FabSwingers.com forum: Daytime meet South Wales

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all you sexy people!

I was just wondering if anyone fancied a discrete meet during the week on either a Monday or Thursday daytime?

I'm very reliable, and ALWAYS turn up, so if you fancy it, give me a shout, I'm sure we'll have lots of fun!

Mark x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum is not the place for messages such as this. Also, your profile suggests that you are probably a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most probably another married guy looking to meet while mrs at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and out of interest, why is that a problem?? half the people as singles on here have wifes/girlfirends/husbands/boyfriends. the response would not have been the same had that been a single female!!! hypocrytical!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The forum is not the place for messages such as this. Also, your profile suggests that you are probably a time waster."

Quite right the forum is the place for stupid word association and would you fuck the one below you games

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Makes a change to see someone using the Wales forum to try and arrange a meet in Wales! Why the need to accuse the guy of being a timewaster?

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Most probably another married guy looking to meet while mrs at work"

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Most probably another married guy looking to meet while mrs at work"

Most likely you are right but single guys that are genuinely unattached (and worth meeting) seem to be in the minority on the site. It's not our choice to meet married guys but it's bloody hard work trying to find ones that aren't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True, I am a married guy looking for NSA meets.

I'm always upfront about this before arranging a meet, and ALWAYS turn up.

So what's your problem?

Where you get the idea I'm a timewaster. I've no idea. Every meet I've arranged on here, I've turned up to, and treated that person with respect and discretion.

Surprised at some of the comments on this post. Then again, a lot of people on here are all talk, and never even meet. These are the people I wish to avoid.

Any GENUINE swingers, feel free to message me. I guarantee you won't be disappointed.

Take care all, and happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you admit that you married,do you have the consent of your partner or just playing away from home

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is absolutely none of your business.

Don't you understand the concept of No Strings Attached, and discretion?

I state that is what I'm looking for, so my marital status is irrelevant.

If people don't want to meet a married guy, fair enough and good luck to them, I never pressure anyone to meet.

Your obsession with all this seems very strange. Why not chill out, and let people enjoy the site for what it was designed for: "swinging".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basicly speaking cheating,do you have any conscience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the op, what he gets up too with or without his wife's permission is his business and nobody else's. Personally we wont meet married men but would never slate them on a public forum...if people don't want to meet him that's fine, but leave it be and don't comment. Fab has members from every walk of life and none of us have the right to judge as we dp not know the circumstances..

Good luck op x

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By *f3_ladyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"True, I am a married guy looking for NSA meets.

I'm always upfront about this before arranging a meet, and ALWAYS turn up.

So what's your problem?

Where you get the idea I'm a timewaster. I've no idea. Every meet I've arranged on here, I've turned up to, and treated that person with respect and discretion.

Surprised at some of the comments on this post. Then again, a lot of people on here are all talk, and never even meet. These are the people I wish to avoid.

Any GENUINE swingers, feel free to message me. I guarantee you won't be disappointed.

Take care all, and happy swinging!"

We don't have a problem with married/attached guys playing without their partner's knowledge and we do not judge them for doing so. We just prefer not to meet these guys as we would not like to get mixed up in some intermartial difficulties etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True, I am a married guy looking for NSA meets.

I'm always upfront about this before arranging a meet, and ALWAYS turn up.

So what's your problem?

Where you get the idea I'm a timewaster. I've no idea. Every meet I've arranged on here, I've turned up to, and treated that person with respect and discretion.

Surprised at some of the comments on this post. Then again, a lot of people on here are all talk, and never even meet. These are the people I wish to avoid.

Any GENUINE swingers, feel free to message me. I guarantee you won't be disappointed.

Take care all, and happy swinging!

It's nice to see an objective comment on this controversial subject.

Isn't it quite simple ? State on your profile if you're attached, and perhaps also state if you're not interested in attached people ?

I don't see why it has to be anything other than freedom of choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get really annoyed when I see people judging other people. What business is it of anyones if a guy wants to meet regardless whether or not he is married. We all have our opinions on limitless subjects but that is exactly what it is.....individulas opinions. I have known many married women play on this site without their partners knowledge, and no I an not one of them, but nothing gets said to them. Lets just enjoy life guys. We are here one minute and gone the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with the op, what he gets up too with or without his wife's permission is his business and nobody else's. Personally we wont meet married men but would never slate them on a public forum...if people don't want to meet him that's fine, but leave it be and don't comment. Fab has members from every walk of life and none of us have the right to judge as we dp not know the circumstances..

Good luck op x"

We totally agree!! I bet if the OP was a female in the same position, she would be swamped with messages of offers to meet even by the same people who are slating the OP!! How much more hypocritical can we get?! At least he has been honest and upfront about his status. How many other 'single' men and women are willing to be so on here? How many so called 'couples' are just people who get together to play leaving there unsuspecting husbands and wives at home? Check yourselves before judging others. More power to you OP.

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By *AYMan
over a year ago

swansea

I'm not married xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck op x"

Totally agree with this , people have no right to judge others , if you don't like his choice of lifestyle that's your prerogative but don't we as swingers get enough judgemental attitudes about our morals from non swingers without doing it to each other ? As others have mentioned I wonder if there would be such strong criticism if it was a woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the messages of support guys, much appreciated.

It goes to show there are plenty of nice people on here, but of course you'll always get the occasional weird ones (they know who they are...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally it doesn't bother me if the guy is married. What I find really annoying is the number of time wasters on this site, the majority of which appear to be single guys.

From experience the time wasters have been on the site for a fair length of time but strangely enough do not have any verifications. If this guy does have verifications then why his he unwilling to show them. Also the 2 photos he has included are next to useless.

So Mark if you are genuine can you please switch on your verifications. Verifications are there for a purpose, one of which is to prove that the person is not a time waster.

Over to you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many people's verifications are switched off on this site; the reason mine are is due to discretion.

This has always been agreed with the people I've met, and none have had a problem with it. (Also, I was ALWAYS invited back)

As for my photos, they are all of me, but there is no face pic due to obvious reasons.

If this causes anyone a problem then the answer is simple: don't message me. All I can say is that the people I've met have been great, and there was never any of this bickering.

This has been my first and last visit to the forums, and I have to say I didn't expect all this criticism and hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the messages of support guys, much appreciated.

It goes to show there are plenty of nice people on here, but of course you'll always get the occasional weird ones (they know who they are...)

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iam free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously something to hide,you poor wife deserves better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I am tired of this suspicion of single men, funnily enough I haven't noticed any suspicion of single women, I have been here for a while trying to arrange meets but the first thing ppl see is no verifications therefore I must be a timewaster! It's catch 22, I can't meet because I don't have any verifications, I don't have regular enough Internet access to use webcams etc, but I can't get verified because noone will meet because I'm a single guy I obviously must be suspect, given the chance I would love to meet but I'm no longer going to peruse much on here it's getting me down, if anyone would like to speak to me please do get in touch, would live to talk if you are really genuine

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Personally I am tired of this suspicion of single men, funnily enough I haven't noticed any suspicion of single women, I have been here for a while trying to arrange meets but the first thing ppl see is no verifications therefore I must be a timewaster! It's catch 22, I can't meet because I don't have any verifications, I don't have regular enough Internet access to use webcams etc, but I can't get verified because noone will meet because I'm a single guy I obviously must be suspect, given the chance I would love to meet but I'm no longer going to peruse much on here it's getting me down, if anyone would like to speak to me please do get in touch, would live to talk if you are really genuine"

Well sorry but its tough basically. Too many single men on here are the absolute pits of society, that it really gets people looking for them very tired and cautious and you can't blame them.

We really have had contact from the sort that you would not wish on your worst enemy, and are certainly NOT safe to be meeting. Sadly it is the majority giving the minority a bad name but for us not worth it. We having explained to another couple the sort we had run into they advised only meeting meet in perso verified people adn that was the best thing we did.

Actually you can get plenty of verifications from meet in person and get the chance to meet lots and chat and then maybe break the ice and the vicious circle you are in... attend one of the many FAB Socials that are organised. Cardiff one on 3rd Nov etc but loads around think I just saw swansea one in october but check forum. then you will get verified as long as you talk to people and then people will be more likely to meet you.

But sadly its all brought about by the real weirdos on here and yes there are lots with the most horrid and freaky attitude and some with very violent attitude, so unless they can be stopped coming on here ( its never gonna change). the single women are less likely to be so freaky and weird, and if a guy wants to fuck me even with hubby present i want to ensure he's not a lunatic

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