FabSwingers.com forum: Single males

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive been on the site for a while and been to a social or two but it seems that the "scene" does not exist for us single males or could it be that im just not attracting anyone ? your thoughts on how I can go about meeting new friends would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the many other threads on single men, they seem to cover everything,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does exist for single males, on the other hand, chocolate is so much more reliable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A scene for single males does exist. The problem is so many "single" men aren't actually single, they cannot accommodate, only can do meets on way home from work, not meet at weekends ect... These individuals plus the ones who fail to turn up, mess women and couples around get us a bad name. I have never failed to turn up, never turned an arranged meet down. There are couples and single females that still actively meet single men, but you have to gain trust, get some veris up by meeting people on a social scale first, if you do that and your ok you will get veris, which in turn will help you be ed out from the timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does exist for single males, on the other hand, chocolate is so much more reliable

Im more white chocolate than dark chocolate but still very reliable......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does exist for single males, on the other hand, chocolate is so much more reliable

Im more white chocolate than dark chocolate but still very reliable......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does exist for single males, on the other hand, chocolate is so much more reliable

Im more white chocolate than dark chocolate but still very reliable......

Hi Kitten, wont let me message you as im outside your age range but pm me i have an interesting proposition for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhh we talking bournville ???? yummmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ohhh we talking bournville ???? yummmmm lol

No im afraid im only milky bar !!!

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By *dgar47Man
over a year ago

Stafford

This is a swinging site so happy to be tolerated as a single male. I have found everyone very considerate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A scene for single males does exist. The problem is so many "single" men aren't actually single, they cannot accommodate, only can do meets on way home from work, not meet at weekends ect... These individuals plus the ones who fail to turn up, mess women and couples around get us a bad name. I have never failed to turn up, never turned an arranged meet down. There are couples and single females that still actively meet single men, but you have to gain trust, get some veris up by meeting people on a social scale first, if you do that and your ok you will get veris, which in turn will help you be ed out from the timewasters. "
I'll second that, reliability and trust is the only way as I've said before i am lucky in as much as I've net some really nice down to earth couples and singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does exist for single males, on the other hand, chocolate is so much more reliable

Im more white chocolate than dark chocolate but still very reliable......

Hi Kitten, wont let me message you as im outside your age range but pm me i have an interesting proposition for you"

If its about your party tonight, afraid I am not free as will be working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ohhh we talking bournville ???? yummmmm lol

No im afraid im only milky bar !!!

I am talking Yorkies; Tesco's have 3 for £1.20 at the moment

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

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This has been done to death mate, no offence intended, do a search and you will see !

Yes the site does work for single men but I doubt it works as easily and as frequently as the majority of single men expect it to.

I think the basic premis is " Can you pull in real life, face to face " ?

If you can, then you can pull on here, it's just a case of time, effort, social skills , respect and decency, the same as in every other social situation between humans

Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been done to death mate, no offence intended, do a search and you will see !

Yes the site does work for single men but I doubt it works as easily and as frequently as the majority of single men expect it to.

I think the basic premis is " Can you pull in real life, face to face " ?

If you can, then you can pull on here, it's just a case of time, effort, social skills , respect and decency, the same as in every other social situation between humans

Tom"

Some guys join this site because they CAN'T pull in the real world and are of the opinion that us ladies are desperate slags.

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Some guys join this site because they CAN'T pull in the real world and are of the opinion that us ladies are desperate slags."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well guys thanks for the response - not that I have an issue with pulling in real life but I dont want the commitment or hassle that it brings - I want to explore my boundaries and thought this site would do that - maybe im wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been on the site for a while and been to a social or two but it seems that the "scene" does not exist for us single males or could it be that im just not attracting anyone ? your thoughts on how I can go about meeting new friends would be appreciated"

The problem is that the majority of single guys on this site are time wasters and that is the reason genuine single guys have problems finding couples to meet. No doubt you will say you are 100% genuine and have verifications to prove it, but from experience that isn't sufficient proof that a single guy is genuine.

Yet again this evening we have been let down by a single guy from Oxford. He sent us photos and has several verifications but at the end of the day he has proven to be a time waster.

I would suggest that you join a dating site or if you are merely looking for sex check out the Escorts in your area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard work filtering through all the no hoper, disrespectful, give us a shag/bj now single guys to find a decent one, sometimes I just give up & go without a meet because its easier. Have to say though there are one or two genuine single guys out there, one for definite in the thread above

that keep us fems on the site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the site is amazing for single guys but you have to acomadate and not start a message with fancy a fuck. Nobody wants to be talked to like crap. I've been on here 5 months had about 60 meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the site is amazing for single guys but you have to acomadate and not start a message with fancy a fuck. Nobody wants to be talked to like crap. I've been on here 5 months had about 60 meets"

Slut!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

************SINGLE MEN *************

What can i say about them try talking normal and dont ask for bj u may get somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet again this evening we have been let down by a single guy from Oxford. He sent us photos and has several verifications but at the end of the day he has proven to be a time waster.

I would suggest that you join a dating site or if you are merely looking for sex check out the Escorts in your area."

I had the same last night, he read the message I sent him in the morning before I went to work but didn't reply; that's when I got suspicion and he had my mobile, still waiting for a text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what exactly effects someone who single from having luck on here through being able to travel and accommodate is a good thing.Being good with writing a message is good as well if it gets read. I have messed about on a dating site where i didnt have luck except for one person who i only chatted to i joked that I would have more luck with a cock pic I couldn't put nudity on there but found loop hole with cock outline in trousers.I had loads of messages from women wanting to meet up straight away at all sorts of times of the day.I didn't meet up with no one as not my cock outline used a 12" one found online the women didn't even want a face pic from me. I don't want to meet people by lying.I have learned that a cock pic on this site for a profile pic will only ever work if you got a huge one if not then it only going to reduce your chances when compared to ones with one. you have more luck with no pic and that's still not much. If you got a nice face get that up on here. if your just ordinary then you need to do things that make you stand out you need to get people to message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what exactly effects someone who single from having luck on here through being able to travel and accommodate is a good thing.Being good with writing a message is good as well if it gets read. I have messed about on a dating site where i didnt have luck except for one person who i only chatted to i joked that I would have more luck with a cock pic I couldn't put nudity on there but found loop hole with cock outline in trousers.I had loads of messages from women wanting to meet up straight away at all sorts of times of the day.I didn't meet up with no one as not my cock outline used a 12" one found online the women didn't even want a face pic from me. I don't want to meet people by lying.I have learned that a cock pic on this site for a profile pic will only ever work if you got a huge one if not then it only going to reduce your chances when compared to ones with one. you have more luck with no pic and that's still not much. If you got a nice face get that up on here. if your just ordinary then you need to do things that make you stand out you need to get people to message you."

Great post, just laughing ere thinking of all the women bracing themselves for a glut of trouser outline pics of 12" dicks hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of the women on here are smart enough to make sure if there's a meet to see a full body pic of face and knob. plus cock outline pics on here don't really mean you got a huge one but they are funny.

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

This site+other swingers sites can definitely work for single guys,just takes time,patience+getting yourself to clubs,and the socials,where you can engage with people+show them your a fun person to be around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit board of single males posting in the forums wondering why they are finding it hard to get meets.

They mostly join the site with illusions of grandeur, expecting every single fem, and couple to be busting to meet

so...this is FACT

1. Pictures of your cock as your profile pic WONT work

2. Bragging about how wonderful you are WONT work

3. Messaging asking for a fuck WONT work

4. Expecting people to go outside their preferences WONT work

5. No content in your profile WONT work

6. Believing that your going to play with super models WONT work

7. Messaging repeatedly WONT work

8. Being inflexible WONT work

9. And bad attitudes indefinably WONT work.

What WILL work....

1. Be yourself

2. Go on chat

3. Attend a social

4. Make your messages have some meaning

5. Accept "no thanks" and move on

6. Put some effort into your profile

7. Have a picture of YOU on your profile

8. Respect people on here at ALL times

9. If you get a meet TURN UP !

Well if you can follow that, then I hope that some others on here may agree with me and you will have an amazing time.

There are some wonderful people on here that you will find that, even if you don't play, you will find great friends.

I may be totally wrong tho

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By *itts1977Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

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By *wanzMan
over a year ago

Swansea

"I'm a bit board of single males posting in the forums wondering why they are finding it hard to get meets.

They mostly join the site with illusions of grandeur, expecting every single fem, and couple to be busting to meet

so...this is FACT

1. Pictures of your cock as your profile pic WONT work

2. Bragging about how wonderful you are WONT work

3. Messaging asking for a fuck WONT work

4. Expecting people to go outside their preferences WONT work

5. No content in your profile WONT work

6. Believing that your going to play with super models WONT work

7. Messaging repeatedly WONT work

8. Being inflexible WONT work

9. And bad attitudes indefinably WONT work.

What WILL work....

1. Be yourself

2. Go on chat

3. Attend a social

4. Make your messages have some meaning

5. Accept "no thanks" and move on

6. Put some effort into your profile

7. Have a picture of YOU on your profile

8. Respect people on here at ALL times

9. If you get a meet TURN UP !

Well if you can follow that, then I hope that some others on here may agree with me and you will have an amazing time.

There are some wonderful people on here that you will find that, even if you don't play, you will find great friends.

I may be totally wrong tho

THAT is so totally correct ... Its the way I work, but you still cant get passed the bias that some people have due to the muppets of singles who are just play nice ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well put and well said cj m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well put and well said cj m8"

Well I just hope one or two of the single males actually read it

I cant post it in pictures

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

Well said CJ!! - As a single guy, I dont have any issues.

In my opinion you must be doing something wrong. You need to find out what it is.

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF

Oh no !!! Are my penis pictures on my profile putting people off !!!

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is a few spoil it for the many.. Got stood up by a single guy yesterday..messaged me a few hours later saying he'd overslept.. Then today i had a lovely message saying how nice my profile is and how he is a genuine good guy.. Which is great..but he had a lousy memory as he had stood me up about a month ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been very lucky and only had a couple of no shows in the last few years. For those particular 'gentleman' we have one course of action.... we will never ever play with us ever!!!

We think cj has said it all but we would also add, please write a paragraph or two about yourself and your attraction to the profile you are messaging. It never fails to astound us how many guys approach us and clearly haven't read our profile (e.g. in our profile it states we expect to be treated / messaged as a couple and hey presto the very next message is 'Hi hun, I want to fuck you'....).

As above, we had a guy message us recently who took the time to write a clear, friendly message and as a result we're looking at all options to try and get a meet sorted. Good sense of humour goes a long way too xx In the end the message is the same - fully understand what the girl, couple, guy, group, TV etc really want beefore making your first approach, we reckon probably 70% of messages we receive the person has made no effort to read our profile so we don't reply, just delete!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooo forgot to mention, if you do your homework as described throughout this thread your chances of a meet increase many fold xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this site is what you make of it i have had plenty of luck on here and meet some great people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile works, we think, chunkymonkey. Honest, more than one line and can see your preferences. Often people don't make the most of the opportunity the profile offers. The more info in there the easier it is for people to decide to message you.

If you read our profile (not suggesting it's perfect lol) you'll see we have said some things in it that wouls be a real off putter to some people but we believe in being totally honest about who we are and what we do, it let's people make an informed decision.

cj is absoloutley right, honesty goes a long way (guys who can hump for 24hrs straight are not for us!!).

Last couple of things... we have heard some single guys question if this site is for them?? Hell yes, some of us actively look for single males (as well as couples, groups, orgies etc

). Should you put up cock pics (pussy pics)?? Hell yes and thrice yes even if only for us.... and finally, cj how do you stop them socks running in the wash??

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a trade secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just point out that it was Mr Chams enquiring re the washing secrets and who says we don't want guys that can go for 24 hours hubby??? lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just point out that it was Mr Chams enquiring re the washing secrets and who says we don't want guys that can go for 24 hours hubby??? lol"

why does he need washing tips ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because he's got the ironing spot on just needs to sharpen up his laundry skills xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been done to death mate, no offence intended, do a search and you will see !

Yes the site does work for single men but I doubt it works as easily and as frequently as the majority of single men expect it to.

I think the basic premis is " Can you pull in real life, face to face " ?

If you can, then you can pull on here, it's just a case of time, effort, social skills , respect and decency, the same as in every other social situation between humans

Tom"

Couldn't agree more Tom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single Male trying get meets anyone go to fanny in swansea it's nick, I'm going to Cardiff social soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no !!! Are my penis pictures on my profile putting people off !!!

xxxx"

Not from where I am sitting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no !!! Are my penis pictures on my profile putting people off !!!

xxxx"

Nah, but the bush does!

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