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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

I am probably opening a can of worms here but feel it needs to be said. Single guys on here do get a raw deal. I read time after time couples moaning about too many single guys being at parties or at Chams because their preference is to play with other married couples or Bi fems.

Can I point out that single girls are at these events too and single guys may well be their preference, not all of us want to be limited to couples or to be the elusive single fem that couples want.

Don't get me wrong - I know and appreciate that some single guys can be a royal pain in the arse however by the same token as a single fem I know that some couples can be too.

Now Chams are hosting a couples/single fem evenings surely it makes sense to go then if that's your preference but stop knocking single guys being there on the other night. Same with parties and socials if single guys aren't your thing then you have the choice not to go.

But please stop knocking them for the fact they are single - its not a disease !!!

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop whining woman

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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

I only whine in passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also on most couples profiles that say we are not looking for single guys and then you look down at their verifications and they are all from single guys....double standards methinks!!!!

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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End


"also on most couples profiles that say we are not looking for single guys and then you look down at their verifications and they are all from single guys....double standards methinks!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have I just walked into a parallel universe? haha

fair play, nice post maid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this completely! Single males get such a slating, but There are some lovely sexy guys to have fun with on here. M x

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Totally agree with you Maid x

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am probably opening a can of worms here but feel it needs to be said. Single guys on here do get a raw deal. I read time after time couples moaning about too many single guys being at parties or at Chams because their preference is to play with other married couples or Bi fems.

Can I point out that single girls are at these events too and single guys may well be their preference, not all of us want to be limited to couples or to be the elusive single fem that couples want.

Don't get me wrong - I know and appreciate that some single guys can be a royal pain in the arse however by the same token as a single fem I know that some couples can be too.

Now Chams are hosting a couples/single fem evenings surely it makes sense to go then if that's your preference but stop knocking single guys being there on the other night. Same with parties and socials if single guys aren't your thing then you have the choice not to go.

But please stop knocking them for the fact they are single - its not a disease !!!

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am probably opening a can of worms here but feel it needs to be said. Single guys on here do get a raw deal. I read time after time couples moaning about too many single guys being at parties or at Chams because their preference is to play with other married couples or Bi fems.

Can I point out that single girls are at these events too and single guys may well be their preference, not all of us want to be limited to couples or to be the elusive single fem that couples want.

Don't get me wrong - I know and appreciate that some single guys can be a royal pain in the arse however by the same token as a single fem I know that some couples can be too.

Now Chams are hosting a couples/single fem evenings surely it makes sense to go then if that's your preference but stop knocking single guys being there on the other night. Same with parties and socials if single guys aren't your thing then you have the choice not to go.

But please stop knocking them for the fact they are single - its not a disease !!!

Rant over

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *1111Man
over a year ago

neath port talbot

well said maid bout time somebody of the opposite sex stuck up for single guys not all of us are muppets thanks again maid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agrees with maid, i luv single men if they were not on ere who would i play with lol and most of the singles are really lovely genuine people. well over the years on and off i have been on here they have been xxx.

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By *wanzMan
over a year ago

Swansea

TY Maid ... from all of us GENUINE single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well put fair play but sadly many of them aren't single.

You make a good point about cpls complaining (us included in that) but you fail to understand that many are fed up having single males attendance forced upon them. We've met single men and have nothing against them but we choose to select them and not have them force themselves into a situation at clubs etc.

All that said we take your point onboard xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"also on most couples profiles that say we are not looking for single guys and then you look down at their verifications and they are all from single guys....double standards methinks!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"also on most couples profiles that say we are not looking for single guys and then you look down at their verifications and they are all from single guys....double standards methinks!!!!

"

And you can't workout why they do that???? Come on mun

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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

[Removed by poster at 25/10/12 06:53:20]

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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End


"Very well put fair play but sadly many of them aren't single.

You make a good point about cpls complaining (us included in that) but you fail to understand that many are fed up having single males attendance forced upon them. We've met single men and have nothing against them but we choose to select them and not have them force themselves into a situation at clubs etc.

All that said we take your point onboard xxx"

Thanks however Id like to point out that I don't fail to understand at all as I have been at parties and at Chams and had the same experience as you, but it has come from couples. Yes I can be Bi in the right situation, but, like yourselves, I like to make my own decisions about who I play with and not be treated like fair game - so it does work both ways. Saying that though I don't complain about couples being there and expect to attend functions where its singles only. As to your point that some guys are not single, there are plenty of couples out there who are married but not to each other! Swinging is for everyone at the end of the day and I just feel some couples need to be a bit more aware and tolerant of single peoples needs and requirements as well thats all xxxxx

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans


"I am probably opening a can of worms here but feel it needs to be said. Single guys on here do get a raw deal. I read time after time couples moaning about too many single guys being at parties or at Chams because their preference is to play with other married couples or Bi fems.

Can I point out that single girls are at these events too and single guys may well be their preference, not all of us want to be limited to couples or to be the elusive single fem that couples want.

Don't get me wrong - I know and appreciate that some single guys can be a royal pain in the arse however by the same token as a single fem I know that some couples can be too.

Now Chams are hosting a couples/single fem evenings surely it makes sense to go then if that's your preference but stop knocking single guys being there on the other night. Same with parties and socials if single guys aren't your thing then you have the choice not to go.

But please stop knocking them for the fact they are single - its not a disease !!!

Rant over

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans


"well said maid bout time somebody of the opposite sex stuck up for single guys not all of us are muppets thanks again maid"

i very often stick up for the single guys on here-i kicked up such a fuss on the other streams abt newport chams and cples only night i wish that people on here would stop judging others by the people they have met,everyone is different theres good and bad guys/fems and cples on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re: couples/single fem nights at chams! Single guys getting a raw deal again as they have to pay a hefty YEARLY membership yet are now limited to the nights that they can attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very well put fair play but sadly many of them aren't single.

You make a good point about cpls complaining (us included in that) but you fail to understand that many are fed up having single males attendance forced upon them. We've met single men and have nothing against them but we choose to select them and not have them force themselves into a situation at clubs etc.

All that said we take your point onboard xxx

Thanks however Id like to point out that I don't fail to understand at all as I have been at parties and at Chams and had the same experience as you, but it has come from couples. Yes I can be Bi in the right situation, but, like yourselves, I like to make my own decisions about who I play with and not be treated like fair game - so it does work both ways. Saying that though I don't complain about couples being there and expect to attend functions where its singles only. As to your point that some guys are not single, there are plenty of couples out there who are married but not to each other! Swinging is for everyone at the end of the day and I just feel some couples need to be a bit more aware and tolerant of single peoples needs and requirements as well thats all xxxxx

"

No ones ever said they expect to attend functions without single men attending. We've said it would be nice to have a couples night for a change rather than it be the same every time.

Anyone who says anything against singles on in this forum gets ridiculed by the same group of people all the time. You say we should think of the needs of the singles, then why can't the needs of cpls with our prefrence be tolerated instead of being constantly told single have rights. Well it may come as a shock to you but so do we.

The 'say nothing against singles' mob constantly put down any negative views others have so the tollorence should also come from that group. Just because you shout louder doesn't mean your right.

People always say each to thier own but that only applies if people agree with the 'pro singles' mobs view.

We're all entitled to an opinion or a prefrence and I for one keep on about the events with way too many single men at them because nothing changes therefore you see the same faces at the socials etc.

I disagree totally with your outlook on the subject but have understood it more with the excellent way you've put it across. It's an interesting debate

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I would just like to add that whether you like having single guys at clubs like chams or not,everyone is entitled to their opinion,and people should just agree to disagree on this subject as its just the same argument every so often on here! Lol no one is right or wrong its all about your personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny tho innit couples never complain about SINGLE FEMALES

Cat wonders why??

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By *1111Man
over a year ago

neath port talbot

that is very true kitten

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I don't often feel the need to add my voice to this debate but have to agree with maid.

we don't play with singles, either male or female but that doesn't stop us enjoying their company at socials, clubs & parties. we have rarely come across a 'pushy' single, of either sex & on the whole find them to be very respectful.

We have had more of a problem with pushy couples who automatically presume that as we play with couples we will play with them.

admittedly this is a small minority but one that rarely gets mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"funny tho innit couples never complain about SINGLE FEMALES

Cat wonders why?? "

Because most of the fems in the couples are bi and for many cpls it's the reason they start swinging.

Yes your probably going to say single men are the same as single women but we all know they ain't. Cpls looking for a fem way out number those looking for a man.

All the top clubs throughout the world have successful cpls and fems nights because its what the majority want. You may not agree with it but that's life and having a go at those who agree with that view is just stupid.

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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End


"Very well put fair play but sadly many of them aren't single.

You make a good point about cpls complaining (us included in that) but you fail to understand that many are fed up having single males attendance forced upon them. We've met single men and have nothing against them but we choose to select them and not have them force themselves into a situation at clubs etc.

All that said we take your point onboard xxx

Thanks however Id like to point out that I don't fail to understand at all as I have been at parties and at Chams and had the same experience as you, but it has come from couples. Yes I can be Bi in the right situation, but, like yourselves, I like to make my own decisions about who I play with and not be treated like fair game - so it does work both ways. Saying that though I don't complain about couples being there and expect to attend functions where its singles only. As to your point that some guys are not single, there are plenty of couples out there who are married but not to each other! Swinging is for everyone at the end of the day and I just feel some couples need to be a bit more aware and tolerant of single peoples needs and requirements as well thats all xxxxx

No ones ever said they expect to attend functions without single men attending. We've said it would be nice to have a couples night for a change rather than it be the same every time.

Anyone who says anything against singles on in this forum gets ridiculed by the same group of people all the time. You say we should think of the needs of the singles, then why can't the needs of cpls with our prefrence be tolerated instead of being constantly told single have rights. Well it may come as a shock to you but so do we.

The 'say nothing against singles' mob constantly put down any negative views others have so the tollorence should also come from that group. Just because you shout louder doesn't mean your right.

People always say each to thier own but that only applies if people agree with the 'pro singles' mobs view.

We're all entitled to an opinion or a prefrence and I for one keep on about the events with way too many single men at them because nothing changes therefore you see the same faces at the socials etc.

I disagree totally with your outlook on the subject but have understood it more with the excellent way you've put it across. It's an interesting debate "

We will agree to disagree then - as often happens when opinions are from both ends of the spectrum but thats what makes it an interesting debate at the end of the day. I just hope it doesn't get spoilt by petty bickering about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only problem i have with single guys is there really aren't enough tall ones!!!

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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End


"the only problem i have with single guys is there really aren't enough tall ones!!!

"

Buy a rack lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the only problem i have with single guys is there really aren't enough tall ones!!!

Buy a rack lol"

That's really put a big smile on my face, classic x

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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End


"the only problem i have with single guys is there really aren't enough tall ones!!!

Buy a rack lol

That's really put a big smile on my face, classic x"

Got to admit it could be fun! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather wear heels that be put on a rack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woop for single males!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maid no name drop for me? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

without single males how can women have mmf or mmmf ?

I was single on here and had fun and now as a couple and having fun .

we hold party's an always invite a few extra men the women never complain lol .

A lot of the time its the male half of a couple complaining coz the mrs is getting more than them but lots succumb to the womans need for 2 or more cocks lol

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"without single males how can women have mmf or mmmf ?

I was single on here and had fun and now as a couple and having fun .

we hold party's an always invite a few extra men the women never complain lol .

A lot of the time its the male half of a couple complaining coz the mrs is getting more than them but lots succumb to the womans need for 2 or more cocks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about time same 1 said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish we could find a group of guys who can accomodate. We have a few hours of freedom on Sat afternoon around 2pm for gangbang but can't find any takers. Bloomin shame as it's our last play until next year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bonified single guy, we do get a hard time (or not as is the case).........but listening to the posts guess it comes with the territory .. ...for All the guys guess the hard part is picking out the genuine Ones.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bonified single guy, we do get a hard time (or not as is the case).........but listening to the posts guess it comes with the territory .. ...for All the guys guess the hard part is picking out the genuine Ones.....

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By *rrocknroll59Man
over a year ago

Newport

Yep fair one, it's a damm shame some are not playing the game, hope Chams Newport, gives us decent chaps another chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am probably opening a can of worms here but feel it needs to be said. Single guys on here do get a raw deal. I read time after time couples moaning about too many single guys being at parties or at Chams because their preference is to play with other married couples or Bi fems.

Can I point out that single girls are at these events too and single guys may well be their preference, not all of us want to be limited to couples or to be the elusive single fem that couples want.

Don't get me wrong - I know and appreciate that some single guys can be a royal pain in the arse however by the same token as a single fem I know that some couples can be too.

Now Chams are hosting a couples/single fem evenings surely it makes sense to go then if that's your preference but stop knocking single guys being there on the other night. Same with parties and socials if single guys aren't your thing then you have the choice not to go.

But please stop knocking them for the fact they are single - its not a disease !!!

Rant over

"

Well said, we are not all annoying, honest lol

Seriously though, some couples and single girls like a single male to join them, all for one and one for all, its all meant to be about fun, some people do need to loosen up on here as there are lots of cpls that say no single men and meet single men anyway. Its about choice, but at least be open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am probably opening a can of worms here but feel it needs to be said. Single guys on here do get a raw deal. I read time after time couples moaning about too many single guys being at parties or at Chams because their preference is to play with other married couples or Bi fems.

Can I point out that single girls are at these events too and single guys may well be their preference, not all of us want to be limited to couples or to be the elusive single fem that couples want.

Don't get me wrong - I know and appreciate that some single guys can be a royal pain in the arse however by the same token as a single fem I know that some couples can be too.

Now Chams are hosting a couples/single fem evenings surely it makes sense to go then if that's your preference but stop knocking single guys being there on the other night. Same with parties and socials if single guys aren't your thing then you have the choice not to go.

But please stop knocking them for the fact they are single - its not a disease !!!

Rant over

"

mwah xxx from fire xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said maid

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