FabSwingers.com forum: How many on the go at once?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering what everyones thoughts are on having a couple of "regulars" or alternatively meeting different people all of the time?

- is it acceptable to tell people you are "full" or better to tell them to form an orderly que? Lol x

I'm greedy and want my cake and to eat it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always honest on my profile, I have a couple of regular guys & stop accepting others til either they or I get bored with what they're doing. Generally this is well accepted by guys & suits me better than trawling through new meets all the time & the waste of time experiences that some new meets are. We all learn to manage the play in a way that suits us best xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I met my new regular, I have to admit, I had a fair few on the go at once, and yes you do manage your time to suit what you have available.

I have always preferred one or two regulars, as you can build up a rapport and dare I say explore and learn new things together. I think we all have something to offer each other in terms of learning - and this is sometimes only acheived from more than one meet.

We do go to clubs and parties when invited, but if we dont play, its not the end of the world either, as we know we will have fun when we get some alone time

As for telling people if I full.. not sure.... I seem to alwaays be aware when some are going tits up and like to keep options open. (I would tell regulars if I had been approached, always honest that way the important ones know)

S xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Before I met my new regular, I have to admit, I had a fair few on the go at once, and yes you do manage your time to suit what you have available.

We do go to clubs and parties when invited, but if we dont play, its not the end of the world either, as we know we will have fun when we get some alone time

S xxx"

Keeping my my options open is a much better way to describe.. I really shouldn't have written this after one too many Vinos! Lol

I guess different types of people are able to fulfill different fantasies and desires and also have different skills... I struggle with chatting to loads of different people at the same time if I'm

Honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My policy is never meet the same person twice. Too many people, not enough time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My policy is never meet the same person twice. Too many people, not enough time!"

Can you open up completely sexually with a person on a first and only meet Ava? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's totally up to you what you choose to do and no one can condem you for it as long as it's not illegal, immoral or non consensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My policy is never meet the same person twice. Too many people, not enough time!

Can you open up completely sexually with a person on a first and only meet Ava? X"

Pretty much. Its just nsa sex afterall. In, job done and out =)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with having a few regulars as you will get something different out of each of them - some might be skilled in the oral dept some may have a good girth and some may be just good allrounders who do it for you - my advice go for as many as you need you only live life once and have to try everything you desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what everyones thoughts are on having a couple of "regulars" or alternatively meeting different people all of the time?

- is it acceptable to tell people you are "full" or better to tell them to form an orderly que? Lol x

I'm greedy and want my cake and to eat it!

An orderly line or multiple, as long as youre straight with people from the start, then no problem really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sharon has a few guys she meets on a regular basis. She sometimes stops over with them for a night of passion and sex.

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By *arthsoulCouple
over a year ago

not here

I am with Ava, I like to have sex once with people and then move on, have to say I am so hedonistic I have no issues with opening up!

I actually crave the different people and experiences, I really wouldn't want a regular, well except Soul!!!

guess I am just a tart

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By *oobsCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

"My policy is never meet the same person twice. Too many people, not enough time!

Can you open up completely sexually with a person on a first and only meet Ava? X

Pretty much. Its just nsa sex afterall. In, job done and out =)"

We've done both and think we're with Maverick on this one. We've enjoyed the one off encounters but we explored more with those we came to trust. Both were NSA.

In our case we enjoy the enjoyment of others. By developing a NSA relationship you can come to understand what makes them tick and push those buttons. For us it is also easier to release ourselves more with that sense of mutual trust.

Seeing someone more than once doesn't add any strings. There should be no sense of fidelity/infidelity that would imply an unwarrented level of control.

However if your goal is purely personal gratification (and we imply no judgement on that) and trust is not a barrier to "letting go" there is no need to have a "regular".

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'm guessing it's different for singles as opposed to couples.

For us as a couple, there is no risk of developing feelings for people we play with, beyond that of being close friends, as we have our relationship, and are completely and hopelessly in love.

We like to make friends, and having played with a few of our friends on more than one occassion, we find that we are able to get more out of each meet.

Not being a singly, I can only guess that the "love em and leave em" approach is a way of making sure it remains NSA, and if thats what you are looking for, I see no problem with that either.

People join sites like these for different reasons, and use them to suit their own needs, so long as they are up front with those they play with, then I can't see a problem.

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