FabSwingers.com forum: Is age a problem?

By *ushtounge2011 OP Man
over a year ago

somwhere near you

Hi I've been on the site a while and have found that for some reason because I'm a single young male it seems to put alot of people off me. I can accom and can travel and not shy about my face pics etc. I'm very open about what I like and really just want to make some good friends and have some good fun while on the site, I'm just wondering if anyone could possible pass on any advice thanks

Matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been asked many times. A lot of people find it uncomfortable meeting people the age of their own kids.Also, why is such a young person looking to sites like this anyway ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been asked many times. A lot of people find it uncomfortable meeting people the age of their own kids.Also, why is such a young person looking to sites like this anyway ?"

So at what age is it acceptable/unacceptable to start using sites like this then? I didn't realise there was an age limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what Ava said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with Ava ... however i think People with the right mental maturity and capacity should be able to join a site like this as after all its all about preference and if there preference is to swing then so be it... no one can change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been asked many times. A lot of people find it uncomfortable meeting people the age of their own kids.Also, why is such a young person looking to sites like this anyway ?

So at what age is it acceptable/unacceptable to start using sites like this then? I didn't realise there was an age limit."

Have to agree with Ava on this. Surely a person of any age joins a swinging site to find and enjoy sexual experiences that aren't usually available to them.

We started because Tia is bi and as there's no bi women on the shelves of our local supermarket a swinging site was the best option.

Maybe the other cpl started swinging to spice up their lives which basically means they are bored shitless with each other.

For one we find it very refreshing seeing young attractive people joining the site. They put the fun back into swinging unlike the 'we're here to fuck' crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been asked many times. A lot of people find it uncomfortable meeting people the age of their own kids.Also, why is such a young person looking to sites like this anyway ?

So at what age is it acceptable/unacceptable to start using sites like this then? I didn't realise there was an age limit."

Didn't say there was an age limit. He asked a question. It's a fact very young people have problems getting meets on here.

Let's be honest, there are many single older males on FAb who are on here because they find it difficult to meet and get sex elsewhere. Often young peoplevdontbhave that problem .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been asked many times. A lot of people find it uncomfortable meeting people the age of their own kids.Also, why is such a young person looking to sites like this anyway ?

So at what age is it acceptable/unacceptable to start using sites like this then? I didn't realise there was an age limit.

Didn't say there was an age limit. He asked a question. It's a fact very young people have problems getting meets on here.

Let's be honest, there are many single older males on FAb who are on here because they find it difficult to meet and get sex elsewhere. Often young peoplevdontbhave that problem ."

You're probably right much as I hate to be labelled !

Though keep an open mind, its difficult to find people with a like minded approach to swinging without risking your career etc.

I firmly believe its just a fantasy for many young guys on the whole.

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By *reenmbMan
over a year ago

Gwent

Well I'm up the other end of the age range and often experience the same problem. But at the end of the day its all down to preferences and people should respect that.

If someone isn't interested in meeting me due to my age can limit people but that's their wish. I think I'm pretty 'young' for my age and believe it should always be the individual not there ages but always respect peoples preferences.

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all the above , but the OP himself sets old age limit at 46 in his profile!! Irony is alive and well.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Some will not play with the youngsters, some wont with the oldies, some wont with the shorties, people of a different colour, or those who are a little chunky.

Some complain about not being able to meet single bi fems, or complain about single guys at events or clubs.

But the one thing we all have in common is the right to be different, and have different preferences.

Lets face it, things would get stale very quickly if we were all the same and were looking for the same things, wouldn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with all the above , but the OP himself sets old age limit at 46 in his profile!! Irony is alive and well.

Who's profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pure choice and preference, nothing more, all I would add is it seems that many younger guys on here do themselves no favours in the approach they take, unlike the OP has done in this case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with all the above , but the OP himself sets old age limit at 46 in his profile!! Irony is alive and well.

Lmao Think the OP might have inadvertent answered his own question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the age limit to join the site is 18 so yes there is one .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some will not play with the youngsters, some wont with the oldies, some wont with the shorties, people of a different colour, or those who are a little chunky.

Some complain about not being able to meet single bi fems, or complain about single guys at events or clubs.

But the one thing we all have in common is the right to be different, and have different preferences.

Lets face it, things would get stale very quickly if we were all the same and were looking for the same things, wouldn't it?

Completely agree with you.... we all have different ideas and thoughts about what we want, and thats what makes the whole scene so great...... some of us get lucky straight away, some of us take a little longer to find someone willing to play... But it is great talking to new people nad learning some wonderful new things along the way xxx

S xxx

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