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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

anyone else get this problem

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

What being told NO?? Why should that be a problem??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean people message you here you tell them no or your not interested but the still bombard you with messages and get upset

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down


"I mean people message you here you tell them no or your not interested but the still bombard you with messages and get upset "

No cannot say we have ever had that issue. Even on my single males profile I’ve never had that problem.

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By *ndlessPossibilities40Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yea I’ve had this issue (female) on my single female profile

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By *inkycouple2021Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Yeah we've had this issue with single men with repeat messaging. Usually end up just hitting block button

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

You’re bound to get it from single guys for sure. We just block them. Easier to filter out all the crap. Anna gets stupid messages all the time from guys on her singles profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time from guys, have had it from a couple before though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either that or the old 'not as if you can be choosy' shit. I proactively use the block button, I block anyone I know isn't a fit, prevents any stress. The block button is a tool no different to the hotlist or filters X

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By *idlaldiMan
over a year ago

bridgend

Try Bill Burr (comedian) on No means No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean people message you here you tell them no or your not interested but the still bombard you with messages and get upset "

Oh yes. Ive even had abuse for just saying "no thank you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what the block button is there for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies get this all the time on here but for a single guy to get pestered I think you are dreaming ????????

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"anyone else get this problem "

How is it a problem, NO IS NO

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By *leasure-QueenWoman
over a year ago

The twilight zone


"Ladies get this all the time on here but for a single guy to get pestered I think you are dreaming ????????"

Maybe he’s getting pestered by single men.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

I've put no means no on my profile

I've been told to get off Fab if I'm not here as available to have sex with?!

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"Ladies get this all the time on here but for a single guy to get pestered I think you are dreaming ????????"

My block button is in full use, so yes, single guys do get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get this all the time on here but for a single guy to get pestered I think you are dreaming ????????

My block button is in full use, so yes, single guys do get it "

I've told you before it's those bloody socks, they're a minge magnet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blokes can block other single guys it’s easy I still think he’s dreaming ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean people message you here you tell them no or your not interested but the still bombard you with messages and get upset "

I've had a few people get really arsey and abusive, because I've said no!! Really grips my shit!!

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By *ougar1966Couple
over a year ago

Newport

I just use the block button these days.... worse ones are those that have failed to live up to their profile hype and I don't want to meet again. They think one meeting is a commitment on my part to be their fuck buddy for life.

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By *ust Peachy 1Woman
over a year ago

Ammanford


"You’re bound to get it from single guys for sure. We just block them. Easier to filter out all the crap. Anna gets stupid messages all the time from guys on her singles profile. "

The saddest part of this thread is the first sentence above. It shouldn't be expected or accepted behaviour from anyone.

This should be a safe space for everyone and anyone that can not accept a polite "no" should get a ban imo. Imagine one of these people actually met someone in the flesh and the person they met changed their mind

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd love a simple no! your know we're you are then. I had a couple message me we chatted and arranged a social. They then pulled out. Looking at their veri's they hadn't meet anyone for over 4 years so I don't think they had any intention of meeting. If they said we have changed our mind that would have been fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

If folk can't accept a no..then they're not worthy of being on the site.

If persistent then tell them they've worn you down and you'll agree to meet them at such a place at such a time.

Chances are they're dreamers and they won't be there either...

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By *ental monkeysCouple
over a year ago

caerphilly

Yes definitely on both couple and single profile!

The block button is great and well used!

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By *ac711Man
over a year ago

south Wales

I had a friend request from a guy so I told him I won’t accept unless we have met, his reply was your loss and then he blocked me wtf is wrong with people

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