FabSwingers.com forum: South Wales Singles Social

By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

Myself and a couple of couples have recently been in talks about organising a social aimed primarily for singles in the South Wales area, before embarking on this, we want to put the feelers out and see what kind of interest there may be for such.

The social will mostly be an equal mix of single men and women along with some couples.

If successful, we can look at making it a regular event so please share thoughts, ideas or interest below.

Thank you

MrJ.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Single & interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be great to get people mingling face to face in a relaxed environment, meeting local people

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

It will, and this why we've talked about organising this together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get it if it was exclusive to singles but why call it a singles social if couples will be going ?

You just as well call it a normal social ?

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

Because its primarily for singles and will be mostly singles there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea, with the excess of single men to single women though how would you make the list of attendees? Would you put all interested males names into a lottery and draw them out ? Obviously this would leave quite a few feeling left out. Also if it was a regular thing would the first successful bunch of single males be excluded form the draw until everyone has attended at least one so we all know at some point we will 100% be able to attend ?

As I said it's a good idea and would be interested in attending myself, however measures would have to be put in place so all interested parties feel they get a fair crack of the whip.

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By *uxuriantexhibitionistWoman
over a year ago

Middle of nowhere

"Good idea, with the excess of single men to single women though how would you make the list of attendees? Would you put all interested males names into a lottery and draw them out ? Obviously this would leave quite a few feeling left out. Also if it was a regular thing would the first successful bunch of single males be excluded form the draw until everyone has attended at least one so we all know at some point we will 100% be able to attend ?

As I said it's a good idea and would be interested in attending myself, however measures would have to be put in place so all interested parties feel they get a fair crack of the whip."

As if you need a single social to get a crack of the whip!

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

Hi symona1, I appreciate your feedback, depending on the interest shown, those who will be invited will be looked at further down the line. Of course, we won't want anyone to feel left out and hopefully, those who aren't invited to the first will be understanding enough to capacity and ratio needs which may increase if it becomes a regular event, allowing more people to attend.

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Huge amount of responses and feedback to the same question when you posted last year before deleting your account - would the few couples just be the ones organising with you? Obviously the ratio of men - women would need to be right and that’s the hardest part! Probably even worse now than before x

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

That was in discussion before lockdown hit, unfortunately lockdown halted any plans, it was also during lockdown that I deleted my account, for personal reasons, I've since returned and lockdown is now over.

The number of couples aren't restricted to those looking to organise with me, again, it depends on interest shown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why singles though? Do people want to date people on here or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would get it if it was exclusive to singles but why call it a singles social if couples will be going ?

You just as well call it a normal social ?"

I agree with you CJ smacks of a shopping spree for couples, let them vet the single ladies. No different to those parties where only couples & single females can attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As if you need a single social to get a crack of the whip!

Thanks gorgeous but yes, need every opportunity available just like all of my peers

By the way you don't happen to own a whip do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Idea sounds great but you can already see it’s going to end up complicated, would be interested if it got going though

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By *ouannCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Definitely something I would be interested in as I am now single I'll keep an eye on this

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

Sounds good and will be interested

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By *aisiahMan
over a year ago

crosshands

Nice idea I'll definitely be coming

Thanks

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By *aisiahMan
over a year ago

crosshands

"Why singles though? Do people want to date people on here or something? "

Never know dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would get it if it was exclusive to singles but why call it a singles social if couples will be going ?

You just as well call it a normal social ?

I agree with you CJ smacks of a shopping spree for couples, let them vet the single ladies. No different to those parties where only couples & single females can attend

Sounds like it

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By *uxuriantexhibitionistWoman
over a year ago

Middle of nowhere

"As if you need a single social to get a crack of the whip!

Thanks gorgeous but yes, need every opportunity available just like all of my peers

By the way you don't happen to own a whip do you?

No whip sorry. Much more likely to allow others to whip me in essence

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

"I would get it if it was exclusive to singles but why call it a singles social if couples will be going ?

You just as well call it a normal social ?

I agree with you CJ smacks of a shopping spree for couples, let them vet the single ladies. No different to those parties where only couples & single females can attend

As said in the opening post, there will be an equal number of single men and women with some couples, did you not read that?

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I attended a few single only socials that ran a few years back.

Who ever you have on the list, balance will never happen.

Each single social was different. Some had a great balance of men and women. One had a female heavy attendance and a few had more men than women.

It's will be like any other social, you will never know until the night.

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

Unfortunately it's always going to be an issue with people putting their name forward but then not attending, those won't be invited again.

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By *oldendelicious40Man
over a year ago

london

Yes would be a great idea as genuine single guys are at a huge disadvantage on here.

We post anything it’s suppressed unlike couples posts and videos.

So be a great idea to involve singles about time someone did this.

Social for singles be good fun.

So yes please xxx

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By *ardiffuncutMan
over a year ago

Tonyrefail

If it was a child free week I would attend

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Couples ???? Not classed as a single social then. One half from a couple maybe.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Because its primarily for singles and will be mostly singles there

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that's a normal social event then. We attended the Bridgend one Sunday, and mainly singles there. So no different really. Maybe just a couples one would be better..

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Unfortunately it's always going to be an issue with people putting their name forward but then not attending, those won't be invited again.

Many genuine, single men, get overlooked on here for whatever reason, the purpose of the social is for them to step forward and to be seen, to meet with the women and couples that are looking to meet single men."
Having a social where people are looking to meet single men is a great idea as we know a lot of couples that struggle to find genuine men that actually turn up..I don’t think you can call it a singles social tho if you are also including couples .

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Because its primarily for singles and will be mostly singles there

that's a normal social event then. We attended the Bridgend one Sunday, and mainly singles there. So no different really. Maybe just a couples one would be better.. "

On our table there were 2 couples, 1 female and 6 single men- so proof in the pudding that single men aren’t excluded they just need to show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As if you need a single social to get a crack of the whip!

Thanks gorgeous but yes, need every opportunity available just like all of my peers

By the way you don't happen to own a whip do you?

No whip sorry. Much more likely to allow others to whip me in essence

Well i do travel with a flogger in the glove box of my car, always an interesting one to explain to the police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would get it if it was exclusive to singles but why call it a singles social if couples will be going ?

You just as well call it a normal social ?

I agree with you CJ smacks of a shopping spree for couples, let them vet the single ladies. No different to those parties where only couples & single females can attend

As said in the opening post, there will be an equal number of single men and women with some couples, did you not read that? "

Yes apparently I read it very well thanks

Not a single social but a normal social event.

Select couples only ? If so, it isn't very fair on those couples who want to attend a singles social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically you’re not going to please everybody, go ahead with it and see how it works out, people who are with the idea will attend and I’m sure they will have a fab time, if you disagree with the idea it’s simple you just don’t have to attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested, though I have my doubts. Especially a ‘singles’ social with couples attending.

If the intention is for single users of the site to come together for a social, then keep it that way and exclude the couples.

Otherwise it’s a private social with select individuals the couples want present

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

"I would get it if it was exclusive to singles but why call it a singles social if couples will be going ?

You just as well call it a normal social ?

I agree with you CJ smacks of a shopping spree for couples, let them vet the single ladies. No different to those parties where only couples & single females can attend

As said in the opening post, there will be an equal number of single men and women with some couples, did you not read that?

Yes apparently I read it very well thanks

Not a single social but a normal social event.

Select couples only ? If so, it isn't very fair on those couples who want to attend a singles social

If you read it well, where did I say select couples??

Thank you to those showing interest and support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a awsome idea.. I would be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im down for this! Would be nice to meet some new people on here and have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say give it a go. I know a few ladies who would welcome 10 guys for every 1 girl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because its primarily for singles and will be mostly singles there

that's a normal social event then. We attended the Bridgend one Sunday, and mainly singles there. So no different really. Maybe just a couples one would be better.. "

Even though we never got to chat, we were sat at opposite ends of the table, it was nice to "meet" you

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By *lean cut jayMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

100% interested

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

"Myself and a couple of couples have recently been in talks about organising a social aimed primarily for singles in the South Wales area, before embarking on this, we want to put the feelers out and see what kind of interest there may be for such.

The social will mostly be an equal mix of single men and women along with some couples.

If successful, we can look at making it a regular event so please share thoughts, ideas or interest below.

Thank you

MrJ. "

Very single. Very interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would get it if it was exclusive to singles but why call it a singles social if couples will be going ?

You just as well call it a normal social ?

I agree with you CJ smacks of a shopping spree for couples, let them vet the single ladies. No different to those parties where only couples & single females can attend

As said in the opening post, there will be an equal number of single men and women with some couples, did you not read that?

Yes apparently I read it very well thanks

Not a single social but a normal social event.

Select couples only ? If so, it isn't very fair on those couples who want to attend a singles social

If you read it well, where did I say select couples??

Thank you to those showing interest and support. "

I asked how the couples are selected ?

I'm not knocking the event, I'm just confused how a singles event has couples?

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"Because its primarily for singles and will be mostly singles there

that's a normal social event then. We attended the Bridgend one Sunday, and mainly singles there. So no different really. Maybe just a couples one would be better..

Even though we never got to chat, we were sat at opposite ends of the table, it was nice to "meet" you"

Ahh I recognise you now

I was on the opposite end of the table from you. We seriously need name tags at these things

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ahh I recognise you now

I was on the opposite end of the table from you. We seriously need name tags at these things

Can you imagine some of the name tags if profile names are used? We can’t subject the bar staff to that!

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Ahh I recognise you now

I was on the opposite end of the table from you. We seriously need name tags at these things

Can you imagine some of the name tags if profile names are used? We can’t subject the bar staff to that! "

Would be like and an AA meeting. Hi I'm the vaginal vandal

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

"Because its primarily for singles and will be mostly singles there

that's a normal social event then. We attended the Bridgend one Sunday, and mainly singles there. So no different really. Maybe just a couples one would be better..

Even though we never got to chat, we were sat at opposite ends of the table, it was nice to "meet" you

Ahh I recognise you now

I was on the opposite end of the table from you. We seriously need name tags at these things

Where was this??

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By *ardiffGeekMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh I recognise you now

I was on the opposite end of the table from you. We seriously need name tags at these things

Can you imagine some of the name tags if profile names are used? We can’t subject the bar staff to that! "

Well you would be alright! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes would be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always up for a social so count me in

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

I'm up for it as I woukd love to meet someone with the same outlook rather than vanilla

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool/Torquay

I would be interested and depending ware abouts it would be at

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

I'm single and if on a day I can attend I'd definitely be there

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

Nearby

I'm single, and would be interested in attending if I'm child free on the date xx

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

It is a good idea I’d attend, it’s nice for different folk to arrange things and mix things up. Good luck on arranging xxx

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By *tis1986Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Sounds a good social to arrange if possible.

Would be interested and I'm single.

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By *ingleswinger45Man
over a year ago

Cardif

I,m a single guy and interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im interested.. x

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

What a load of bollocks. Sorry but I've ran a singles social and it's just that... For singles. Not couples. Or as previously stated just a normal social

just call it what it is like

People will still come

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

Well those who think it’s a good idea can go, those who don’t, don’t go. Simple x

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By *H22Woman
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Sounds good to me

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I’d be interested if this goes ahead regularly, although I am confused as to why you’re calling it a singles social when it’s going to have couples as well OP?

I have no issue with couples attending by the way, just that if you’re calling it a singles social it should really be singles only, otherwise people will get the wrong idea

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

Alot of people seem to be focusing more on how I've branded the social than what the purpose of the social is, an opportunity for singles to meet others and some couples that are looking to meet singles, whereas not all couples are looking for single men/women, surely it's not difficult to understand so if you have nothing nice to say, or if it isn't for you, say nothing and find a thread that is for you.

Peace to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people seem to be focusing more on how I've branded the social than what the purpose of the social is, an opportunity for singles to meet others and some couples that are looking to meet singles, whereas not all couples are looking for single men/women, surely it's not difficult to understand so if you have nothing nice to say, or if it isn't for you, say nothing and find a thread that is for you.

So would couples who also play solo be welcome?

Peace to all

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Peace to all

Because you've branded it a Singles Social when it's not a single social

That's like a speed dating for singles saying couples welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested in this

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

Peace to all

Exactly xx

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Well, it doesn't bother me what it's called or who goes, depending on time and place I'd be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So would couples who also play solo be welcome?

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

So basically anyone who’s on fab that wants to pick up a single person is welcome?

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Sounds interesting, as it was pointed out earlier single men are often over looked on fab. I can understand why but it still seams a little harsh at times.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ahh I recognise you now

I was on the opposite end of the table from you. We seriously need name tags at these things

Can you imagine some of the name tags if profile names are used? We can’t subject the bar staff to that!

Would be like and an AA meeting. Hi I'm the vaginal vandal

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god we'd have to change our name to something way more exciting and befitting then.. any suggestions?

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By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago

Neath,united kingdom

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By *ayjay1714Man
over a year ago

everywhere

Very interested!

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By *ojanglesMan
over a year ago

Windy Wales

Intrested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested, single male.

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By *oveagoodtootMan
over a year ago

naughty town

Deffo be up for it

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By *izylizyWoman
over a year ago

wales

Im interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be interested been on for a few months, think I’d do better in person lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get my vote. I am new to all this and would like to get to know people face to face.

An idea would maybe something just for those new to the site and don't have much experience within this community.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I would be up for this, the existing socials do tend to be mostly couples who know each other & its difficult to interact unless you are very bold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be up for this, the existing socials do tend to be mostly couples who know each other & its difficult to interact unless you are very bold. "

You get what you put in though. If you go and sit on a table on your own then it’s going to be a different experience to someone who puts themselves out there. A newbie came and sat on our table at the Bridgend social and he had a great time and we all made sure to look after him and introduce him to others etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually it’s just been pointed out to me that we had THREE newbies join our table that night!

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

Oh my life are you all still debating it about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single + Interested

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By *ri87Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Single and interested, if still going ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some serious faceplanting going on but I'm keeping quiet

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I have some serious faceplanting going on but I'm keeping quiet

There maybe some opportunities of faceplanting after the social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No news on a date ? I'm pretty excited about scarlet face planting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple interested here

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By *espectfull but filthyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As if you need a single social to get a crack of the whip!

Thanks gorgeous but yes, need every opportunity available just like all of my peers

By the way you don't happen to own a whip do you?

No whip sorry. Much more likely to allow others to whip me in essence

I’m going whip shopping. Oh no there’s one!

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By *elshbuilder67Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

Went to a couple of singles socials in Newport years ago, they were well attended and were fun

I’d definitely be up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and very interested ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m interested if there’s a social organised

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By *oldiecocksWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be interested but id like to go with or as a plus one/buddy, not as a couple or anything, just someone to introduce me into the social meets.

Ive been on and off fab for years and only met ppl through profile searches and messaging, but social anxiety in recent times has taken a hard knock on me so i wanna gain back the confidence i once had. If i went alone without a confidant i wouldnt be much good to have around.

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By *j81Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I'm single and definitely interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be interested in coming along,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still no reply to the posts by the OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still no reply to the posts by the OP ?"

Was it ever gonna happen? Lol.

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By *ryfelMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Did anything come of this…?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be very interested in attending

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By *andM444Couple
over a year ago

Wales

We are a couple looking for single females so a social like this would be great

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By *iscreetman09Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I'll be up for this and I will turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be up for it although location may be a problem but if you get some details together ill be able to say for definite

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By *en DaroverMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

Single and interested.

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Any updates on when this may happen MrJ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There used to be soley single socials they were held close to Chams ,we used to meet up then go to the club .I can't remember for the life of me the name of the lady that used to organise it but it was for the purpose of getting singles known and verified .agree with cj

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By *azylivingMan
over a year ago

swansea / Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There used to be soley single socials they were held close to Chams ,we used to meet up then go to the club .I can't remember for the life of me the name of the lady that used to organise it but it was for the purpose of getting singles known and verified .agree with cj"

Thanks

I completely understand what the OP us trying to achieve but what you described is exactly what a singles social is. A normal social is where couples can be involved. It simply wouldn't be right allowing a few couples to be there without all couples who want to attend being there.

I'm not nitpicking, I'm just stating from my long personal experience of the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good times they were, the original Singles Social

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By *iscreetman09Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Is this going ahead if so would love an invite

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Good times they were, the original Singles Social

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By *nickers40TV/TS
over a year ago

newport

Id love to go im single and ready to mingle xx

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By *hosupforfunMan
over a year ago

blaenavon

Am I too late!? Please PM about any other dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and 100% keen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread was started 6 weeks ago and the OP has disappeared. You do the maths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread was started 6 weeks ago and the OP has disappeared. You do the maths. "

Uummmm their sitting back and waiting for it to get too big so they can start part 2 ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes me laugh these threads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me laugh these threads! "

And I was one of the deluded ones who initially responded. Oh when will I ever learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me laugh these threads!

And I was one of the deluded ones who initially responded. Oh when will I ever learn

I got into the habit of reading, sitting back with arms folded and waiting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me laugh these threads!

And I was one of the deluded ones who initially responded. Oh when will I ever learn

I got into the habit of reading, sitting back with arms folded and waiting! "

I have learned pretty much the same now and more or less following your ethos

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

The OP is consistently online but clearly neither him or the couple of couples associated with this singles social can be bothered to respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The OP is consistently online but clearly neither him or the couple of couples associated with this singles social can be bothered to respond "

It’s like the gangbang threads. It never happens. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s like the gangbang threads. It never happens. Lol "

Sadly they would if I could attend but i don't exactly qualify as a gangbang rocking up solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank party for one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The meaning of single in the dictionary:

unmarried or not involved in a stable sexual relationship.

The meaning of select in the dictionary:

carefully choose as being the best or most suitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wank party for one!

I never wank Not Ruby

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

Wankbang. Where you toss yourself off in different ways, including lying on your arm until it goes dead, so it feels like someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wankbang. Where you toss yourself off in different ways, including lying on your arm until it goes dead, so it feels like someone else. "

That's why I no longer wank, fed up of my arm falling asleep on me

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

"Wank party for one!

Haha there a lo for that on here but who they wancking ouer is the piont

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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

I've not disappeared, I simply choose not to use up space in this thread by replying to pointless and unnecessary digs being made toward the social.

I'm attempting to do something positive, yet individuals choose to cast negativity upon it instead of being supportive, which I don't understand, but I do find it boring and I'm not interested with it.

It costs nothing to be kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wank party for one!

Haha there a lo for that on here but who they wancking ouer is the piont"

Again please for those of us that speak English ?

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By *ild4funtimes66Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Very I terested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect to you sir for making this thread, I’d be interested

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By *ougherTheBetterMan
over a year ago

Not far

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not disappeared, I simply choose not to use up space in this thread by replying to pointless and unnecessary digs being made toward the social.

It costs nothing to be kind. "

Ok so when is it then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would it actually work though? You’d need the correct numbers so there’s not 10 men to every unicorn

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

If this would go ahead after Christmas, perhaps taking place on a Saturday, then I'd definitely be up for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's happing about this?

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By *jolnir85Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Definitely interested.

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By *H22Woman
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Single and interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m well interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All according where it is I'd like to be considered.

TIA

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

"I've not disappeared, I simply choose not to use up space in this thread by replying to pointless and unnecessary digs being made toward the social.

It costs nothing to be kind. "

It also costs nothing to acknowledge the experienced heads commenting and trying to steer you in the right direction.

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By *ussellmyMassonMan
over a year ago

Dinas powys

I’d be up for this where would you be thinking of going

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By *ayne251Man
over a year ago

cardiff

The social will mostly be an equal mix of single men and women along with some couples.

If successful, we can look at making it a regular event so please share thoughts, ideas or interest below.

Thank you

MrJ. "

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By *ayne251Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Single

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By *r WhispererMan
over a year ago

brynmawr

I’d be interested, depending where and when.. week days are out most of the time due to working stupid long hours..

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By *ushynumberukWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Why do people feel the need to have a go? It is true someone tries to do a positive idea and it gets bitch slapped down. Does it matter who goes and who doesn't? After the last couple of years be nice to get out and mix. I'm single and will just be glad to get out and mix. Please add me if it goes ahead xx

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

as the rules are being relaxed it would be good if this got organized soon

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By *r GreyfoxMan
over a year ago

Newport

Single and interested

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By *tcymruMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

Interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy would love an invite. I know no one though so maybe a bit daunting lol

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By *hetopcat69Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Thought I requested earlier but appears not.... could I please put name down.

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By *ecretsub666Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Single guy would love an invite. I know no one though so maybe a bit daunting lol"

That didn’t last long

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By *ord MarmiteMan
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

"That didn’t last long"

Probably longer than any play meet they might have turned up to....

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By *urves88Woman
over a year ago

Abergavenny

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By *urves88Woman
over a year ago

Abergavenny

I would be interested in a singles social but I don't think couples should be there otherwise what's the point when there are already great socials being run that I go to that have couples. If it's going to be a singles one just make it a singles one

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By *oxLoverMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd be interested in a singles meet

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

"Single guy would love an invite. I know no one though so maybe a bit daunting lol

That didn’t last long"

I hope that's not something you've said often

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By *ecretsub666Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Single guy would love an invite. I know no one though so maybe a bit daunting lol

That didn’t last long

I hope that's not something you've said often

Unfortunately more than anyone else wish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will an out of towner be considered? I feel Wales has much to offer

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Will an out of towner be considered? I feel Wales has much to offer

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think you'd be more than welcome..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will an out of towner be considered? I feel Wales has much to offer

think you'd be more than welcome..

See... such kindness already. I sure do hope so

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By *crappy cocoMan
over a year ago

camper van

When is this happening please would love to attend. Get to now some faces x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m interested. , Doesn’t matters what it’s called as long as no one is turned away, ( a lot will drop out):any way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this ever going to happen? Thread was started over 3 months ago. Lots of interest, but I see no firm plans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was good singles social in Newport on a Friday years ago and sometimes onto Chams afterwards, however think majority of 'single' guys never showed

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