FabSwingers.com forum: Social meets

By *ussycat69 OP Woman
over a year ago

caerphilly

What really is the definition of ‘social meets’?

Are naughty antics assumed?

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

Nope. A social is a social, yes it may lead into more, but it shouldn't be assumed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really is the definition of ‘social meets’?

Are naughty antics assumed? "

A social is just that. A meet face to face,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social for us was to see if the attraction was there after getting along nicely through private messaging also we have met up with people for a social purely because we got on well with them through the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who you interact with.

We always like to meet face to face first and then go from there.

It might happen on the day, but generally we like to arrange for another day, so that experiences can be enjoyed properly.

For us that goes for all profiles.

Hi we get that part stated each time and if they stick around and continue chatting, then great, but it does help filter out the on.es who have different expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely social first. You can come across as a really nice person on messages but act like a complete arsehole on meeting.

Having a social first you can see if youre attracted to each other in person.

Unless youre a fuck and chuck person then go straight to the meet. I personally wont meet anyone who refuses a social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always social only first for us. Has to be an attraction and guy has to be able to talk. Banter and a laugh is important to us. If all get in maybe a kiss goodbye but that be as far as it goes.

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By *aleunicorn69Man
over a year ago

cardiff

A social should never be assumed as anything more than getting to know each other as the title says - socially.

Yes it may lead to more on the day or for a lot of people more at a future date. That is completely up to all involved on the day

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

Best thing would be to attend some of the organised socials. It’s a great way to meet lots of different people without any expectations.

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales

Love socials.

Nothing better than meeting new people over a few drinks & having a great laugh

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"What really is the definition of ‘social meets’?

Are naughty antics assumed? "

Nope its a social. At the end you can arrange to meet that person for a more intermit meet if you both like each other. But no we treat a social stricly as a social.

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By *e renard argenteMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Definitely a social is just that. You can confirm people are genuine, the attraction is there and then arrange a play date if all parties agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really is the definition of ‘social meets’?

Are naughty antics assumed? "

I never assume naughty antics on ANY meet.. there’s always the possibility that you could be politely declined…

But a social meet is purely that, social interaction. Something further may come of it, but the idea is just to meet and socialise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind having a social first just like the others have said on this forum it’s all about connection x

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By *aughtyintownMan
over a year ago

Newport

I always think a social meet is to see if you get on, if there's an attraction.

There's no commitment to more.

Mike

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Social meet first is always my preference because, if I don't actually fancy someone, they have more chance of raising The Titanic, than what makes me smile as I dry myself down whilst looking in the mirror after taking a shower. However if the WOW factor is there it's inevitable that it's going to be drink up,and back to my place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet first is always the best way.

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Can't add anything thats not been said above really. Some people are into hookups and getting it on right away, but we've found it's not for us.

We meed to be comfortable in the company of others before anything physical happens, and a social meet somewhere public like a pub with no pressure or expectation is where we like to start.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We always do a social first we need to be able to have a laugh easy conversation with no expectations..

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Generally go with the intention of a pure social meet, afterall you may not like them in the real world. But no harm keeping an option open for more if all goes well. I had a meet where the lady was very clear strictly social only. Because it was in another city I booked a room for the night. After a little chat I said I needed to pop out for 10 minutes so I could check in a drop my bag off. She insisted on seeing what my rooms was like. Needless to say it was the next morning when we left the room again. Likewise I was offered a lift home once (I'd come in on the bus) and let just say she took the scenic route home with me (she couldn't come mine or me hers as we both had kids at home).

The moral of the story, expect to keep it social but also make sure you put on some good underwear and smell delicious.

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