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By *ucal OP   Couple
over a year ago

Llanelli

Hey everyone,

We are starting our new journey into poly, details on our profile.

If there are any couples who want to give us advice or would be interested

Please drop us a message via our profile xx

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"Hey everyone,

We are starting our new journey into poly, details on our profile.

If there are any couples who want to give us advice or would be interested

Please drop us a message via our profile xx "

What you're looking for is a "unicorn".

Unicorn hunting is a red flag to most polyam people. There is also a debate as to whether it is really polyam.

You need to consider are you actually looking to date someone or are you just looking for a third for your pleasure as a couple. There are lots of resources online. Some great pages on Insta/the book of face.

Not everyone who is polyam is a "couple" either. Single polyamory is quite common.

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By *ucal OP   Couple
over a year ago

Llanelli

Hey, yeh we get your angle there. but after lots of research and becoming friends with couples who are poly it is defo poly we want to go after lots of conversations

It is defo not just for us as a couple, we are also looking for just me Mrs and just A as Mr.

If we got involved as a couple (triad) it is definitely more than fun we are looking for, we want that loving caring romantic relationship too

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"Hey, yeh we get your angle there. but after lots of research and becoming friends with couples who are poly it is defo poly we want to go after lots of conversations

It is defo not just for us as a couple, we are also looking for just me Mrs and just A as Mr.

If we got involved as a couple (triad) it is definitely more than fun we are looking for, we want that loving caring romantic relationship too

"

And what happens if "Mrs" wants a guy? A one penis policy can be toxic and often makes single polyam women wary of starting a relationship with either of the couple.

A couple and a tirad are not the same. They're dating you as individual people, not one person dating a couple.

I recommend looking at pages like "Poly Phillia", "Polyamfam" and "Polypages" on insta and Facebook.

You're also looking at it from a couple's perspective and only couples if your only experience with polyam people is other "couples". That can also put single polyam women off.

If you were in the polyam community you'd know many different types of relationships not just other couples who bring in a third for play, which is what your experience of other polyam relationships sounds like.

Learning about couple privilege, relationship hierarchy etc. Is important.

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