilla relationship and stopped using fab. He continues to be one of my dearest friends and I’d trust him with anything

He’s no longer on fab but to find that again would be fantastic It’s like looking for rocking horse poo now though ! "

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By *rwantfunMan
over a year ago

Ammanford


"Had a FWB for quite a number if years and it was great. We knew each other’s boundaries and expectations only really stopped when I got into a vanilla relationship and stopped using fab. He continues to be one of my dearest friends and I’d trust him with anything

He’s no longer on fab but to find that again would be fantastic It’s like looking for rocking horse poo now though ! "

I’ve always found that after a number of years it get complicated and she starts having feelings and wanting more have had this twice

I’m more than open to a fwb nothing better than being able to talk about anything have great sex getting to know each other but it’s a fine line not falling in love that’s the hard part

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Best of luck with your searches girls!

I thought that I'd hit the jackpot when I was seeing someone from West Sussex for twenty one month's, but guess what? The words "Lurve" and "Getting engaged" and "I could always relocate," started to come into the conversation, and that killed it stone dead.

Apart from everything else I've got going down, I'm also my mum's carer. When twice I had home baking brought round unannounced for my mum, and in one extreme case I had hand knitted jumpers and scarves made for my mum, coupled with the comments, "I was thinking that if you cleared some space in a wardrobe, I could bring some clothes with me, and stay over to help you with your mum." For some reason it only seems to happen to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a fwb situation and would also be able to help out with those diy jobs that don’t get done around the house lol.

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By *aidinwalesWoman
over a year ago

Rainbows End


"Had a FWB for quite a number if years and it was great. We knew each other’s boundaries and expectations only really stopped when I got into a vanilla relationship and stopped using fab. He continues to be one of my dearest friends and I’d trust him with anything

He’s no longer on fab but to find that again would be fantastic It’s like looking for rocking horse poo now though !

I’ve always found that after a number of years it get complicated and she starts having feelings and wanting more have had this twice

I’m more than open to a fwb nothing better than being able to talk about anything have great sex getting to know each other but it’s a fine line not falling in love that’s the hard part "

Falling in love wasn’t an option for either of us and we both were very aware of that It’s been 18 yrs now and remained close friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a FWB for quite a number if years and it was great. We knew each other’s boundaries and expectations only really stopped when I got into a vanilla relationship and stopped using fab. He continues to be one of my dearest friends and I’d trust him with anything

He’s no longer on fab but to find that again would be fantastic It’s like looking for rocking horse poo now though !

I’ve always found that after a number of years it get complicated and she starts having feelings and wanting more have had this twice

I’m more than open to a fwb nothing better than being able to talk about anything have great sex getting to know each other but it’s a fine line not falling in love that’s the hard part "

Falling in love didn't happen for us either, it wasn't what either of us wanted from day one but we became the closest of friends who liked to share not only our couple swinging, but sometimes our single experiences and real life stuff. We were simply best friends who liked to fuck and be naughty at times. I still hold out some hope he'll return to swinging but for now, he needs space X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the hunt for a friend with benefits here. Must be someone who gets a weird sense of humour though lol

And is up for the odd night at the cinema or pub for a bit of grub.

Same here but they're like gold dust, so much fuck n go nowadays. I knows it always been like that, but much more blatant about it than ever X"

Wel im look8ng if any interest

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By *lean cut jayMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I would love a fwb or fb,someone i could hangout with and go for food or couple of drinks as well as sex, someone can have a laugh with and then have a play or fuck when ever the hunger took over one of us or needed to have a release .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to find just this. A FWB is exactly what I am looking for.

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By *immyb1985Man
over a year ago

bridgend

Regular would be very nice about now

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By *ierced_VikingMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

Looking here too!!

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By *ustylou44Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Fwb is always good fun

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

We would appreciate getting to know a single lady to complete our social circle of naughty friends..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't even get a guy to turn up! My desire for a FB/FWB has rapidly turned to fantasy. "

I messaged u the other day. I would turn up.

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By *ough and tumbleMan
over a year ago

NEWPORT

Thats what im looking for too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a friend would be nice

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By *iminey_cricketsMan
over a year ago

barbican

Yep im looking!

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By *alley_guyMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Always looking and happy with socials!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pinched this idea from another thread so let’s see if it will work in Wales

Ps I’m looking to pm me xx I got 2 to interview firstly if needed I’ll message you "

awesome

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By *orny Dude 99Man
over a year ago

Ammanford

Im looking for a regular fwb llanelli, swansea, ammanford areas x

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By *ilthy brownieMan
over a year ago

yours

Looking but would love a cuckold couple fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like a FWB / FB but not found any takers yet but hoping lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a cat in hell's chance this far west

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By *eardedGuy82Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"I pinched this idea from another thread so let’s see if it will work in Wales

Ps I’m looking to "

Very interested. X

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Yes an FWB or FB , making meaningful connections and friendships is what I’m about x

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By *nice44Man
over a year ago

swansea

Fwb is always a better option than random meets and hook ups

Im still looking though lol

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By *milie and NateCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

FWB or FB would be great for us too, either together or separately

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By *xocetMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

Great idea. I would love one - either Cardiff or Wrexham as I split my time between the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for an FB or FWB too.

Would especially like a lady who would team up with me to go to Chams.

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By *usty555Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Would love to find one in the Pontypool cwmbran or Newport area ?? Pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A FWB would definitely be appreciated

I’m sure could b lots of fun in the sunshine

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Tarka trail

Is there one out there for a 68 year old. ? ! I thought not.

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By *unkmiMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

Happy to help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for a new fwb, or just a simple friend if anyone's interested, hit me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also looking for a regular fwb too "

Shame I’m out of your preferred age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to meet someone in Cardiff..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jumping on the bandwagon Pembrokeshire area looking for socials buddy leading to possible fwb and extra dates etc scenario.. accepting bookings now for interviews

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By *rwantfunMan
over a year ago

Ammanford


"Yes an FWB or FB , making meaningful connections and friendships is what I’m about x"

We just need to meet first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chester and north wales here I would love to meet a fab

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By *hubby11977Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Im looking as well

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

A sexy lady to join us both would be amazing. Still a dream at the moment but one day hopefully, the right woman will come along for us both to enjoy.

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By *elt77Man
over a year ago

Towyn

Any females looking in the North Wales area, and I travel regularly in the North West of England.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone interested this morning? Hoping to make it a regular thing x

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By *awltyPowersMan
over a year ago

caerphilly

There's plenty of decent guys around, unfortunately we haven't all got six packs. Decent cocks though.

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By *JJJJxMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’m looking for regular FWB also, ideally Caerphilly | RCT. I’ve public pics and veris on my profile Jx

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve arrived….ladies don’t all rush to inbox me!

I crumble under pressure

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By *enson29Man
over a year ago

uk

FWB/FB would be perfect

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By *agicmarcMan
over a year ago

tonyrefail

Yes I’m looking too x

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By *ustfulbigboyMan
over a year ago

North Wales

Hello everyone, I'm looking too.

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By *alesfinestMan
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I'd like a regular friend with pleasurable benefits

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

I be looking too. Friendship always comes first.

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