FabSwingers.com forum: All I want is a half decent meet

By *unnyboy3 OP Man
over a year ago

west wales

Help wanted please !!!

Been on this site for over a year and met some great people for friendly chats and coffee.

That's as far as it's gone.

Finding a half decent woman or couple for some good old down to earth swinging fun has proved so very elusive (especially in the Swansea and surrounding area).

I have lots to offer,my profile may be a bit reserved compared to many others but I am half decent looking,athletic with an excellent and wicked sense of humour,and definitely not in the habit of making a profile sound or look good by making up things.

Any tips please as my once anticipated swinging mojo is slowly deflating fast.

Is there anyone actually out there in swinging land ?

Thanks.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

You have no photos at all on display. People like to see who they are chatting to, doesn't have to be a face pic.

You can't accom, so people assume you are in some sort of relationship and will avoid you. If you can explain in your profile why you can't accom, it might help.

Socials happen every so often in Swansea, next one is the 17th Nov, get you name down and attend, great way of meeting people from here.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

you say you have had plenty of coffee meets, i would message the people youve met and ask them in a friendly way why they didnt want to play, might be because you didnt ask or read there signals ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to start giving lessons in how to get meets on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Help wanted please !!!

Been on this site for over a year and met some great people for friendly chats and coffee.

That's as far as it's gone.

Finding a half decent woman or couple for some good old down to earth swinging fun has proved so very elusive (especially in the Swansea and surrounding area).

Any tips please as my once anticipated swinging mojo is slowly deflating fast.

Is there anyone actually out there in swinging land ?

Thanks.

Sounds insulting " half decent" .You have nothing on your profile to entice .

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF

I'm only after fully decent meets myself mate !!

No rights on here, only privilages

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF

Now, lets have a look at your profile :

1) no photos, not even as private images = forget it

2) cannot accomodate, this as a single mean screams; " married/hitched/co-habiting/lives with parents "

to most women and couples

3) you are 43 yet you have 20 -45 down as your age range to meet, what this says is " Thinks a lot of himself " to many, I mean how many 20 year old girls are a) on here and b) want to meet someone old enough to be their dad and it makes anyone in your upper age bracket think you are going to be very judgemental over their wrinkles and stretch marks !

4) single, straight male, one of a very big pool at the very bottom of the food chain on here

that's why mate and your "half - decent" comment was pretty crass in my opinion and has put anyone who reads this off you

just my opinion and mine alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By starting this thread you have just reduced your chances considerably.

I would suggest you join a dating site.

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By *picer07Woman
over a year ago

CARDIFF

"I'm only after fully decent meets myself mate !!

No rights on here, only privilages

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Now, lets have a look at your profile :

1) no photos, not even as private images = forget it

2) cannot accomodate, this as a single mean screams; " married/hitched/co-habiting/lives with parents "

to most women and couples

4) single, straight male, one of a very big pool at the very bottom of the food chain on here

that's why mate and your "half - decent" comment was pretty crass in my opinion and has put anyone who reads this off you

just my opinion and mine alone"

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 put a few face pics on your profile

2 don't take dirty untill you have them in bed

3 never expect anything from the first meet

4 don't lie about height or cock size u will get caught lol

5 if u get turned down on here be polite and say thanks for the reply anyway I've met 3 girls from that very situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear ...... really?

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By *appy campersCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I (mrs Campers) thoroughly enjoyed reading all the replies in this thread, some great advice and really witty comments! Love it!! Am somewhat surprised mart didn't have much to say on this subject :P? hehe...Good luck with your meets and keep up the good work with the replies...A blog maybe?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I (mrs Campers) thoroughly enjoyed reading all the replies in this thread, some great advice and really witty comments! Love it!! Am somewhat surprised mart didn't have much to say on this subject :P? hehe...Good luck with your meets and keep up the good work with the replies...A blog maybe?

xx"

Moi? With my reputation? Whatever can you be implying Mrs Campers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half decent? Thats says it all!!!

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