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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. We are having a large luxury garden room constructed. We are making our own private part room. It will have a a bar, pool table, large luxury indoor hot tub, music, large screen TV, air conn, seats etc. Patio with fire pit to chat around. We are intending to hold private parties for 12 or so people. This is not a club and is completely free. Just want a place for all our fab friends to meet. We have never done this before so anyone who holds private parties or attends them. Any advice you have would be most welcome. Our bar is called "Shanti" which means peace in sandscript xxxx

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

sounds like a fun idea, just need to get the right 12 people & gender balance expect some people not to turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically for couples and single fems just go by who you want and by word of mouth.

Single males need to be recommend in my opinion, as at least your going to get reliable ones then.

Other than that, invite more than you anticipate turning up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks good advice

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Basically for couples and single fems just go by who you want and by word of mouth.

Single males need to be recommend in my opinion, as at least your going to get reliable ones then.

Other than that, invite more than you anticipate turning up "

Agree with you there

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Sounds like you'll be having alot of fun there. I'd start off with a few people you already know and work your way up to larger groups.

Also watch out for friends of friends turning up uninvited.

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By *ttoWoman
over a year ago

llanelli

Maybe a phone amnesty on arrival too? I worry about pics that I haven’t agreed to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a phone amnesty on arrival too? I worry about pics that I haven’t agreed to"

Good idea, maybe also get a group chat going - that’ll minimise any nerves and hopefully reduce no shows.

This is incredibly hospitable and generous of you, I hope your guests appreciate it, I certainly would

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Maybe a phone amnesty on arrival too? I worry about pics that I haven’t agreed to"

This. I have a nasty feeling I was photographed at the only party I’ve been to, but I have no idea who he was so I can’t do anything about it. They said to all the men “don’t worry, your faces won’t be in any photos”, but my face wasn’t exactly at face height if you know what I mean.

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By *ttoWoman
over a year ago

llanelli


"Maybe a phone amnesty on arrival too? I worry about pics that I haven’t agreed to

This. I have a nasty feeling I was photographed at the only party I’ve been to, but I have no idea who he was so I can’t do anything about it. They said to all the men “don’t worry, your faces won’t be in any photos”, but my face wasn’t exactly at face height if you know what I mean."

ye the only pics I’ve allowed are by very trusted friends and I screen them before any are shared x

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

We have held a few

We tend to invite people we know then over the years we have had people they know also single guys are normally recommended.

Always invite more as sometimes some won't show,however saying that once we had 45 people turn up lol!!!!!

We have always said when we invite people that it's a no pressure party if you want to play then play if not just come and have a drink & a laugh

We can't wait to start our parties back up next month

Good luck with your's op we are sure you will have a fab time

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"We have held a few

We tend to invite people we know then over the years we have had people they know also single guys are normally recommended.

Always invite more as sometimes some won't show,however saying that once we had 45 people turn up lol!!!!!

We have always said when we invite people that it's a no pressure party if you want to play then play if not just come and have a drink & a laugh

We can't wait to start our parties back up next month

Good luck with your's op we are sure you will have a fab time "

Ps a Gregg's buffet always goes down a treat lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The people who come Shanti will be trustworthy. It is not a club, its our home. No entry if you don't hand your phone in. No pictures at. No playing outside, respect is paramount. Any men will be well trusted. If there is any perceived risk we wouldn't do it. We are ok to have just one couple or one bi fem if that's all we could trust. We are creating a safe meeting place for people to relax. No obligation or need to play. Just safe enjoyment xx

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"The people who come Shanti will be trustworthy. It is not a club, its our home. No entry if you don't hand your phone in. No pictures at. No playing outside, respect is paramount. Any men will be well trusted. If there is any perceived risk we wouldn't do it. We are ok to have just one couple or one bi fem if that's all we could trust. We are creating a safe meeting place for people to relax. No obligation or need to play. Just safe enjoyment xx "

It seems as tho you have it all well planned

And we wish you the best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad I know you x

Fabulous game plan. Keep yourself safe x

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By *inkyrus5Couple
over a year ago

pembrokeshire

We’ve had a few and agree with previous comments about inviting more than you think as not everyone turns up.

They can sometimes be stressful in the arranging but our nights have always been fun!

As a previous poster said, I always make sure people know that there is no pressure and we are equally happy for people to come a chill in the hottub or have a game of pool whilst meeting like minded folk or getting down and dirty

Good luck and have fun!

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By *inkyrus5Couple
over a year ago

pembrokeshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a great little party my friend Tasha has some experience holding parties

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

Sounds great a smaller group would definitely make me more comfortable x

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Make sure that all your guests are well verified, and preferably with corroborating verifications. I've held a few parties in the past and it's always been the one's who you think seem like they are okay, and so you give them a chance to shine through despite them not having some kind of track record that let you down, and that includes two women who started fighting in my lounge as one couldn't bear the sight of her hubby with another woman, and an ex army officer who made a sharp exit when the gorgeous, sexy lady we were entertaining turned out to be more than he could handle. Best of luck, I hope that it all works out for you if you are putting this much effort in.

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Make sure that all your guests are well verified, and preferably with corroborating verifications. I've held a few parties in the past and it's always been the one's who you think seem like they are okay, and so you give them a chance to shine through despite them not having some kind of track record that let you down, and that includes two women who started fighting in my lounge as one couldn't bear the sight of her hubby with another woman, and an ex army officer who made a sharp exit when the gorgeous, sexy lady we were entertaining turned out to be more than he could handle. Best of luck, I hope that it all works out for you if you are putting this much effort in."

Sounds a minefield x

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

When I'm an old man, I might write a book about it all, and just when I think I've seen it all, and nothing else can emerge from the woodwork, another one appears that script writers couldn't make up. XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds great a smaller group would definitely make me more comfortable x"

You are welcome to stay, we were chatting a few days ago xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol, it sounds fun though l9l, mad fun

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Sounds great a smaller group would definitely make me more comfortable x

You are welcome to stay, we were chatting a few days ago xx"

I know and thank you I don’t drive tho xxxx

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales


"Sounds great a smaller group would definitely make me more comfortable x

You are welcome to stay, we were chatting a few days ago xx

I know and thank you I don’t drive tho xxxx"

I'm sure there are enough people on here that will teach you its like riding a bike please don't say you don't know that lol

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Had some bloody good parties in the past. Hope you have a great time OP. X

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By *live and PopeyesCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Mm just live a nice house party

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

Thank you for the invite

We are looking forward to it

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