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Would i be mad to look for a relationship here?

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By *heoriginaltaffy OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

Hi all. Just wondering if any of you lovely people have found a meaningful relationship here? While this may seem crazy to some I am completely serious.. I've tried and am on various mainstream dating sites but sex is such a big foundation and many won't or can't discuss.. love to hear your experiences..

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Yes we met via fab, few friends have found relationships on her (at least 1 has got married or committed to each other).

Best advice is don't look for one on here, attend parties, socials and clubs then if it happens (like all of people who has found a partner) it does

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By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago

Neath,united kingdom

I met my now husband through swinging at a social when I was 19. Also met my boyfriend at darlaston in 2018, so it's very possible.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I have several friends who met on here and have gone on to get married or are in committed relationships. It can and does happen. I suppose patience is the key

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Why not? If you meet someone and you hit it off then go for it. What's the difference between here or a dating site or pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met here and although not married we are in a fully comitted relationship

If you have swinging in your personality then its probably best to meet here as if you meet a "vanilla" person, you may seek out swinging wothout your partner, which is really infidelity, not swinging, a reciepe for disaster.

My advice, find a partner here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make sure people are honest! I lost my husband to someone here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost a husband here but found a lifelong friend & a committed partner, 11 years & still going strong. Anything is possible when you're not really looking for it, all the best in your search but be prepared to work hard at it X

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By *oves2please2021Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I’d love to find some one here on the same level.

See how it goes, fun then more socially if we click.

A night out, cinema that sort of thing.

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Just make sure people are honest! I lost my husband to someone here! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here also and it's great. We both know exactly what we want out of being together and staying on here swinging.

Don't think I'd even consider anything vanilla now

Ginge x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we met on here in autumn of 2019

we got married in January 2021

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By *heoriginaltaffy OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

Thank you guys for all the replies and encouragement. It is particularly hard to link up with single ladies even here because if the sheer volume of guys chasing them.. or maybe my lines are just crap..????Hopefully some will read this and get in touch for a chat ??

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By *aleunicorn69Man
over a year ago

cardiff

The best way to find anything is by attending the socials and clubs and let it organically happen.

Having spoken to my female fwb about this post she’s in agreement that your whole profile content of looking for a girlfriend is off putting, by all means have it on there but don’t have it as the only thing.

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By *heoriginaltaffy OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

Ah thank you.. and your partner. I would very much appreciate her suggestions... I am not the best at understanding women.. are any of us ?

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

I can't see me ever going vanilla again. I'd rather someone open and honest

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

Ohhh this minefield. No, you aren't wrong. But just be prepared to accept that the huge majority of ladies on here will run for the hills if they suspect that they could be asked for more than 'NSA'. And as such, it will take a very long time to even get a sniff of what you are ultimately here for.

I can never go back vanilla, like not ever (because I like to share) . But rather than settle for 'second best' and something less than ideal, I will stick to my guns and keep on searching for that elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

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By *ental monkeysCouple
over a year ago

caerphilly

We met on fab, and are committed to each other, and you know you both have the same mindset, as long as you both honest and open with each other it works

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By *jolnir85Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I wouldn’t say it’s mad to look for something meaningful on here. That’s what I’m hoping to find eventually but I enjoy the single life for now. It’s gonna take a very special lady to make me want to commit, but as long as she’s happy to share, then so am I. Just need to find her. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh this minefield. No, you aren't wrong. But just be prepared to accept that the huge majority of ladies on here will run for the hills if they suspect that they could be asked for more than 'NSA'. And as such, it will take a very long time to even get a sniff of what you are ultimately here for.

I can never go back vanilla, like not ever (because I like to share) . But rather than settle for 'second best' and something less than ideal, I will stick to my guns and keep on searching for that elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. "

Sharing is the key to our kind of relationship & that would never be found in the land of vanilla. Its not getting the guys to fuck others that's difficult, it's usually their default position in my experience, it's the sharing that experience they seem to struggle with X

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"Ohhh this minefield. No, you aren't wrong. But just be prepared to accept that the huge majority of ladies on here will run for the hills if they suspect that they could be asked for more than 'NSA'. And as such, it will take a very long time to even get a sniff of what you are ultimately here for.

I can never go back vanilla, like not ever (because I like to share) . But rather than settle for 'second best' and something less than ideal, I will stick to my guns and keep on searching for that elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

Sharing is the key to our kind of relationship & that would never be found in the land of vanilla. Its not getting the guys to fuck others that's difficult, it's usually their default position in my experience, it's the sharing that experience they seem to struggle with X"

If only message filters weren't a thing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost a partner to here but have met so many amazing people over the years. Most remain some of my best friends ever.

In my life on and off the scene.

And I know for many people who have met in here and gone the full mile together.

Anything is possible, just don’t look for something and go with the flow. Anything is possible

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Good luck everyone if it happens have had two nice ltr on here

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By *heoriginaltaffy OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

Thanks guys for all the comments. I have already made some amazing friends on here and continue to meet and make more. Just hoping to find that little bit extra which i know is possible. Its just as likely here i think as in the pub or a conventional dating site

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