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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I'm a genuine down to earth lad and I'm finding it so hard to find women who want to chat or meet i don't no what I'm doing wrong i no I'm not everyones cup of tea but its hard work this site xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a read through the numerous other threads about it.

But firstly your 2 public pics are of your cock ( just like thousands of others ) your profile name refers to you having a big dick ( just like thousands of others ) do you see a theme here ?

I have been fortunate to meet with both single ladies ( not looking anymore as I am blessed with an amazing regular ) and couples ( again no longer looking ) i however never refer to my penis size or have pics of it in my public gallery. I always read their profiles first, starting with age range, what they like, their description of themselves and what they are looking for. Only if I meet all the criteria and I have the same interests as them will I message.

The messages I send are never one line, well constructed and asking about their interests a little more. I also attend social events ( which I love ) and occasionally clubs. How have you been approaching people ?

Are your messages the type you would like to read from someone?

Are you attending socials?

Please don't take this as a tare down as it isn't, you asked for advice and I can only tell you what has worked for me.

I hope you get the answers you're looking for, take some on board and have more success going forward.

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself mate I had a single profile on here before never went to clubs only went to one social and I done well on here just be respectful and and if you get to meet then happy days everyone is looking for different personality’s life would be boring if all the same ride your own rodeo good luck for the future

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Stop worrying about it and it's more likely to happen, just enjoy the forums and social events and the rest will follow eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Females get over 100 plus messages a day, sum of us males are in same boat, just don't pout if a female don't reply,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're public photos are only of your cock, no imagination. Your profile has no punctuation making it harder to read. Women get hundreds if messages a day (253 for me today) and its overwhelming. Make yourself stand out amongst the thousands of guys on here. I generally will not even open a message from a guy if his profile pic is his dick.

Go to socials its the best way to get to know people. Ive only ever done one meet without a social and never again.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all your help much appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odds are stacked against guys on here mate, as the amount of men to women and couples is enormous. Just be yourself, be friendly, dont be creepy and im sure you’ll find someone.. Maybe add a few pictures on your profile that aren’t your dick too? I dont think dick pics help the cause

All the best

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I’m not sure what the social side is like in north wales or if you can travel but socials are definitely the best way to get to know people.The men we have met and chatted to we have met through group socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not sure what the social side is like in north wales or if you can travel but socials are definitely the best way to get to know people.The men we have met and chatted to we have met through group socials.i don't drive and only recently moved upto prestatyn xx

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