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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are new to the scene and to be honest nervous. We sent out some messages a couple of replies but nothing has come of them. I wondered what constitutes a good opening message. Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you give the Cardiff 'Social' a go? Good way to make contacts in a safe, fun enviroment & take it from there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think its so much the messages you send out, more the fact that you're looking for the one thing that almost every one wants ( a bi single female ).

single women on sites like this are the most sought after group and therefore tend to have the pick of the bunch so to speak.

also you've only been on the site 5 weeks, it can take MONTHS to get a first meet on a swinging site.

Have patience, and maybe think about your profile a little and include what you could offer the people you want to meet as its a little basic at the moment.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think its so much the messages you send out, more the fact that you're looking for the one thing that almost every one wants ( a bi single female ).

single women on sites like this are the most sought after group and therefore tend to have the pick of the bunch so to speak.

also you've only been on the site 5 weeks, it can take MONTHS to get a first meet on a swinging site.

Have patience, and maybe think about your profile a little and include what you could offer the people you want to meet as its a little basic at the moment.

Good luck."

dont think you could add to that good advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for some great advice. We hope to start going to socials soon to make new friends. Cheers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with the bi single fem ,we been on here 5 years and have found 1 so you've plenty of time lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck with the bi single fem ,we been on here 5 years and have found 1 so you've plenty of time lolol "

yes and im never wearing a skirt for you again Mr Spice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think its so much the messages you send out, more the fact that you're looking for the one thing that almost every one wants ( a bi single female ).

single women on sites like this are the most sought after group and therefore tend to have the pick of the bunch so to speak.

also you've only been on the site 5 weeks, it can take MONTHS to get a first meet on a swinging site.

Have patience, and maybe think about your profile a little and include what you could offer the people you want to meet as its a little basic at the moment.

Good luck."

We are about, bi fems who play alone that is, but we do get inundated & we're not every couples cuppa tea so it depends what you're looking for. If its Tall, skinny, legs up to the armpits & enormous breasts it could be a long wait lol even us fems can't find one of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nah not into supermodels or wannabe supermodels. We both like real women. The only must is a sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extend your profile, it doesn't exactly sell you.

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