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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For the third time this week we have had a single guy who is all, "yeah let's get together" after exchanging photos etc, right up until it is suggested that mobile numbers are exchanged so that details can be sorted. Then just silence.

What we supposed to be psychic or something?

And don't get us started on people who don't read profiles!

Are there any genuine guys in Wales on here who want to met a cuckold couple? Doesn't look like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you have been let down, yes there are some really nice genuine guys on here, trick us finding them lol.

Maybe message a few more times and maybe a phone chat will help you find the good guys.

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there are people what for what ever reason bottle out or have no intention on meeting

You say that everything is peachy up to the point of getting a phone number. I can only suggest that you reverse the process and get the number at the earliest convenience and confirm they are who they purport to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear you have been let down, yes there are some really nice genuine guys on here, trick us finding them lol.

Maybe message a few more times and maybe a phone chat will help you find the good guys.

Good luck xx"

Phone chat be good, except that when they vanish.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

There are plenty of good single guys on here that meet.

But there are plenty of time wasters too. Take the rough with the smooth as they say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In last 20 minutes had a message off guy who said like to meet up. His profile said cannot accommodate, so we sent a polite thanks, but only looking for people who can accommodate.

Reply - what about hotel.

No, to difficult with check in/out times for daytime meets.

Reply - what about outdoors?

No, don't do outdoors.

Reply - how about coming round my house when wife is in work?

BLOCKED

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a very genuine single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its bad enough for real single males to get accepted as it is - "no verification - no meet" . . well if we cannot meet how can we ever get verified!

Luckily that should change as got first proper meet tomorrow, and I will be there!! LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good luck for tomorrow. Hope you'll have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh my, you two ARE having a run of bad luck !

xx

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"In last 20 minutes had a message off guy who said like to meet up. His profile said cannot accommodate, so we sent a polite thanks, but only looking for people who can accommodate.

Reply - what about hotel.

No, to difficult with check in/out times for daytime meets.

Reply - what about outdoors?

No, don't do outdoors.

Reply - how about coming round my house when wife is in work?

BLOCKED"

Seen that scenario so many times!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK, so let's be positive. Our post certainly did seem to spark replies from guys stating their genuine and might like to meet or simply to say how disappointed they were that we'd been messed around so much. So in order to give a balanced response, yes we know there are genuine guys on here - thank God!! And a big, big thank you to everyone who helped buck up our spirits and opinion of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you roviously picking the wrong ones

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By *oxyfoxyfoxyMan
over a year ago

porth

Im a gen single guy they wana stop fuckin it up for us . xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to make it all better for u

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"im a very genuine single male"

Yeah, but they all say that, you're hardly going to say 'i'm not genuine, just here to mess you about' are you????

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By *iForNowXXMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

HI, I am not genuine, just here to mess you all around. Sorry, just kidding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are enough fakes on here that it taks for ever to work through who are here for fun it is not just single guys i have seen it happen with couples and single fems as other people have said you have to take the rough with the smooth and try to them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the third time this week we have had a single guy who is all, "yeah let's get together" after exchanging photos etc, right up until it is suggested that mobile numbers are exchanged so that details can be sorted. Then just silence.

What we supposed to be psychic or something?

And don't get us started on people who don't read profiles!

Are there any genuine guys in Wales on here who want to met a cuckold couple? Doesn't look like it."

I just cannot believe there's so many timewasters. I can accommodate in Cardiff, love meeting cuckold couples. I've sent a pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuine can travel or accom have verifications and I will swap pics via kik yak or skype

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By *iss HunyWoman
over a year ago

Newport

I have only been stood up twice,,, once by someone who regularly plays on Fab,, and have played with me and one other. I have met quite a few genuine single guys,,, some I dont have Verifications for...

Have I just been lucky,,,,,,I have met some great people .

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By *ervypeteMan
over a year ago

Newport

I have been on fab as a single guy for a long time now and have also played as a couple and can honestly say I have never been let down on an arranged meet. For that matter, I've never let anyone down either, although, I reserve the right to cancel at the last minute if something should come up. Personally I think this success on fab is down to the fact that I have always spent a lot of time getting to know people beforehand to ensure that we are all singing off the same song sheet. Best of luck in the future folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us genuine single guys, check my verifications, get messed about too, by so called couples, single guys pretending to be couples, as soon as you show then the friends only photos...... silence. Pisses me off big time. But i am lucky the couples i have met have been well worth the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok Here are some stats. We have been messaged by loads of single guys and couples too who simply have not read our very simple profile. Have a look then decide, all you avid readers. We have met some single guys who are genuine ( see the veri list) and two others who were not and let the side down. The site and the moderators do all that they can by putting in filters and blocks where they can but its how it is here and on pay sites too! The internet has made this too easy for the non genuine people. But we are where we are. Verifications are given by us , the members. And are read by others. Why do people veri bad meets or recommend false profilers. It's us, not only the site! to blame! We feel for the gen single males here who never get a leg up ! A single gen man on here has no chance and thats not fair! Look, if your a time wasting male pretending, then go away and leave the real guys to us, the rest of the site. For eveyone else please dont veri false guys!Ther ought to be a genuine button to press smewhre but there is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following this thread makes me laugh, I've spotted at least two time wasting single guys, but Im not one to name & shame. U know who you are guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some guys like myself are genuine but cant accom due to circumstances,mine I got my son his wife and theyre kids liveing with me so makes things difficult,so does this make me a time waister,and before any people start slaging me of no I do not have a degree in spelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some guys like myself are genuine but cant accom due to circumstances,mine I got my son his wife and theyre kids liveing with me so makes things difficult,so does this make me a time waister,and before any people start slaging me of no I do not have a degree in spelling. "

No, that doesn't make you a timewaster, it's the last minute no show followed by silence & no explanation that makes a timewaster. What you're describing is real life x

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By *appy campersCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Sadly this site seems to be full of idiots only interested in using genuine people purely for 'wank' material! So frustrating!!

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London


"For the third time this week we have had a single guy who is all, "yeah let's get together" after exchanging photos etc, right up until it is suggested that mobile numbers are exchanged so that details can be sorted. Then just silence.

What we supposed to be psychic or something?

And don't get us started on people who don't read profiles!

Are there any genuine guys in Wales on here who want to met a cuckold couple? Doesn't look like it."

If you want to check out our profile, you'll find that i'm happy to play alone with others...and fairly local to you too...pm me if you'd like to play.

Hope you find your fun anyway, whatever you decide...its difficult enough to find nice reliable honest people who do what they say on the tin, without timewasters and bullsh*tters. Rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly this site seems to be full of idiots only interested in using genuine people purely for 'wank' material! So frustrating!! "

For me its the couples who seem to mess me about most, especially over the weekend eves when they surf together enjoyong the thrill, then in the cold light of day text messages go unanswered & arrangements seem to be forgotten. Such a shame but I just move on & look forward to providing pleasure for the odd genuine fem, male or couple who manage to follow through with a meet x unfortunately that's the way the site is nowadays xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are genuine single guy's on here........

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By *wanzMan
over a year ago

Swansea


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Are there any genuine guys in Wales on here who want to met a cuckold couple? "

There are real and genuine guys on here who can accom and play in a cuck environment ..

I'M ONE !!

Check out my profile and my veris ... Im sure you wont be dissapointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe most men just wanna get off on ya pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh forgot to say when I first joined fab i only met single guys and must admit never had a NO SHOW and always had mobile nos: but must admit these days not the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You met a genuine guy who turned up xxx

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