FabSwingers.com forum: Socials

By *reen Eyes OP Man
over a year ago

Wales

Hey guys. I can be a bit quiet and shy, any advice when attending a social would be greatly received. Once I get to know people I am fine, its just getting started lol...

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Fake it til you make it!!!

Deep breath, smile and walk through the door

Been doing it for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fake it til you make it!!!

Deep breath, smile and walk through the door

Been doing it for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys. I can be a bit quiet and shy, any advice when attending a social would be greatly received. Once I get to know people I am fine, its just getting started lol... "

Arrange to meet someone who will walk in with you. Makes the whole thing less scary. Xx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Fake it til you make it!!!

Deep breath, smile and walk through the door

Been doing it for years

100% this is the best first time social advice

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

As with any social situation, say hello, initiate a conversation, ask questions and listen to their answers, be prepared to fully answer questions put to you.

You'll be fine OP. Good luck

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By *reen Eyes OP Man
over a year ago

Wales

Thanks All

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By *reen Eyes OP Man
over a year ago

Wales

Thank you

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"Hey guys. I can be a bit quiet and shy, any advice when attending a social would be greatly received. Once I get to know people I am fine, its just getting started lol... "

Join the club my legs started trembling lol

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Keep reminding yourself that most, if not all, people in that room will be experiencing nerves.

It’ll range from an excitable little flutter in their stomach to feeling a complete mess!

Remember also - the most outwardly confident people are often the ones “faking it” the hardest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s normal to feel nervous going to your first group social. My first one, I arranged to meet someone there I’d been chatting to.

Everyone was so friendly and within no time I felt more relaxed. Walking through the door for the first time is the hardest part.

Good luck with it OP. You’ll never look back once you’ve ripped that band aid off

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By *reen Eyes OP Man
over a year ago

Wales

Thank you everyone

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By *elshbuilder67Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

Ask the organisers if someone can meet you and introduce you to various people and you’ll soon find your feet

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By *onjomadoMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yea you have been faking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you be nervous?

Its a pub.

Not only that a pub full of like minded people.its not as if you are walking into a room of the god squad with the perceved moral highground.we are all looking for no strings sex for pleasure.

Just strut your stuff .

The saying dance like nobody is looking.it applies to swinging too .xx have fun thats ehat iys all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you be nervous?

Its a pub.

Not only that a pub full of like minded people.its not as if you are walking into a room of the god squad with the perceved moral highground.we are all looking for no strings sex for pleasure.

Just strut your stuff .

The saying dance like nobody is looking.it applies to swinging too .xx have fun thats ehat iys all about."

Perfectly put, I take my hat off to you

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