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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is our first post in here, replied to a few before but never started one. Here goes.

Just wanted people's opinions on anyone they've seen on here that treat this like its the most serious thing in the world. That everything has to be done to their exacting standards, the kind that look down their nose at you for treating this for what it is, a fun past time we share together.

Have noticed quite a few shitty comments to people's posts on here and don't get why they feel the need to be complete douches about it. Quite expecting a few about this but hey ho, I'm big enough and soft enough to not give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is our first post in here, replied to a few before but never started one. Here goes.

Just wanted people's opinions on anyone they've seen on here that treat this like its the most serious thing in the world. That everything has to be done to their exacting standards, the kind that look down their nose at you for treating this for what it is, a fun past time we share together.

Have noticed quite a few shitty comments to people's posts on here and don't get why they feel the need to be complete douches about it. Quite expecting a few about this but hey ho, I'm big enough and soft enough to not give a shit. "

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By *danteMan
over a year ago

rhonda

liking your first post op now sits back and watches with interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"liking your first post op now sits back and watches with interest "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to tell you truth it is to serious one wrong word one wrong move you had it im generally here for fun away from daily life just for excitement my opinion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot comment on anyone else but as I assume that I am one of said 'douches' then I shall give my view.

I'm sure a few people on here see me as Satan incarnate for my blunt views but I'm not the sort to pussyfoot around. I always post truthfully, and whether that offends or pleases, I couldn't give a fiddler's fart. I'm not one of the happy-clappy kiss-arse crowd and I don't normally use smilies or 'lols', so sometimes even tongue-in-cheek posts can be misconstrued.

I think people on here need a thicker skin. I don't agree with everything that is posted on this forum, and I sure as hell don't expect everyone to agree with me on certain views. However, I've had various messages over the course of my stay saying 'thank you for having the balls to say what we were thinking but were too afraid to say it.' So I can't be all that bad...can I...?

Love Satan's Hellbitch VIII

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging is for fun, forum is for fun it dose not all have to be about sex its not a 9 to 5 job if dont like it write your own post on something you want to talk about....ps get a life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good effort meerkat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"swinging is for fun, forum is for fun it dose not all have to be about sex its not a 9 to 5 job if dont like it write your own post on something you want to talk about....ps get a life"

Who needs to get a life?

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"to tell you truth it is to serious one wrong word one wrong move you had it im generally here for fun away from daily life just for excitement my opinion xx"

It can be too serious, but you have to remember as a couple we are looking for guys that will fit with what we enjoy and that also means right attitude so if a message is sent with wrong attitude or approach.. then thats enough for us to move onto the next one.. far too many single guys on here for us to waste our precious time on people with the wrong approach. harsh but true.

I have to also say that i think there are alot on here not aimed at anyone posting on this thread mind that dont treat the site or the people on it with the respect they or it deserve. Those sorts are here just because they thinks its easier to get a shag on here as as far as they are concerned we must all be desperate.

It is supposed to be some adult mature nsa fun. It is a swingers site and swinging is a lifestyle secure open minded adults choose to live... however that does not mean that we live our lives naked all the time at it like rabbits. We do have to work and have families which always has to come before swinging.

I have been shocked lately when noted a few in chatroom that seem to be there no matter what time of day or night you pop in... clearly not got a life outside this site which is very sad indeed.

Do get us wrong we would love to be at it all day long and manage alot but we are not sat on here just talking about it like alot.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"to tell you truth it is to serious one wrong word one wrong move you had it im generally here for fun away from daily life just for excitement my opinion xx

It can be too serious, but you have to remember as a couple we are looking for guys that will fit with what we enjoy and that also means right attitude so if a message is sent with wrong attitude or approach.. then thats enough for us to move onto the next one.. far too many single guys on here for us to waste our precious time on people with the wrong approach. harsh but true.

I have to also say that i think there are alot on here not aimed at anyone posting on this thread mind that dont treat the site or the people on it with the respect they or it deserve. Those sorts are here just because they thinks its easier to get a shag on here as as far as they are concerned we must all be desperate.

It is supposed to be some adult mature nsa fun. It is a swingers site and swinging is a lifestyle secure open minded adults choose to live... however that does not mean that we live our lives naked all the time at it like rabbits. We do have to work and have families which always has to come before swinging.

I have been shocked lately when noted a few in chatroom that seem to be there no matter what time of day or night you pop in... clearly not got a life outside this site which is very sad indeed.

Do get us wrong we would love to be at it all day long and manage alot but we are not sat on here just talking about it like alot.

"

**** oops .. bloody phone.. supposed to say don't get us wrong... lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"to tell you truth it is to serious one wrong word one wrong move you had it im generally here for fun away from daily life just for excitement my opinion xx

It can be too serious, but you have to remember as a couple we are looking for guys that will fit with what we enjoy and that also means right attitude so if a message is sent with wrong attitude or approach.. then thats enough for us to move onto the next one.. far too many single guys on here for us to waste our precious time on people with the wrong approach. harsh but true.

I have to also say that i think there are alot on here not aimed at anyone posting on this thread mind that dont treat the site or the people on it with the respect they or it deserve. Those sorts are here just because they thinks its easier to get a shag on here as as far as they are concerned we must all be desperate.

It is supposed to be some adult mature nsa fun. It is a swingers site and swinging is a lifestyle secure open minded adults choose to live... however that does not mean that we live our lives naked all the time at it like rabbits. We do have to work and have families which always has to come before swinging.

I have been shocked lately when noted a few in chatroom that seem to be there no matter what time of day or night you pop in... clearly not got a life outside this site which is very sad indeed.

Do get us wrong we would love to be at it all day long and manage alot but we are not sat on here just talking about it like alot.

**** oops .. bloody phone.. supposed to say don't get us wrong... lol"

Totally understand what you are saying, which was my point exactly. Far too many people on here take this too seriously. Yes, we like to have the right person/persons for a meet, and we do get dicks that don't read profiles before messaging, but we just block and move on.

Agree that some people seem to spend hours and hours on here, which in our case, could be time we're not spending together. We'd much rather treat this for what it is, a fun past time for us. A chance to meet new interesting people and shag their brains out. But as far as letting it run our lives, not a chance!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if we were all the same what a boring world this would be some people get sucked into these type of sites and take it the only way they no how on the other hand some people come on here and dont give a shit who they upset that's the way life is myself I come on here to have a natter and take it with a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats nonsense how can u possibly judge sum ones attitude by txt you could hav nicest guy in world send a message but maybe that cpl could wrongly interprate the txt it a load of bollocks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if i do get a short email off a guy i still like to go on their profile check out verifications and pics, also i agree with people being on here 24/7 its crazy the site drives me mad after an hour or two lol with constant emails also i have an 11 month old and i enjoy time with her until she is asleep which is when i spend couple of hours on here. Jen xx

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"thats nonsense how can u possibly judge sum ones attitude by txt you could hav nicest guy in world send a message but maybe that cpl could wrongly interprate the txt it a load of bollocks x"

When a guys first message is can i fuck you.. or wanna see me cum... he aint no genuine swinger.. If his first message or two seem okay then he asks.. and some get real pushy wanting to meey mrs on her own they are blocked. if after saying a few things the guy keeps on and on and getting really pushy then he is not for us.

A first message the other day.. i wanna meet you, when and where... wrong.. stinking attitude crap first approach not interested.

The you get certain ones who have one of these approaches so get blocked.. Yesterday a new member messaged with same type of message.. it was the same guy in chat having joined again only 15mins before. that was the 4 registration we had blocked him under funny enough when we told hom we knew who he was he deleted that account..

Sorry but you can tell a persons attitude from messages, its extremely clear what they are like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats nonsense how can u possibly judge sum ones attitude by txt you could hav nicest guy in world send a message but maybe that cpl could wrongly interprate the txt it a load of bollocks x

When a guys first message is can i fuck you.. or wanna see me cum... he aint no genuine swinger.. If his first message or two seem okay then he asks.. and some get real pushy wanting to meey mrs on her own they are blocked. if after saying a few things the guy keeps on and on and getting really pushy then he is not for us.

A first message the other day.. i wanna meet you, when and where... wrong.. stinking attitude crap first approach not interested.

The you get certain ones who have one of these approaches so get blocked.. Yesterday a new member messaged with same type of message.. it was the same guy in chat having joined again only 15mins before. that was the 4 registration we had blocked him under funny enough when we told hom we knew who he was he deleted that account..

Sorry but you can tell a persons attitude from messages, its extremely clear what they are like."

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"thats nonsense how can u possibly judge sum ones attitude by txt you could hav nicest guy in world send a message but maybe that cpl could wrongly interprate the txt it a load of bollocks x

When a guys first message is can i fuck you.. or wanna see me cum... he aint no genuine swinger.. If his first message or two seem okay then he asks.. and some get real pushy wanting to meey mrs on her own they are blocked. if after saying a few things the guy keeps on and on and getting really pushy then he is not for us.

A first message the other day.. i wanna meet you, when and where... wrong.. stinking attitude crap first approach not interested.

The you get certain ones who have one of these approaches so get blocked.. Yesterday a new member messaged with same type of message.. it was the same guy in chat having joined again only 15mins before. that was the 4 registration we had blocked him under funny enough when we told hom we knew who he was he deleted that account..

Sorry but you can tell a persons attitude from messages, its extremely clear what they are like.

"

Well what does that poster read ffs.. he probably sends messages like that.. of course you call tell a persons right or wrong attitude from messages.. and from forum posts.. some get blocked due to age before even a message as funny enough younger guys tend to be worst at it... age was reason only we blocked him 2 weeks ago.. lol the reason we stick to age limit of min 35 although its not just younger ones..funny having kids and experience makes you well capable if judging attitude from messages or even just profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course you can judge a person from a message, most definitely.

You could be the nicest fem/bloke/couple in the world but the moment you send a crude vulgar message, you're a goner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swinging is for fun, forum is for fun it dose not all have to be about sex its not a 9 to 5 job if dont like it write your own post on something you want to talk about....ps get a life"

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