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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a guy shouting at me, accusing me of being a guy because i politely told him he wasnt my type but hope he has fun on here...so what did i do wrong.. Should i ignore people if theyre not my type? Block them? Or do as ive always done and say thanks but no thanks.. Sometimes you cant win whatever you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If abusive then report otherwise just block. some guys get narked when they get a knockback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If abusive then report otherwise just block. some guys get narked when they get a knockback"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time to me so I no longer bother with the polite thanks but no thanks, now I just block & move on. The annoying thing is when the guy immediately rejoins with a new profile just to abuse you, I no longer get upset, I just report & block. Its their problem not yours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a no thank you much better than no reply but some cant handle that obviously !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sadly bad manners are all to common, not just within the single guy community mind x

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just block+report them,you sound like you were very polite towards them,so there's no exscuse for that behaviour,we all get knock backs in life,just take it on the chin+move on i say

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By *etes-dragonCouple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West

If we didnt have some thick skins and ignore without blocking some profiles on here.... there iv no idea where we would be!

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By *dgar47Man
over a year ago

Stafford

A thanks but no thanks is nice, better than being ignored. I can't see why anyone would have a problem with that, This is about sexual attraction which is very personal and capricious. Keep being polite and report offensive people!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hes blocked now.. Didnt report as i thought that might be a bit over the top..as he just seemed petty..dont think he'll be on here long with his attitude anyway xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well done i always say sorry no thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much rather a reply than a blank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately no matter what, there will always be bad mannered, impertinent people on here. If I message someone and it gets read and deleted, it obviously means the recipient isn't interested and I just leave it at that. I am polite with people who are polite towards me, but to abuse and insult is plain wrong. One question? Would we tolerate this behaviour in the real world like we do on FAB? No, because usually a thump around the earhole offends!

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

tbh i prefer people to block me if there not interested. Lets me know exactly where i stand and i can concentrate on those that are. So block away i don't understand peoples problems with it in all honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy to get any reply, sadly some guys cant take rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it makes it bad for the rest of us , if somebody says Thanks but no thanks I know them to be genuine

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London


"Just had a guy shouting at me, accusing me of being a guy because i politely told him he wasnt my type but hope he has fun on here...so what did i do wrong.. Should i ignore people if theyre not my type? Block them? Or do as ive always done and say thanks but no thanks.. Sometimes you cant win whatever you do "

Don't let them get you down,theres lots of nice guys on here,lol, some REALLY nice ones,lol. Then theres the cretins like that guy who spoil things and upset people.The number of nice guys far outweigh the cretins. Stay doin whatyoure doing, be yourself, and think bollox to anyone who abuses you like that.I've had crap like that too in the past til Rich phoned the guy and had a word.Suz.X

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By *aughty sensual pleasureMan
over a year ago

London/Bristol/Birmingham

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By *aughty sensual pleasureMan
over a year ago

London/Bristol/Birmingham

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By *aughty sensual pleasureMan
over a year ago

London/Bristol/Birmingham

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By *aughty sensual pleasureMan
over a year ago

London/Bristol/Birmingham


"Hes blocked now.. Didnt report as i thought that might be a bit over the top..as he just seemed petty..dont think he'll be on here long with his attitude anyway xxx"

"bad Attitude gets you nowhere! So he won't be here long very true! ! I don't mind getting a no thanks or sorry not my type as if you can't handle the answer you shouldn't ask the question! A polite no thanks is all I expect if I have made the effort to write a nice message. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you cant win.... I admit to being part of a couple and was openly accused of bing a man whilst in chat... those sort of people are not worth my time in all honesty....

I dislike going into chat now, because of it.....

I think our profile proves enough, but hey ho... Just ignore them... they really dont deserve even a polite no thanks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, you cant win.... I admit to being part of a couple and was openly accused of bing a man whilst in chat... those sort of people are not worth my time in all honesty....

I dislike going into chat now, because of it.....

I think our profile proves enough, but hey ho... Just ignore them... they really dont deserve even a polite no thanks.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of the problem is there are too many single guys and not enough cpls and certainly not enough fems, which is a shame. Swinging is now more sociably acceptable today than a few years ago. (Although its hardly something thats the topic of discussion amongst family/very close friends.) Cant see why the management dont advertise the site in the back pages of ladies mags like Bella, Take a break etc, to try and redress the balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him

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