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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good evening all, I am in need of urgent assistance me and a lady friend are desperately seeking a dogging spot in Cardiff or Newport area. Are there any suggestions or locations to assist? And due to the sensitivity of the subject a personal message would be ideal to protect these hidden gems, TIA

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By *elshdevil70Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Omg, yet another dogging request by single males on here.. there must be a dozen of these every month.

Question, why would anyone want to share any active locations on here so it can be over run by impatient/ desperate guys and in time ruin said location..

No offence to you OP but good luck with your search but I certainly won't be reveling any places sorry

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By *alleyGirlEnglishManCouple
over a year ago

Aberdare

These posts are daily not weekly!!!

No locations should be shared openly on here…

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By *elshdevil70Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Why should any be shared, period ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the thread, it says him and a lady and a personal massage.

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By *elshdevil70Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I did and have read it... and my point is the same , why would anyone want to disclose any locations either privately or other.

Also a lot of these requests come from single guys who just happen to also to have a ' female ' who will be joining them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever assumed he could be telling the truth ?

Doesn't look like.

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By *elshdevil70Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"Ever assumed he could be telling the truth ?

Doesn't look like."

Wouldn't dream of assuming lol but an awful lot of these dogging requests comes from 'single' guys who just happen to have a female 'friend' ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Funny thing is I was being very genuine and the response from people like yourself has made us change our minds, pretty laughable how people can be so judgmental and assume the worst. Never mind a social experiment over the next few weeks to see the reaction a single female will receive as my fwb has made her own account, guaranteed there will be a warmer response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"These posts are daily not weekly!!!

No locations should be shared openly on here… "
No locations should be shared openly on here… hence the request of a pm on the locations not over the forum don't be so quick to pass judgement we were looking forward to dipping our toes but have found a healthy replacement to avoid such negative people.

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By *elshdevil70Man
over a year ago

Swansea

But why should anyone even PM with any location ??

Takes yrs to build up friendships with couples and find meet locations and you want people to just simply give you that info lol.. and you just don't like the fact that people won't share any info.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon


"But why should anyone even PM with any location ??

Takes yrs to build up friendships with couples and find meet locations and you want people to just simply give you that info lol.. and you just don't like the fact that people won't share any info."

From a genuine couples point of view, if nobody shares locations then it’s hard for any Dogging to happen. We quite enjoy it, although we haven’t been that successful. We are new to South Wales and wouldn’t have a clue where to go...

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By *alleyGirlEnglishManCouple
over a year ago

Aberdare


"But why should anyone even PM with any location ??

Takes yrs to build up friendships with couples and find meet locations and you want people to just simply give you that info lol.. and you just don't like the fact that people won't share any info.

From a genuine couples point of view, if nobody shares locations then it’s hard for any Dogging to happen. We quite enjoy it, although we haven’t been that successful. We are new to South Wales and wouldn’t have a clue where to go..."

We’re a similar couple who enjoy outdoor adventures and would love to find a like minded couple.

We know a few quiet spots in South Wales as well

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By *elshdevil70Man
over a year ago

Swansea

In all my time enjoying outdoor fun its actually extremely rare to see more than one couple playing at the same time. I think a lot just now tend to arrange private meets via fab etc due to the amount of single pushy men, boy racers, police presence etc,etc

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"From a genuine couples point of view, if nobody shares locations then it’s hard for any Dogging to happen. We quite enjoy it, although we haven’t been that successful. We are new to South Wales and wouldn’t have a clue where to go..."

Agreed. There has to be some sharing of information, but it's how far it goes that's crucial. I suspect there has to be a circle of trust. It's like at clubs, most of the play involves people who know and trust each other, or who come with a reference from a mutual friend.

I was at one of the main locations in South Wales once, and I got talking to a bloke who said a couple would probably be on their way, but that she talked all the time and never did anything. They arrived, I got talking to them and we're now good friends. This bloke just wanted to stick his old chap through the passenger window and get it sucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But why should anyone even PM with any location ??

Takes yrs to build up friendships with couples and find meet locations and you want people to just simply give you that info lol.. and you just don't like the fact that people won't share any info.

From a genuine couples point of view, if nobody shares locations then it’s hard for any Dogging to happen. We quite enjoy it, although we haven’t been that successful. We are new to South Wales and wouldn’t have a clue where to go..."

This! Us too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But why should anyone even PM with any location ??

Takes yrs to build up friendships with couples and find meet locations and you want people to just simply give you that info lol.. and you just don't like the fact that people won't share any info."
I completely appreciate that but you have totally blown the request out of proportion. And made an assumption towards our characters and what we were willing to explore, but if it's people with negative and judgemental mentality as yourself we would rather explore alternative avenues. And at no point did I show signs of dislike towards people not wanting to share locations, it's the weekend go out and enjoy yourself.

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By *elshdevil70Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Well I hope you and your female ' friend ' find what you are looking for

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Why should any be shared, period .."

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

The problem is, who do you trust to share info with?

Have seen over the years many sites being mucked up due to Internet discussions. People don't want to go dogging any more, they want to turn up, full beam blazing stop any fun that's happening, sit with lights on, get bored n bugger off.

It Really doesn't take much thought to find spots...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The problem is, who do you trust to share info with?

Have seen over the years many sites being mucked up due to Internet discussions. People don't want to go dogging any more, they want to turn up, full beam blazing stop any fun that's happening, sit with lights on, get bored n bugger off.

It Really doesn't take much thought to find spots... "
thank for for input great way to act as a deterrent for new comers

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"The problem is, who do you trust to share info with?

Have seen over the years many sites being mucked up due to Internet discussions. People don't want to go dogging any more, they want to turn up, full beam blazing stop any fun that's happening, sit with lights on, get bored n bugger off.

It Really doesn't take much thought to find spots... thank for for input great way to act as a deterrent for new comers "

It's how things are now.

If you really wanted to go dogging, you would go it's as simple as that.

Dogging can't really be done online, it involves leaving the house and finding fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The problem is, who do you trust to share info with?

Have seen over the years many sites being mucked up due to Internet discussions. People don't want to go dogging any more, they want to turn up, full beam blazing stop any fun that's happening, sit with lights on, get bored n bugger off.

It Really doesn't take much thought to find spots... thank for for input great way to act as a deterrent for new comers

It's how things are now.

If you really wanted to go dogging, you would go it's as simple as that.

Dogging can't really be done online, it involves leaving the house and finding fun "
it wouldn't be dogging if we were going sit online and talk about, we were looking for physical experiences but it's hard to just go out driving looking for possible locations.

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