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"What do you consider red flags when you meet someone? Or when someone messages you? One of my red flags- When they say "I love you" after one meet :-/ " Of a woman said she loved me after the first meet/date I'd head for the hills | |||
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"Excessive drinking. " This! But one of the main ones for us are couples who want the girls to “put on a show” for their men, biggest turn off ever | |||
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"For me it's women wanting a lift from A to B but are willing to suck you off in return.Knowing my luck I'd end up being the getaway driver in a bank robbery How far was the A to B? Lmao." we'd take to from a to b any time. | |||
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"For me it's women wanting a lift from A to B but are willing to suck you off in return.Knowing my luck I'd end up being the getaway driver in a bank robbery How far was the A to B? Lmao." This is actualy very important. The poor girl could get lock jaw if the journey is too far lol | |||
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"For me it's women wanting a lift from A to B but are willing to suck you off in return.Knowing my luck I'd end up being the getaway driver in a bank robbery How far was the A to B? Lmao." Hard to say- her dirrctions wern't clear with her mouth full | |||
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"If they don't like cats " I got 2 | |||
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"For me it's women wanting a lift from A to B but are willing to suck you off in return.Knowing my luck I'd end up being the getaway driver in a bank robbery How far was the A to B? Lmao. This is actualy very important. The poor girl could get lock jaw if the journey is too far lol" Not if she’s doing it right | |||
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"If they don't like cats I got 2 " | |||
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"An Adam's apple. " | |||
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"When u turn up and they haven’t made an effort and look rough as fuck " That one above and also turn up 45 mins late. One gent turned up in dirty track suit, a mank baseball cap and looked grungy and late.That was a massive red flag. | |||
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"When people try too hard to be what they think that you want... it is so transparent - would much rather people just be themselves. Also drinking. Also a lack of self care. Also when people don't laugh at my jokes. " Or when people attack you with their nails when you least expect it | |||
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"For me it's women wanting a lift from A to B but are willing to suck you off in return.Knowing my luck I'd end up being the getaway driver in a bank robbery How far was the A to B? Lmao. This is actualy very important. The poor girl could get lock jaw if the journey is too far lol Not if she’s doing it right " ;-) Definately! It just takes practice, time and skill x | |||
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"Excessive drinking. This! But one of the main ones for us are couples who want the girls to “put on a show” for their men, biggest turn off ever" Agree. Putting on a show is not what we're interested in at all. It seems to be, for many couples though. | |||
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"Pushy people and people that aim all the conversation at me and ignore my husband .." This^^^^^^^ It happens in messages and has even happened in person. Quickest way to piss him off and not get the meet or the meet will end very fast. | |||
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"If there’s a sledgehammer and a typewriter in her room " No don't judge them! "There is a justice higher than that of man, they will be judged by Him." The only swinging going on in this situation will be the swinging of the sledgehammer. | |||
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"I have another I'd like to add; people who send message after message; then say things like "well I seen you were online and you didn't reply" Instant no from me." omg this | |||
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"Neediness is a red flag. Stuff like giving people presents to make them like you. " Haaaaa | |||
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"If they hang around for way too long and don't get the hint to leave. If my cat Dislikes them. " This , we don't wanna talk about politics after we've just tired ourselves out having fun! Leave and don't come back to talk about boris haha | |||
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"Neediness is a red flag. Stuff like giving people presents to make them like you. " Would cum be defined as a "present"? lol | |||
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"Neediness is a red flag. Stuff like giving people presents to make them like you. Would cum be defined as a "present"? lol" Then neediness is on me, I need that cum present to make me happy | |||
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"If there’s a sledgehammer and a typewriter in her room " Lmao very good | |||
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"If there’s a sledgehammer and a typewriter in her room Lmao very good " That scene still makes me wince just at the thought of it | |||
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"Often see a " couples " profile and then states that only the male is playing and wants you to video him sucking your cock so he can show his Mrs later. " This. There’s another one doing the rounds at the moment. No pics of them as a couple & mrs can’t attend for whatever reason. Pull the other one | |||
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"When people try too hard to be what they think that you want... it is so transparent - would much rather people just be themselves. Also drinking. Also a lack of self care. Also when people don't laugh at my jokes. " In fairness your jokes are bad | |||
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"Neediness is a red flag. Stuff like giving people presents to make them like you. Would cum be defined as a "present"? lol Then neediness is on me, I need that cum present to make me happy " What if they say they NEED to make you cum!!! | |||
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"If there’s a sledgehammer and a typewriter in her room Lmao very good That scene still makes me wince just at the thought of it " I am disappointed in myself with how long it took me to twig what fill you were talking about lol | |||
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"If there’s a sledgehammer and a typewriter in her room " Good call. Get out if you can. Might already be too late. | |||
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"If they don't like cats " Love cats | |||
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"If they don't like cats Love cats " Which was a hit for The Cure. | |||
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"Yes u love it lol " Nah it wasn't Yes, was definitely The Cure. Yes did owner of a lonely heart. Good band. I had a meet once (from another site) and all her kids were there (5 If I remember correctly) and both her parents. An alarm bell rang on that one I tell you Ps true story | |||
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"Nah it wasn't Yes, was definitely The Cure. Yes did owner of a lonely heart. Good band. " And 'Tales from Topographic Oceans', which Rick Wakeman renamed 'Tales from Toby's Graphic Go-Kart'. | |||
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"Neediness is a red flag. Stuff like giving people presents to make them like you. Would cum be defined as a "present"? lol Then neediness is on me, I need that cum present to make me happy " Dick in a box springs to mind x | |||
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" Dick in a box springs to mind x" This reminds me of a joke. What's the definition of vagina? The box the penis comes in | |||
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"If they don't like cats Love cats " Who doesn’t like pussies !! | |||
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"If they don't like cats Love cats Who doesn’t like pussies !!" Wetter the better | |||
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"Neediness is a red flag. Stuff like giving people presents to make them like you. Would cum be defined as a "present"? lol Then neediness is on me, I need that cum present to make me happy Dick in a box springs to mind x" Gotta love a bit of lonely island! | |||
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"Neediness is a red flag. Stuff like giving people presents to make them like you. Would cum be defined as a "present"? lol Then neediness is on me, I need that cum present to make me happy Dick in a box springs to mind x Gotta love a bit of lonely island! " Glad someone got that reference lmao! x | |||
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"If they don't like cats Love cats Who doesn’t like pussies !! Wetter the better " Thought pussies don't like being wet lol x | |||
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"If they don't like cats " Agreed!!! | |||
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"New one, fake pics! Thank god for reverse image search " How do you do that?? Be good to now | |||
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"If they don't like cats Love cats Who doesn’t like pussies !! Wetter the better Thought pussies don't like being wet lol x" Mrs cutie love a very wet pussy | |||
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" How do you do that?? Be good to now" I use the website TinyEye. Just upload an image and click search and it will tell you if it’s elsewhere on the web | |||
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"People that think they know everything about the swinging scene and only been on the site a strawberry season and really don’t know what swinging is all about " Now youve got me wondering who you could be on about | |||
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"Pushy people and people that aim all the conversation at me and ignore my husband .. This^^^^^^^ It happens in messages and has even happened in person. Quickest way to piss him off and not get the meet or the meet will end very fast." This . And when aim the message at hubs as if I’m not there or am his property | |||
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"New user asking for face photos " I don't mind people asking for a face pic, I'm quite happy to send one. What I can't stand is brand new profiles popping up with no info on it whatsoever, no pics but demanding pics in first message or you'll be blocked. | |||
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"Get this all the time its a classic exuse for a single male to use, even tho we meet single males we wont meet one half of couples for this very reason even if they are genuin " Don’t tar all consented couples with the same brush. We normally offer to speak to both of us before any solo meets to eliminate that kind of BS that some try on. x | |||
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"What do you consider red flags when you meet someone? Or when someone messages you? One of my red flags- When they say "I love you" after one meet :-/ " you hit the nail right on the head with that comment. I've had that said to me more times than I care to remember. My standard answer now is that despite being a comfortably off guy, I can't afford lurve, but lust, that's a different commodity all together, and comes well within budgets. Other "Red Flags" as you call them include, a desire to introduce me to their family, or using my mum, who I'm also carer for as emotional leverage by sending me home with home baking for her, and knitting jumpers for her. Also when I was a construction site manager, fetching sandwiches into work for me would send me running like a scalded cat. | |||
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"An Adam's apple. " Hands like shovels of a JCB would also have that effect on me! | |||
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"When you’re in a club and you’ve met a lovely 55 year old lady and while dancing whispers in your ear ‘’ do you fancy a mother and daughter together’’ my eyes lit up took her straight home and as we entered the hallway she shouts upstairs ‘ Mam do you want to join us for sex ‘ should have known I wouldn’t be that lucky ??" | |||
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"Messages which start with 'Hi I've read your profile...' and then betray that the sender hasn't even read our status let alone profile." That's really frustrating! x | |||
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"If they don't like cats I got 2 " See this I’m petrified of cats but I have 4 month old kittens lol | |||
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"Messages which start with 'Hi I've read your profile...' and then betray that the sender hasn't even read our status let alone profile." Omg this | |||
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"Excessive drinking. This! But one of the main ones for us are couples who want the girls to “put on a show” for their men, biggest turn off ever" Definitely agree there | |||
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" Omg this " Hey, I never read your profile, I just lusted after your pictures and told you about it and you still talk to me | |||
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