FabSwingers.com forum: Acceptable blocks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would most constitute as an 'acceptable' reason to block here...

Mine are -

1) Abusive message

2) Sent polite no, and keep getting recurring messages

3) Repeat 'friend request' with no message sent

4) You just look like a wanker! (okay maybe not acceptable, but you feel a little drained after the first 3 options)

5) Previously blocked profiles, signing back up and re-contacting

Love to hear your thoughts

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

Sounds similar for us xx

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

All of the above! Plus anyone with a nasty attitude on the forums is blocked. Simply because I don’t want to ever interact with them.

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

We've taken a new approach...

If there is no mutual attraction, we tend to just block. Saves trawling through messages weeks down the line only to be back in the same boat.

Might seem harsh but it works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are almost identical to yours. But also:-

1. When they send images of their dick with no context.

2. Sending me messages such as "I want to r*pe you." "Would you like to watch me fuck my mum" "I'm going to fuck you so hard you're going to bleed."

3. They demand a face picture but never sent one of theirs.

I think they need a "Block Reason" section too. I can't remember half the reasons I block most of the guys on here, be nice to have a reminder. x

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By *heekychopperMan
over a year ago

Swansea

My advice, if you feel that there is something not quite right then you are probably correct. Block block block!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds similar for us xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here because someone told me there was free cake. No cake? Welcome to my block list.

I also like pies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've taken a new approach...

If there is no mutual attraction, we tend to just block. Saves trawling through messages weeks down the line only to be back in the same boat.

Might seem harsh but it works for us."

Sounds like a good new tatic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine are almost identical to yours. But also:-

1. When they send images of their dick with no context.

I just delete those

2. Sending me messages such as "I want to r*pe you." "Would you like to watch me fuck my mum" "I'm going to fuck you so hard you're going to bleed."

Seriously that's just vile behaviour = instant block

3. They demand a face picture but never sent one of theirs.

I think they need a "Block Reason" section too. I can't remember half the reasons I block most of the guys on here, be nice to have a reminder. x"

A block reason could be useful, but can also refer/report to admin if things are not quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block if someone sends a rude or abusive message or won't take no thank you as my final answer.

I have been blocked by people who obviously just don't like the look of me after I've sent my usual polite message of introduction,I do find it very rude,if they're not interested in me just say so & I'll put a private note on their profile not to bother them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only block if someone sends a rude or abusive message or won't take no thank you as my final answer.

See FAQ section

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only block if someone sends a rude or abusive message or won't take no thank you as my final answer.

Unfortunately this is a common option and something some choose purely down to the amount of messages they receive.

I would not take it personally, just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to block when our backs are on the verge of breaking through carrying conversations. Also when people ghost, then when their supposed better options dry up start messaging again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty ruthless. If the conversation hasn’t gone anywhere I decide to block them, no point in messaging again a few years later to find out the same issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We tend to block when our backs are on the verge of breaking through carrying conversations. Also when people ghost, then when their supposed better options dry up start messaging again. "

I should have used this one a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m pretty ruthless. If the conversation hasn’t gone anywhere I decide to block them, no point in messaging again a few years later to find out the same issue "

Good shout

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not had reason to block anyone yet but I think it's acceptable when you don't want to read their messages, full stop.

I have been blocked, presumably because I hurt their feelings, although I am not rude. I'm not offended by this at all and I haven't lost anything because they're not my cup of tea.

It's only a little annoying when someone's been leading me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine are almost identical to yours. But also:-

1. When they send images of their dick with no context.

2. Sending me messages such as "I want to r*pe you." "Would you like to watch me fuck my mum" "I'm going to fuck you so hard you're going to bleed."

3. They demand a face picture but never sent one of theirs.

I think they need a "Block Reason" section too. I can't remember half the reasons I block most of the guys on here, be nice to have a reminder. x"
jeez I can’t believe someone would send messages like that to you x good job for block but should really be locked up in life he/they sound a danger to society

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

We've blocked some for failing to turn up at a gangbang! I think that's acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not had reason to block anyone yet but I think it's acceptable when you don't want to read their messages, full stop.

I have been blocked, presumably because I hurt their feelings, although I am not rude. I'm not offended by this at all and I haven't lost anything because they're not my cup of tea.

It's only a little annoying when someone's been leading me on."

Nothing ventured, nothing gained, and nothing lost if they aren't for you anyway.

Let's hope you never need to use that button

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've blocked some for failing to turn up at a gangbang! I think that's acceptable.

No show highly acceptable block, especially if no contact made to inform you

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"We've blocked some for failing to turn up at a gangbang! I think that's acceptable.

No show highly acceptable block, especially if no contact made to inform you

If there's contact that's ok. But no contact and no show means BLOCK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've blocked some for failing to turn up at a gangbang! I think that's acceptable.

No show highly acceptable block, especially if no contact made to inform you

If there's contact that's ok. But no contact and no show means BLOCK!"

I agree with this block. Very inconsiderate rude behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another to add that I just received-

1. Offering me £££ for sex.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

The only reason I block is if my message gets deleted or read with no reply. And that's not me being pissy it's just a filter. I don't like bothering people.

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

"We tend to block when our backs are on the verge of breaking through carrying conversations. Also when people ghost, then when their supposed better options dry up start messaging again. "

Hahaha lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people for all kinds of reasons. People asking for 'help' all the time with something. People who post drugs related status'. People who I don't like in the forums. People who have read/deleted a message without reply. People I just don't and never will find attractive. The list is endless, and I probably have half the site members in South Wales blocked.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Mine are almost identical to yours. But also:-

1. When they send images of their dick with no context.

2. Sending me messages such as "I want to r*pe you." "Would you like to watch me fuck my mum" "I'm going to fuck you so hard you're going to bleed."

3. They demand a face picture but never sent one of theirs.

I think they need a "Block Reason" section too. I can't remember half the reasons I block most of the guys on here, be nice to have a reminder. x"

I like to use the private notes to remind me why I’ve blocked, especially because reporting a profile blocks you from it so it looks like you’ve blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine are almost identical to yours. But also:-

1. When they send images of their dick with no context.

2. Sending me messages such as "I want to r*pe you." "Would you like to watch me fuck my mum" "I'm going to fuck you so hard you're going to bleed."

3. They demand a face picture but never sent one of theirs.

I think they need a "Block Reason" section too. I can't remember half the reasons I block most of the guys on here, be nice to have a reminder. x

I like to use the private notes to remind me why I’ve blocked, especially because reporting a profile blocks you from it so it looks like you’ve blocked them."

We’ve started using the private note functions a few weeks ago, definite godsend!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"We've blocked some for failing to turn up at a gangbang! I think that's acceptable.

It should be mandatory!!

Gbat

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Wow, spooky. Immediately after reading this, I deployed my block button in anger!

Single sentence message that didn't make a lot of sense.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another to add that I just received-

1. Offering me £££ for sex."

I think some people forget the concept of what this site is (Rolls eyes)

block block block

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The only reason I block is if my message gets deleted or read with no reply. And that's not me being pissy it's just a filter. I don't like bothering people. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine are almost identical to yours. But also:-

1. When they send images of their dick with no context.

2. Sending me messages such as "I want to r*pe you." "Would you like to watch me fuck my mum" "I'm going to fuck you so hard you're going to bleed."

3. They demand a face picture but never sent one of theirs.

I think they need a "Block Reason" section too. I can't remember half the reasons I block most of the guys on here, be nice to have a reminder. x

I like to use the private notes to remind me why I’ve blocked, especially because reporting a profile blocks you from it so it looks like you’ve blocked them."

Yes this is another good option. I use the private notes for lots of reasons

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By *t.jt.jtMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I tend to block people who say no black/mixed guys on their profile (or no tattoos/beards etc.)

Or if I message and it's deleted then it saves us both a bit of hassle.

To be fair I'm shocking at responding to messages on here

so I'd rather chat at socials.

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By *ia RooCouple
over a year ago

Margam Port Talbot

Some in here just block you for not agreeing with their opinion.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Some in here just block you for not agreeing with their opinion."

I absolutely do that if the opinion is racist, homophobic etc.

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By *ia RooCouple
over a year ago

Margam Port Talbot

No I meant a general opinion sorry we dont do racist some in any shape or form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some in here just block you for not agreeing with their opinion.

I absolutely do that if the opinion is racist, homophobic etc."

Or a completely wrong opinion on what is the BEST pie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything with mmmmm in a message

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By *tmosphericalMan
over a year ago

Gwent

I think it’s a personal choice, I know that some men block women to prevent themselves from messaging them further down the line and upsetting someone who has already said no or ignored.

I know some women hold grammar and punctuation close their hearts and feel that if these two are not spot on..100% you get blocked.

Let’s face it, some men are dweebs and will peruse someone like it’s their dying day, not cool and deserves a block and a report!

My local news feed is full of “If you can’t spell, don’t bother” and “No means no!! So off you f@&k and on my block list”

And “single men are thick as sh!t”.

I suffer with dyslexia, so not spotting minor grammatical errors in my messages, is pretty common for me, I do try and proof read as best I can but on some days, the letters are too much for me and I simply can’t identify mistakes I even leave out whole words my bad.

But blocking is purely down to what works for you.

I’ve not blocked anyone as of yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine are almost identical to yours. But also:-

1. When they send images of their dick with no context.

2. Sending me messages such as "I want to r*pe you." "Would you like to watch me fuck my mum" "I'm going to fuck you so hard you're going to bleed."

3. They demand a face picture but never sent one of theirs.

I think they need a "Block Reason" section too. I can't remember half the reasons I block most of the guys on here, be nice to have a reminder. x

I like to use the private notes to remind me why I’ve blocked, especially because reporting a profile blocks you from it so it looks like you’ve blocked them.

We’ve started using the private note functions a few weeks ago, definite godsend! "

How do I do this? Someone teach me

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"Some in here just block you for not agreeing with their opinion.

I absolutely do that if the opinion is racist, homophobic etc.

Or a completely wrong opinion on what is the BEST pie! "

Well that's easy. Steak and kidney and Apple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine are almost identical to yours. But also:-

1. When they send images of their dick with no context.

2. Sending me messages such as "I want to r*pe you." "Would you like to watch me fuck my mum" "I'm going to fuck you so hard you're going to bleed."

3. They demand a face picture but never sent one of theirs.

I think they need a "Block Reason" section too. I can't remember half the reasons I block most of the guys on here, be nice to have a reminder. x

I like to use the private notes to remind me why I’ve blocked, especially because reporting a profile blocks you from it so it looks like you’ve blocked them.

We’ve started using the private note functions a few weeks ago, definite godsend!

How do I do this? Someone teach me

Click on the person's profile, go to menu, you should see private note option. Just click and add/save your note x

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Let's hope you never need to use that button

I honestly can't think of anything that would make me want to. I always prefer seeing what is coming at me, well, except in the bedroom perhaps :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anything with mmmmm in a message "

literally made me laugh out loud!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"No I meant a general opinion sorry we dont do racist some in any shape or form. "

I wasn’t implying you do, just saying that some people hold opinions that mean I don’t want anything to do with them.

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

Mr O instantly blocks anyone who says they have a big c.ck or 8incher etc either in their user name or write up!

Also if someone has straight in their profile but messages to say they are Bi!

Drives him mad it does lol

So a instead block from him lol

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Some in here just block you for not agreeing with their opinion.

I absolutely do that if the opinion is racist, homophobic etc.

Or a completely wrong opinion on what is the BEST pie! "

I might be weird but I don’t have a lot of opinions on pie

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

"Mr O instantly blocks anyone who says they have a big c.ck or 8incher etc either in their user name or write up!

Also if someone has straight in their profile but messages to say they are Bi!

Drives him mad it does lol

So a instead block from him lol"

Apart from that he's a pretty chilled laid back guy

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

"Anything with mmmmm in a message "

Or being called babe

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Anything with mmmmm in a message

Or being called babe

Oh god, I hate that! I don’t think I’ve blocked anyone for it yet, but it really does annoy me. Especially from someone a lot younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some in here just block you for not agreeing with their opinion.

I absolutely do that if the opinion is racist, homophobic etc.

Or a completely wrong opinion on what is the BEST pie!

Well that's easy. Steak and kidney and Apple

Steak, kidney AND apple? Heathen! How could you ruin a perfect steak and kidney pie by adding apple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything with mmmmm in a message

Or being called babe

Oh god, I hate that! I don’t think I’ve blocked anyone for it yet, but it really does annoy me. Especially from someone a lot younger than me."

I will definitely stop calling you babe then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything with mmmmm in a message

Or being called babe

Is that Mr Oar being called babe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely block people. Only 20 guys on my list now and they are there because they are knobheads or keep messaging me when Im not interested.

I have friends who have hundreds and hundreds lol.

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

"Anything with mmmmm in a message

Or being called babe

Is that Mr Oar being called babe?

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block single straight guys who watch me for an age on cam in chat.

I've blocked a few couples for time wasting I have a 3 strikes your out system for them.

As for single fems, I have a few on my block list Purley for either rude replies to messages or as a filter to ensure I don't view their profile again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them but number 1 the most. Nobody has the right to be abusive. It can really hurt people.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"Some in here just block you for not agreeing with their opinion.

I absolutely do that if the opinion is racist, homophobic etc.

Or a completely wrong opinion on what is the BEST pie!

Well that's easy. Steak and kidney and Apple

Steak, kidney AND apple? Heathen! How could you ruin a perfect steak and kidney pie by adding apple?

Don't knock it till you try it. A good opening message, judging from this thread would be "fancy some pie babe Mmmmm"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feedback on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll block someone if they delete my message without answering back, or if they've said they're not interested. Purely so I don't end up forgetting and contacting them again! That way I can be sure not to hassle them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your fab. So block whoever you want to block for whatever reason.

Jo xx

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