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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At home or club ?

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

Go to a club. You won't have to worry about tidying up or whether they're going to let you down. You can socialise and if you find some people you want to play with, happy days.

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down


"Go to a club. You won't have to worry about tidying up or whether they're going to let you down. You can socialise and if you find some people you want to play with, happy days."

Totally agree. Clubs are a good way to meet and get to know people. Plus you would get opportunities to play if you click Socials as well. It’s easier to build connections face to face. If all goes well, then invite them round to your place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club yet. But socials are a great way of meeting other like minded friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree, club is a great way to go. Just don't go with any expectations and enjoy the night, be sure to chat and you never know you may even find some people you like and like you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers all. What clubs would u Recommend only this also want to remain discreet lol,

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

Discretion is kinda guaranteed in any club or social.

If you happen to be there at the same time you know someone else, that you know off-scene? It's a case of 'mutual destruction'. You're both there for the same things. They can 'out' you, but you can 'out' them also.

That's not the way to go about Life but it helps you feel secure. So what you saw them there or they saw you. Perhaps you should even talk to them about it there and then and open up a whole new world of possibilities? You might get along in ways you never thought possible before .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"[Removed by poster at 30/04/22 21:55:40]"

Screenshots are a thing. Did you have something to contribute to the discussion, or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you referring to me ?

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"Are you referring to me ?"

The website timestamps indicate that I am/was, yes. Care contribute to the discussion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks lord , that does make some sense, what club do u go to ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was going to say something but obviously this is your show yawn

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"Thanks lord , that does make some sense, what club do u go to ? X"

I have been to Chams Newport at least a dozen times with either my partner, as a chaperone or as a single male. Chams Darlaston probably half a dozen times. Xstasia. Swindon Swingers. Angels.

That's not bragging, please believe me. You asked a question and you have an honest answer. There are plenty of people better qualified than me about these venues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do tell more o wise one

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"Well I was going to say something but obviously this is your show yawn "

I saw what you wanted to say. Please feel free to repeat your original thoughts. It's a free world after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you now ?

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"Go to a club. You won't have to worry about tidying up or whether they're going to let you down. You can socialise and if you find some people you want to play with, happy days."

Back on topic. This is totally correct. You can guage everyone else in a neutral environment this way, figure out if they will be someone who will interest you. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m interested tell me more

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

A club or a social meet group in your area which there a few in Wales and both a good way and good laugh to

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