FabSwingers.com forum: Profile for son

By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

For the second time I have had a message asking me to meet someone’s son who suffers from social anxiety. First mail was from a ‘father’ and now a ‘mother’.

I am beyond flabbergasted by

1. The thought that someone would lie like this to get laid which I highly suspect

2. If they really are a parent of someone experiencing mental health distress that they think this is an acceptable way forward!

They are asking to facilitate a meet for, and I quote ‘real world experience’

I mean wtaf. I haven’t reported it as I don’t know if you can create a _rofile for someone else and nowhere does it mention the ‘son’ consents.

Needless to say it’s a no from me, or rather a ‘I’m ignoring your message you unethical chancer’.

What would you respond with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lisa been approached by her aswell ??

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By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

"Lisa been approached by her aswell ??"

Did it make her feel sick too?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I had that one as well, about six months ago. The _rofile also said “I’m bi-curious too if that’s of interest”. It was possibly the most WTAF moment I’ve had one here, and that’s saying something.

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By *averick76Man
over a year ago

swansea

My son is autistic and yes has communication issues. However I would never do that despicable thing that was requested. First reason my son wouldn't understand the concept of sex despite his age . Secondly it is also wrong to expect anyone to do it. Some real low people on here and seriously need to get a life off fab.

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By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

"I had that one as well, about six months ago. The _rofile also said “I’m bi-curious too if that’s of interest”. It was possibly the most WTAF moment I’ve had one here, and that’s saying something."

I’ve also been asked by two separate men to f*ck their dog (actual dog) to prove submission.

1. I’m vegan

2. I’m not sub

3. FU

This is a hard place to be sometimes.

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By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

"My son is autistic and yes has communication issues. However I would never do that despicable thing that was requested. First reason my son wouldn't understand the concept of sex despite his age . Secondly it is also wrong to expect anyone to do it. Some real low people on here and seriously need to get a life off fab."

Totally agree and this is my line of work. I’m pretty knowledgable about law etc and this is bang out of order. If they really wanted to ‘help’, why not a dating site?

And if their son has social anxiety, then emails aren’t usually a problem?

Smacks of chancer. I hope they never have access to a genuinely vulnerable adult.

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By *ocialguy79Man
over a year ago

blackwood

There are a frightening number of paedophiles on here who boast about having sex with 15, 14 and even 13 year olds ... There is only 1 cure for them.

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By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

"There are a frightening number of paedophiles on here who boast about having sex with 15, 14 and even 13 year olds ... There is only 1 cure for them. "

How do you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a frightening number of paedophiles on here who boast about having sex with 15, 14 and even 13 year olds ... There is only 1 cure for them.

How do you know?"

I had a guy last year via whatapp video call. He asked me to "Call him daddy" (didn't mind this) but then asked me to be "his naughty 15 year old virgin". And if I "had a tight pussy he could tear apart".

Call terminated immediately and blocked then reported.

Also, I've had that email too yesterday. The exact same one 6 months ago asked if she could join in with her son too.

The messages I've had in the last 24 hours have been obscene.

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By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

"There are a frightening number of paedophiles on here who boast about having sex with 15, 14 and even 13 year olds ... There is only 1 cure for them.

How do you know?

Call terminated immediately and blocked then reported.

Also, I've had that email too yesterday. The exact same one 6 months ago asked if she could join in with her son too.

The messages I've had in the last 24 hours have been obscene. "

Awful. Adult, consensual sex can be kinky even with manners! Where do these people come from.

I’m really struggling to keep my feminist beliefs and continue being a strong, independent single woman with such weirdos about. I also barked at the thread about adult cinema that doesn’t admit single females due to safety issues! I didn’t comment but find it worrying that we need chaperones because men cannot control sexual urges?

Also with recent thread about a meet that went awry, I think covid is not the issue!

Do men get this kind of issue?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"There are a frightening number of paedophiles on here who boast about having sex with 15, 14 and even 13 year olds ... There is only 1 cure for them.

How do you know?

Call terminated immediately and blocked then reported.

Also, I've had that email too yesterday. The exact same one 6 months ago asked if she could join in with her son too.

The messages I've had in the last 24 hours have been obscene. "

The asking to join in one is reportable, inc3st is a no-no on here.

Though I’m pretty sure it’s actually a man getting a sick thrill out of it all and there’s no woman involved at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the second time I have had a message asking me to meet someone’s son who suffers from social anxiety. First mail was from a ‘father’ and now a ‘mother’.

I am beyond flabbergasted by

1. The thought that someone would lie like this to get laid which I highly suspect

2. If they really are a parent of someone experiencing mental health distress that they think this is an acceptable way forward!

They are asking to facilitate a meet for, and I quote ‘real world experience’

I mean wtaf. I haven’t reported it as I don’t know if you can create a _rofile for someone else and nowhere does it mention the ‘son’ consents.

Needless to say it’s a no from me, or rather a ‘I’m ignoring your message you unethical chancer’.

What would you respond with?"

I’ve had the same messages from that “woman”, one approximately 6 months ago - instant block!

Same again this week on a new _rofile.

Definitely a WTF moment as I’d thought I’d heard it all.

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By *averick76Man
over a year ago

swansea

"There are a frightening number of paedophiles on here who boast about having sex with 15, 14 and even 13 year olds ... There is only 1 cure for them.

How do you know?

Call terminated immediately and blocked then reported.

Also, I've had that email too yesterday. The exact same one 6 months ago asked if she could join in with her son too.

The messages I've had in the last 24 hours have been obscene.

Awful. Adult, consensual sex can be kinky even with manners! Where do these people come from.

Also with recent thread about a meet that went awry, I think covid is not the issue!

Do men get this kind of issue?

I nearly met someone on here that wasn't at all what they described the person as. Just glad I had a keen eye before I actually met. It wouldn't have been a nice or pleasant meet at all.

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Had the same message,told her straight it's bang out of order. Reported and blocked....but you know admin they do nowt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it too

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By *evilWoman16Woman
over a year ago

Neath,united kingdom

I had the same.. disgusting

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By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

Maybe if we all report, something will be done. It’s enough for me to know that they sound fake by sending mass messages. I hope they are, would hate to think someone vulnerable is open to abuse x

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By *nky666Woman
over a year ago

Bridgend

I’ve had the same message twice as well

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By *andRCouple
over a year ago

barry

I/We are shocked and saddened that any low life would even think that approach might work in any way.

Luckily we haven't been sent that message as the response might be a bit offensive to the sad pathetic creep.

Xx G+R

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By *rofMan
over a year ago

Around

Block report all you can do.

Defending the admin they do seem to act. Knowing the issues they have to deal with. They have to investigate and act, it's an almost impossible task to catch everything please help them out by reporting.

I would then hope they remove these people off the site

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By *uxuriantexhibitionistWoman
over a year ago

Middle of nowhere

Yup had it off multiple _rofiles. Reported and blocked each time.

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By *untiWoman
over a year ago

Newport

Yep I had same message some months back.

I'm hoping it was a scam or something.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes had that message to a while back ignored

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By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

I’m eagerly awaiting the next spam message that says he’s a millionaire, hung like a stallion, loves travelling, can cook and who wants an overweight middle aged welsh bird on his arm

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"I’ve also been asked by two separate men to f*ck their dog (actual dog) to prove submission.

1. I’m vegan

[ ... ]

I just spat my drink out! Is veganism a reason not to fuck an actual dog? I could think of more compelling reasons!!!

Gbat

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By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

"I’ve also been asked by two separate men to f*ck their dog (actual dog) to prove submission.

1. I’m vegan

[ ... ]

I just spat my drink out! Is veganism a reason not to fuck an actual dog? I could think of more compelling reasons!!!

Gbat"

I was referring to the animal welfare side of the lifestyle

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"I’m eagerly awaiting the next spam message that says he’s a millionaire, hung like a stallion, loves travelling, can cook and who wants an overweight middle aged welsh bird on his arm

Ahhh you got my message I see

On a serious note, do you ladies actually get this kind of stuff? It genuinely boggles my mind at what goes on in people's heads and behind closed doors.

I think I'm happy in my little bubble believing every person is basically decent and normal.

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By *tto OP Woman
over a year ago

llanelli

"I’m eagerly awaiting the next spam message that says he’s a millionaire, hung like a stallion, loves travelling, can cook and who wants an overweight middle aged welsh bird on his arm

Ahhh you got my message I see

On a serious note, do you ladies actually get this kind of stuff? It genuinely boggles my mind at what goes on in people's heads and behind closed doors.

I think I'm happy in my little bubble believing every person is basically decent and normal."

I live in a bubble too. Messages that get replies from me are personalised, respectful and stir an interest somehow.

I suspect the other ladies

Think similar although I do know some who just cut to the chase with no frills

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I’m eagerly awaiting the next spam message that says he’s a millionaire, hung like a stallion, loves travelling, can cook and who wants an overweight middle aged welsh bird on his arm

Ahhh you got my message I see

On a serious note, do you ladies actually get this kind of stuff? It genuinely boggles my mind at what goes on in people's heads and behind closed doors.

I think I'm happy in my little bubble believing every person is basically decent and normal."

So was I until I joined Fab! I mean, “normal” doesn’t worry me too much because god knows I’m not, but wow I had my eyes opened literally within an hour. I kind of miss the innocence.

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By *ougar1966Couple
over a year ago

Newport

We have had the same message several times using slighty different wording....

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Had it too more than once too. Bloody strange people about

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By *oxy babeWoman
over a year ago

gower

I’ve also had a message from this person and a different _rofile requesting I join in with her and her nephew, both reported and blocked

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