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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve been on here ages and met some fun guys but I really want to meet a hot lady to explore my bi side.

Why’s it so hard? What am I doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not necessarily doing anything wrong OP.

Finding women for FF time only is very hard to come by here, trust me, I have been trying for a long time.

I have attended female only socials as a means of meeting other like minded ladies, but often they are part of a couple and don't necessarily want to meet alone.

Good luck with your search OP

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I also have a single profile set up originally just for the purpose fem only meets.

It quite clearly stated that I was only prepared to meet fems and any couples that wanted to meet needed to message this profile as I only meet couples as a couple.

After 5 years I'd managed about half a dozen meets. I'd received hundreds of messages, but all from couples wanting to meet me without Trev.

I've now given up and use that profile for the chat rooms, so it's not you OP

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"So I’ve been on here ages and met some fun guys but I really want to meet a hot lady to explore my bi side.

Why’s it so hard? What am I doing wrong? "

Your doing nothing wrong but I'd say you have more chance of exploring your bi side at a club. There you can get chatting and find someone you want to explore with.

It's such a minefield on here now it's almost impossible to get what you want without going to a club or event

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"So I’ve been on here ages and met some fun guys but I really want to meet a hot lady to explore my bi side.

Why’s it so hard? What am I doing wrong?

Your doing nothing wrong but I'd say you have more chance of exploring your bi side at a club. There you can get chatting and find someone you want to explore with.

It's such a minefield on here now it's almost impossible to get what you want without going to a club or event "

Your not wrong there CJ, would say club best idea then once connection is made maybe then can arrange meets away from club.

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By *auraAndyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm sure L would be up for it if you came to chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe expand your age range that your looking for?

Go to socials to chat with people.

We've met and made friends with some fantastic people at the socials.

Good luck xx

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By *eabeeWoman
over a year ago

Gwent


"I also have a single profile set up originally just for the purpose fem only meets.

It quite clearly stated that I was only prepared to meet fems and any couples that wanted to meet needed to message this profile as I only meet couples as a couple.

After 5 years I'd managed about half a dozen meets. I'd received hundreds of messages, but all from couples wanting to meet me without Trev.

I've now given up and use that profile for the chat rooms, so it's not you OP"

Completely agree

Despite saying I am not meeting males and I am only available for FF, loads of men message, no females. Don't take it personally OP. I hope you find what you are looking for x

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By *irtyDianaHWWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"So I’ve been on here ages and met some fun guys but I really want to meet a hot lady to explore my bi side.

Why’s it so hard? What am I doing wrong? "

Me too, message me so that we can sort that out! Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe expand your age range that your looking for?

Go to socials to chat with people.

We've met and made friends with some fantastic people at the socials.

Good luck xx"

I agree with the age range, why only younger than yourself?

I'm lucky enough to meet regularly with a single female in her 40's and for me she is sexier and more appealing than any of the meets I've had with women in their 20's.

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By *elshman1967 99Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"You are not necessarily doing anything wrong OP.

Finding women for FF time only is very hard to come by here, trust me, I have been trying for a long time.

I have attended female only socials as a means of meeting other like minded ladies, but often they are part of a couple and don't necessarily want to meet alone.

Good luck with your search OP "

if you're struggling the rest of us may as well give up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks peeps. I’ve only just realised you lot replied!

I’ve changed my age criteria as I didn’t realise that either.

I’ll think about a club. But nervous going on my own the first time tbh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks peeps. I’ve only just realised you lot replied!

I’ve changed my age criteria as I didn’t realise that either.

I’ll think about a club. But nervous going on my own the first time tbh! "

Always good when people take on board comments and suggestions so good for you. If the thought of the club is a little daunting to you there are plenty on the scene who I should imagine would chaperone you and help with a few introductions too. Good luck going forward, don't lose hope.

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Thanks peeps. I’ve only just realised you lot replied!

I’ve changed my age criteria as I didn’t realise that either.

I’ll think about a club. But nervous going on my own the first time tbh! "
Try Chameleons in Darlaston on a Saturday, its couples and single ladies night!

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hannah always happy to chat to single ladies.

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down


"Maybe expand your age range that your looking for?

Go to socials to chat with people.

We've met and made friends with some fantastic people at the socials.

Good luck xx"

Definitely agree with this. Socials are the best way to meet people and build connections. We love the socials.

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