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Why am I having no luck on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not to sure what I am doing wrong but I have absolutely no luck with this site at all. Any suggestions cheers in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men massively outnumber women here.

Your profile doesn't really say anything about you so you don't stand out?

Two toothbrushes in your profile picture suggest you're in a couple?

(Just trying to think of anything people may be put off by)

Everyone seems to suggest socials at the best way to get to know people first. There is one coming up in Swansea.

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By *jolnir85Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Get yourself to the socials dude. It’s seriously the best way to make the most out of fab.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

His and hers toothbrushes and a limited bio will be enough to get you passed by on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His and hers toothbrushes and a limited bio will be enough to get you passed by on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also asking 'why am I not having any luck on here?' tends to go down like a lead balloon. It smacks of desperation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His and hers toothbrushes and a limited bio will be enough to get you passed by on here. "

That's a Fab classic right there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kill them with humor,destroy them with passion

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By *ocialguy79Man
over a year ago

blackwood

As already suggested the socials are a starting point but finding the right pubs are best. It's hard to find some one on here willing to meet for a social when I im out in cardiff but find the right pubs and you could be spoilt for choice. Always work for me.

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By *aleunicorn69Man
over a year ago

cardiff


"As already suggested the socials are a starting point but finding the right pubs are best. It's hard to find some one on here willing to meet for a social when I im out in cardiff but find the right pubs and you could be spoilt for choice. Always work for me. "

The socials organised on here - where there are a good bunch of people there - they are the best pubs haha

I do prefer Swansea and Blackwood socials over the Bridgend, Cardiff and Newport. I find the hostesses are friendlier although the organiser of the others still attends those with her clique

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend


"kill them with humor,destroy them with passion "

Agreed with this, to an extent

But, couple's toothbrush, 1 public photo, no verifications, limited bio, will meet up to 99.

Club's or socials, get some veris, few photos, more info. And don't take it so seriously, this site is no reflection on you in the outside world. I'm sure you are lovely, we just don't see it with your profile.

Her x

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By *adymischiefWoman
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"His and hers toothbrushes and a limited bio will be enough to get you passed by on here. "

Yep I thought that tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The socials organised on here - where there are a good bunch of people there - they are the best pubs haha

I do prefer Swansea and Blackwood socials over the Bridgend, Cardiff and Newport. I find the hostesses are friendlier although the organiser of the others still attends those with her clique"

Aww bless

I've attended them all and find them all a good night out, always been welcomed by the hosts/hostesses too.

I must just be drawn in by the clique bait

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By *indictiveMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"The socials organised on here - where there are a good bunch of people there - they are the best pubs haha

I do prefer Swansea and Blackwood socials over the Bridgend, Cardiff and Newport. I find the hostesses are friendlier although the organiser of the others still attends those with her clique

Aww bless

I've attended them all and find them all a good night out, always been welcomed by the hosts/hostesses too.

I must just be drawn in by the clique bait "

Ah but you are a very sociable person! You get out what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The socials organised on here - where there are a good bunch of people there - they are the best pubs haha

I do prefer Swansea and Blackwood socials over the Bridgend, Cardiff and Newport. I find the hostesses are friendlier although the organiser of the others still attends those with her clique

Aww bless

I've attended them all and find them all a good night out, always been welcomed by the hosts/hostesses too.

I must just be drawn in by the clique bait

Ah but you are a very sociable person! You get out what you put in "

Indeed and thanks, hope you're both well xx

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

We attended the pontypridd social and it was so much fun. We made a few friends and had a good night. We will be attending the llanelli and swamsea socials also. You get out what you put in. Trouble is op loads of single guys join fab thinking they are guaranteed a shag because they view this site as a sex site when infact its a swingers site so totally different. Only thing in life you are guaranteed is one day you will die! Guys need to stop assuming sex is guaranteed on here. Plenty of sex only sites out there if you want them! Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never got on with the socials, always felt uncomfortable. Too many people for us and it seemed like we were the only ones who didn't know anyone.

We prefer a small meeting with a guy in a social environment. We usually have chatted for a while beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never got on with the socials, always felt uncomfortable. Too many people for us and it seemed like we were the only ones who didn't know anyone.

We prefer a small meeting with a guy in a social environment. We usually have chatted for a while beforehand."

We done the Newport one three times and it just wasn't for us, it's a very popular social but we just never really enjoyed them however we did do the Bristol one a couple of times and enjoyed them, maybe a different vibe or maybe not, can't really put our finger on why we enjoyed one more than the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself honest and genuine and I’m sure you will find yourself a woman

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Hope you take this the right way.

Firstly you got nothing of interest on your profile.

The snap shot looks awful.

There's a lot of guys on here you need to do something to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually the toothbrushes are brought in a multi pack. As my son lives with me so my colour toothbrush doesn't really bother me.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to let everyone know the toothbrushes are mine and my son's. I buy the multi pack one's and the colour does not bother me but I see how it may look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you take this the right way.

Firstly you got nothing of interest on your profile.

The snap shot looks awful.

There's a lot of guys on here you need to do something to stand out."

Thanks for your input I shall make some changes.

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

Your profile says "very new" but you've been here over a year.

That shows a lack of care or effort on your part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says "very new" but you've been here over a year.

That shows a lack of care or effort on your part. "

Exactly this, always wonder why guys been on over a year without so much as a social. Its not that hard to get a social meet or attend an arranged social.

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By *ac711Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I would love to attend a social but due to my disability I find it impossible, I’ve had meetings in the past both singles and couples who have accepted my disability. Maybe times have changed or is an age thing these days?

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By *enuinebikinkyMan
over a year ago

LLANELLI

Some interesting replies on here. Especially about socials.....so much to add but best not lol

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