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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you politely decline someone's invitation to meet as you're not interested / not your type etc. Why do so many continue to bombard and beg? Telling you that they'll be the best you've ever had/ pussy will be grateful etc.

If people can't respect decisions and boundaries on a message then that's a massive red flag for me and a definite no way. What would they be like in person?!

Does anyone else experience this?

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By *heekychopperMan
over a year ago

Swansea

It is annoying when somebody keeps pestering you haha

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town


"When you politely decline someone's invitation to meet as you're not interested / not your type etc. Why do so many continue to bombard and beg? Telling you that they'll be the best you've ever had/ pussy will be grateful etc.

If people can't respect decisions and boundaries on a message then that's a massive red flag for me and a definite no way. What would they be like in person?!

Does anyone else experience this? "

Block them if you have no interest in communicating with them.

That way they can't message you again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you politely decline someone's invitation to meet as you're not interested / not your type etc. Why do so many continue to bombard and beg? Telling you that they'll be the best you've ever had/ pussy will be grateful etc.

If people can't respect decisions and boundaries on a message then that's a massive red flag for me and a definite no way. What would they be like in person?!

Does anyone else experience this?

Block them if you have no interest in communicating with them.

That way they can't message you again. "

I agree

If you have no interest in someone just block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had this a few time recently just hit the block button now they just take the piss xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I do block, it's just such a weird thing to do when someone says no xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you politely decline someone's invitation to meet as you're not interested / not your type etc. Why do so many continue to bombard and beg? Telling you that they'll be the best you've ever had/ pussy will be grateful etc.

If people can't respect decisions and boundaries on a message then that's a massive red flag for me and a definite no way. What would they be like in person?!

Does anyone else experience this? "

Believe it or not, I've had this lol

But on a serious note, I've not messaged you yet

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Well you haven't blocked me yet so I must be saying something right

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By *ikesfun1Man
over a year ago

around and about

Some people just think its all about them , personally i send a polite message and end with If im not for you then no worries thanks for taking time to read my message.

some reply with a no thanks and good luck others just ignore its the way it is , no point losing shit and abusing people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you politely decline someone's invitation to meet as you're not interested / not your type etc. Why do so many continue to bombard and beg? Telling you that they'll be the best you've ever had/ pussy will be grateful etc.

If people can't respect decisions and boundaries on a message then that's a massive red flag for me and a definite no way. What would they be like in person?!

Does anyone else experience this?

Block them if you have no interest in communicating with them.

That way they can't message you again.

I agree

If you have no interest in someone just block "

Some guys don't let go, I've had a few guys create new profiles asking why I declined and why did I block them :-/

(I've set it up so new profiles can't message anymore)

But, its almost like closure for them.

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By *pacelordmf80Man
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Some people are just bananas online.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

No, that's very rare for me. I think my rejection line just comes across as very final.

I do get a lot of repeat messages from guys/couples who don't realise they've messaged me before.

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By *ommy trucker1Man
over a year ago

south wales

Respect goes A long way so if they can't respect you then they deserve no respect back.

I always show respect with my messages even if it's a no thanks .

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By *azylivingMan
over a year ago

random location


"No, that's very rare for me. I think my rejection line just comes across as very final.

I do get a lot of repeat messages from guys/couples who don't realise they've messaged me before."

A message comes up saying ‘you have messaged before’

I just block & move on.

It’s simpler that way for all

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"No, that's very rare for me. I think my rejection line just comes across as very final.

I do get a lot of repeat messages from guys/couples who don't realise they've messaged me before.

A message comes up saying ‘you have messaged before’

I just block & move on.

It’s simpler that way for all "

Thanks, I don't want to. I'm always open to be contacted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you politely decline someone's invitation to meet as you're not interested / not your type etc. Why do so many continue to bombard and beg? Telling you that they'll be the best you've ever had/ pussy will be grateful etc.

If people can't respect decisions and boundaries on a message then that's a massive red flag for me and a definite no way. What would they be like in person?!

Does anyone else experience this?

Block them if you have no interest in communicating with them.

That way they can't message you again.

I agree

If you have no interest in someone just block

Some guys don't let go, I've had a few guys create new profiles asking why I declined and why did I block them :-/

(I've set it up so new profiles can't message anymore)

But, its almost like closure for them."

I've had this too

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos


"When you politely decline someone's invitation to meet as you're not interested / not your type etc. Why do so many continue to bombard and beg? Telling you that they'll be the best you've ever had/ pussy will be grateful etc.

If people can't respect decisions and boundaries on a message then that's a massive red flag for me and a definite no way. What would they be like in person?!

Does anyone else experience this? "

I feel your pain…beating people off with a shitty stick all day everyday

On a serious note it’s not good pestering people. No means no and you don’t have to fall out over it. I tend to accept it and move on to be honest without cause to be blocked, at least that way I can still fantasise over pictures. Sounds odd but but there’s no harm in having banter without physical.

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