FabSwingers.com forum: All involved

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We keep getting messages of other couples that the male and female can have all the fun with the mrs and I just sit and watch i no we all have our own preference but can not help to think that there

is trust issues on the male side or are my over thinking the situation

By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Trust issues deffo.

By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Yep sounds like theres definitely issues there

By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

I wouldn't say it was all about trust issues. Some couples are only interested in another lady playing with them and use this approach to get that because single ladies who are willing to meet this way are so few and far between.

But approaching a couple like that is wrong to me, when your profile (OP) is aimed at full swap with couples or the addition of another lady. If your profile offered to have your male sit and watch them 'borrow' your lady then fair enough, even if it is reciprocated at some point during the meet.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it wasn't a trust issue, everyone plays differently.

When we was last active I the husband didn't want to join in with play, I preferred to just sit back and enjoy what was happening in front of me whilst the wife had fun with which ever combination she was with.

But we did have this clearly on our profile.

By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

The longer we are on this site, the more we realise we still have so much to learn. There are so many dynamics to swinging couples etc. It’s about being honest and up front. We lay it out in our profile exactly what we are looking for and exactly what we are offering, so if we are approached with something outside of our desires, we simply say no thanks.

By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago

Neath,united kingdom

I fully appreciate people play how they want ,but it's rude to think you're after the same. Disrespectful to think you'd be ok with that without actually having a discussion first