FabSwingers.com forum: Nasty Meeting

By *ougar1966 OP Couple
over a year ago

Newport

I know we can't name and shame but just had a very nasty meeting with a local single guy. Fortunately my rule of having hubby around for a first meet proved sensible and kept me safe.

Came away bitten, bruised and rather shaken from the threats of what he wanted to do to me at a future meeting. When I called a halt to the meeting, having Hubby there meant I felt safe in making it stop and his high level of aggression ended knowing he was downstairs. He went from zero to 100 in a few minutes...and then back to zero!!

Reported him to Admin and hope they ban him, nothing stopping him rejoining though.

Didn't tell Hubby until we got home otherwise he would have beaten the crap out of him....he is fuming!!

Don't think I will meet any man alone again.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely disgusting!

I hope he gets banned and please share his username with anyone who messages you privately.

Please keep the faith that there are genuine respectful males on here.

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By *irtyd468Man
over a year ago

North

"Absolutely disgusting!

I hope he gets banned and please share his username with anyone who messages you privately.

Please keep the faith that there are genuine respectful males on here."

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By *heekychopperMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I'm shocked and discusted.

Hope you have managed to work through the shock of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omfg that is sooo scary!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad hubby was there, stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it's the few that spoil it for the many with actions like this

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By *ougar1966 OP Couple
over a year ago

Newport

I have calmed down a little now......Hubby is the issue.

He feels really guilty about being downstairs while it was happening not realising what was going on.

I am just glad we got out and home before he found out.....

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

Its a shame and for the good guys out there it gets worse

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

"I have calmed down a little now......Hubby is the issue.

He feels really guilty about being downstairs while it was happening not realising what was going on.

I am just glad we got out and home before he found out.....

probably safer to have same room fun until you feel you can trust someone

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"I know we can't name and shame but just had a very nasty meeting with a local single guy. Fortunately my rule of having hubby around for a first meet proved sensible and kept me safe.

Reported him to Admin and hope they ban him, nothing stopping him rejoining though.

Didn't tell Hubby until we got home otherwise he would have beaten the crap out of him....he is fuming!!

Don't think I will meet any man alone again.....

My god..that truly is disgusting and I sincerely hope you are ok...and your hubby is too!! Big hugs to you both!!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

To the two men whining that this makes it “worse for the good guys” - get some perspective. A woman has been assaulted and all you can think about is whether it’ll make it harder for you to get meets? Can you see the problem with that attitude?

OP, I’m sorry this happened to you, and I’m very glad you got away before it got worse. Please remember neither of you is to blame, and look after each other while you get over the shock.

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By *tmosphericalMan
over a year ago

Gwent

To the OP I’m sincerely shocked and disgusted that you have experienced this, it is truly out of order, karma will bite him back one day.

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By *averick76Man
over a year ago

swansea

Disgusting scumbag he should be banned. Karma what comes around goes around and hope he gets what he deserves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really scary! Hope you can recover from such a traumatic experience. No person should ever go through that situation.

Thank you for the warning.

Every meet I have had I have always told a close friend the person's Fab name, location of meet and time. Just as a precaution. Glad you had your husband near at the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the two men whining that this makes it “worse for the good guys” - get some perspective. A woman has been assaulted and all you can think about is whether it’ll make it harder for you to get meets? Can you see the problem with that attitude?

OP, I’m sorry this happened to you, and I’m very glad you got away before it got worse. Please remember neither of you is to blame, and look after each other while you get over the shock."

Fact - 1 - I was not whining one bit just showing an opinion. (Obviously not allowed on here anymore).

Fact - 2 - That opinion did not have any attitude attached to it at all.

Fact - 3 - Assumptions are the mother of all fuckups.

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

OP, I’m sorry this happened to you, and I’m very glad you got away before it got worse. Please remember neither of you is to blame, and look after each other while you get over the shock.

Fact - 1 - I was not whining one bit just showing an opinion. (Obviously not allowed on here anymore).

Fact - 2 - That opinion did not have any attitude attached to it at all.

Fact - 3 - Assumptions are the mother of all fuckups.

Unfortunately seems you can't say a lot here without someone taking offence.

Obviously a very traumatic experience and sincerely hope the OP is okay. I can well imagine hubby is more than annoyed but equally relieved she's okay.

I didn't see anything wrong with your post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered reporting it to the police? Even if you dont want to go through with prosecution your statement and any evidence would stay on file, if he ever comes to their attention again your statement could be a good thing for them to already have. I gave a statement in a case years ago and there was already a statement on file but the person who gave the statement didnt want to take it any further.

Dont worry if you feel embarrassed/awkward about speaking to them they are well trained in dealing with situations like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I’m sorry this happened to you, and I’m very glad you got away before it got worse. Please remember neither of you is to blame, and look after each other while you get over the shock.

Fact - 1 - I was not whining one bit just showing an opinion. (Obviously not allowed on here anymore).

Fact - 2 - That opinion did not have any attitude attached to it at all.

Fact - 3 - Assumptions are the mother of all fuckups.

Unfortunately seems you can't say a lot here without someone taking offence.

Obviously a very traumatic experience and sincerely hope the OP is okay. I can well imagine hubby is more than annoyed but equally relieved she's okay.

I didn't see anything wrong with your post!"

Thank you Daddyslittlecumslutx

And it goes without saying that I sincerely hope the op and hubby are now safe and secure and hopefully calming down after that obvious stressful event for both of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uxuriantexhibitionistWoman
over a year ago

Middle of nowhere

Please could you message me with username of this man please? I’m so paranoid atm about meeting single guys I’d rather not risk it. It’s why I’ve only been meeting in groups with a trusted Fwb present. I hope you’re okay! Xx

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

Name and shame ill get me and my mob to dust him down

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

At least your hubby knows where he lives....

Wink wink

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

If you don't shame him what good it is for other women on this site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely vile, disgusting behaviour!

It goes without saying, but I deeply hope your okay, and glad your hubby was there for your safety!

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

A posse of guys should accompany your hubby on a visit to the guy..

No need for violence..but it would convey a message his behaviour is unacceptable..

Should make him squirm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you had to experience that OP

Only once in my years of meeting single guys on my own on Fab did I have a bad experience and it frightened the shit out of me, although I have always thought myself quite capable of looking after myself, it did make me realise what a vulnerable situation I was putting myself in all the time, I was quite ignorant to the risk really before that.

Take care of yourself

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"I know we can't name and shame but just had a very nasty meeting with a local single guy. Fortunately my rule of having hubby around for a first meet proved sensible and kept me safe.

Reported him to Admin and hope they ban him, nothing stopping him rejoining though.

Didn't tell Hubby until we got home otherwise he would have beaten the crap out of him....he is fuming!!

Don't think I will meet any man alone again.....

Sorry to hear that you went through this

Hope you recover soon as possible and don’t let it get in to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I’m sorry this happened to you, and I’m very glad you got away before it got worse. Please remember neither of you is to blame, and look after each other while you get over the shock."

100% this.

You’re not a “good guy” if you see this through the lens of damaging your standing.

I do hope OP and hubby are ok x

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By *irtyd468Man
over a year ago

North

OP, I’m sorry this happened to you, and I’m very glad you got away before it got worse. Please remember neither of you is to blame, and look after each other while you get over the shock.

Fact - 1 - I was not whining one bit just showing an opinion. (Obviously not allowed on here anymore).

Fact - 2 - That opinion did not have any attitude attached to it at all.

Fact - 3 - Assumptions are the mother of all fuckups.

Here here and it seems some single women have an attitude with most of the single guys on here and try to tar them all with the same brush

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By *irtyd468Man
over a year ago

North

OP, I’m sorry this happened to you, and I’m very glad you got away before it got worse. Please remember neither of you is to blame, and look after each other while you get over the shock.

Fact - 1 - I was not whining one bit just showing an opinion. (Obviously not allowed on here anymore).

Fact - 2 - That opinion did not have any attitude attached to it at all.

Fact - 3 - Assumptions are the mother of all fuckups.

Here here and it seems some single women have an attitude with most of the single guys on here and try to tar them all with the same brush

Or should it be hear hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appalling behaviour, I hope the OP is OK. This is totally unacceptable

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

So very sorry to read what has happened to you. Glad you had your husband there though. Please would you private message me the guy's name?

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By *ougar1966 OP Couple
over a year ago

Newport

"Please could you message me with username of this man please? I’m so paranoid atm about meeting single guys I’d rather not risk it. It’s why I’ve only been meeting in groups with a trusted Fwb present. I hope you’re okay! Xx"

Cannot message you unless you message me first.....I am too Old!!

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By *untiWoman
over a year ago

Newport

So sorry to hear of this OP, it is a real risk for us women and whilst I know there are good guys out there, this is why we must be cautious.

Thanks for the warning and opening our eyes a bit...

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By *alclmMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes I think you should name and shame because others might not be so lucky and have someone there at the time.

Take care

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By *ev257Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Think you should name n shame him on here n report him, so no one else has to go through what you have had to.

Next time the person may meet up alone n may not be so lucky n get away.

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By *ougar1966 OP Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Thank you to all those that have messaged me and expressed concern in this thread. It is appreciated.....

Feeling better today, had to spend most of last evening convincing Hubby to stay away from him, he knows he doesn't have the self control to pay him a visit!!

We sat last night reviewing what we could have done differently. I did the normal messaging, all was fine, Hubby reviewed it, I got his phone number, address and had a social at his home with Hubby first before any play. It wasn't until we got into the bedroom and 30mins into playtime did it start to go wrong. I felt the best option was to just stop and get out without escalating the situation. I would have called Hubby if I felt I was in serious harms way.

We have now worked out a way of alerting Hubby I want out of a situation and to get me out of a bedroom without the guy realising what is happening....I don't want Hubby sitting on the bottom of the bed with a baseball bat....

Having to wear a top today that covers my bruised and tender boobs, everytime Hubby catches a glimpse of the marks he gets rather sullen and angry....

We really enjoy our lifestyle and I am not going to let one arsehole ruin it for us......but it was a wake up call of how risky what we do can be.

Any guy not multi varified, whos vari's we can check, will have to put up with Hubby lurking in the backgound for a few meetings until we are convinced he is not an animal....

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By *untiWoman
over a year ago

Newport

"Thank you to all those that have messaged me and expressed concern in this thread. It is appreciated.....

Feeling better today, had to spend most of last evening convincing Hubby to stay away from him, he knows he doesn't have the self control to pay him a visit!!

Having to wear a top today that covers my bruised and tender boobs, everytime Hubby catches a glimpse of the marks he gets rather sullen and angry....

We really enjoy our lifestyle and I am not going to let one arsehole ruin it for us......but it was a wake up call of how risky what we do can be.

Any guy not multi varified, whos vari's we can check, will have to put up with Hubby lurking in the backgound for a few meetings until we are convinced he is not an animal....

Thank you for highlighting OP, I'm very pleased that your hubby is looking after you. It has brought to light how I can keep safe doing this well and being aware of get out plans in case things go sideways.

Take care of yourself xx

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

So sorry to hear this years ago I had a similar meet with a couple I felt extremely uncomfortable and really scared hope your ok xxxxx

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

Sickened to hear has happened to you and I genuinely hope you are OK and I hope your husband is OK too as well as I can only imagine how you both are feeling at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely disgusting behavior, most important is your well-being right now. If you believe he’s likely to hurt another then consideration should strongly be on formally reporting it, sounds like a maniac, my worry is the potential of a next victim. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgusting, shocked should he banned and reported to higher authorities....no.place for abuse of any sort

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Out of curiosity what is the ban for naming and shaming..?

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By *aturist-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Taffs Well

The worse thong about this site is that problem people cannot be named and shamed.

Had someone continually pestering me on here, he thought i was someone else and he was threatening to expose the person he thought i was to her family and friends.

I continually reported him to admins as he kept changing his user name and coming back on.

He was starting to become a serious worry.

In the end I did name and shame and guess what, It was me they banned off here for some time and did not take action against the muppett.

I think we need to let people know privately who this person was at that meet so we can all simply block him

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans

"Disgusting, shocked should he banned and reported to higher authorities....no.place for abuse of any sort"

it matters not how many times you report someone admin do nothing about it anyway,even more so if they have site supporter,they dont wanna reduce their income.thats what they care about

most

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By *ougar1966 OP Couple
over a year ago

Newport

It seems admin don't care, his account is still active and no one has bothered contacting me about my report....

I have given his details to ladies and couples that have requested it by PM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should of let your hubby give him a kicking. What an arse. There are genuinely nice safe couples out here. Play with us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please pm us who, thanks. I hope you are OK and recovered. Xxx Gayle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I volunteer. Hate men like that. They only understand one thing

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By *igDickSwansMan
over a year ago

Swansea City Centre

god that sound so bad... i hope your feeling better and the hubby is feeling better too so glad your safe tho cant imagine how scary that must have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this is terrible hope you are both ok, should name and shame ensuring he doesn’t get to do this again but then again he will probably just open up a new account maybe police is the correct course of action, no means no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone know the username of this animal?

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Anyone know the username of this animal?"

OP will let you know if you message her. Otherwise message me as she let me know and I’m happy to pass it on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my that is awful! I hope your both doing OK. I hope admin do something about him! Please can someone inbox me the name of this animal please? We've already had 1 bad experience but nothing on this scale and wouldn't want to run in to this despicable person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg, so sorry to hear that you’ve had such an awful experience OP. I sincerely hope you and hubby are both ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone know the username of this animal?

OP will let you know if you message her. Otherwise message me as she let me know and I’m happy to pass it on. "

Could you let me know, so I can avoid as well please x

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By *outhWalesCouple2019Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

So sorry to hear this OP. We are looking to start meeting single men and this is worrying as we have received quite a few messages since we updated our profile. We have never met a single guy before.

Worried now that this guy may have messaged us. What sort of safeguards do the couples and single females put in place when meeting someone new?

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By *weetnips69Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"Thank you to all those that have messaged me and expressed concern in this thread. It is appreciated.....

Feeling better today, had to spend most of last evening convincing Hubby to stay away from him, he knows he doesn't have the self control to pay him a visit!!

Having to wear a top today that covers my bruised and tender boobs, everytime Hubby catches a glimpse of the marks he gets rather sullen and angry....

We really enjoy our lifestyle and I am not going to let one arsehole ruin it for us......but it was a wake up call of how risky what we do can be.

Any guy not multi varified, whos vari's we can check, will have to put up with Hubby lurking in the backgound for a few meetings until we are convinced he is not an animal....

So sorry to read this, hope ur both ok.

Also if future meets can’t deal with hubby being there after this then they are not worth meeting. Take care xx

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

What a shame. Sadly not only are there fake profiles on here there are phycos well.

People like this spoil it for everyone else.

I'm glad you are safe and very sensibly brought hubby along

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

Gutted for you but don’t let one person hurt you ??

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By *obbymacMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Not sure if anyone has thought of this but now that OP has messaged a few with his name. Why don’t everyone who has his name go to his profile amd immediately block him.

Spread the word too amd get everyone to block him

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

That’s an awful thing to happen, we’re glad you’re out of it and hope you heal well. Don’t let it put you off. Also can you PM the name so we can block the creep as well. I hate to think we might bump into him somewhere. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just find it unbelievable that you can report someone’s /his profile & yet admin haven’t done anything about it I have blocked him but I can still see he is on here & still asking for meets shocking

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By *ilthy brownieMan
over a year ago

yours

"I know we can't name and shame but just had a very nasty meeting with a local single guy. Fortunately my rule of having hubby around for a first meet proved sensible and kept me safe.

Reported him to Admin and hope they ban him, nothing stopping him rejoining though.

Didn't tell Hubby until we got home otherwise he would have beaten the crap out of him....he is fuming!!

Don't think I will meet any man alone again.....

I'd of punched him the throat!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terms of Service, points 11.2 and 11.3, people who are calling for the "ban" of the person described in the OP should go read those. Because that's why there is no ban and never will be.

Without some criminal record checks that cause the user to be prevented from using such a website, then pretty much all are welcome above the age of 18.

That's not me condoning the behaviour described in the OP, that's just me stating why the person described in the OP is allowed to continue to be a member. Also, please note, that whilst it is okay to collectively 'shun' the person described, it is against website rules to message them negatively etc.

Hear a bad story? Form a collective ostracisation. Otherwise, add them to the extensive block list and move forward.

I can tell from their posts that the OP will be okay, I will just add my voice to the chorus of those wishing her (and her husband) well

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By *ust Us TogetherWoman
over a year ago

Newport

Thank you once again for all the kind messages I have received...

I have a very nice shade of yellow covering my boobs now, which usually is the final phase in them disappearing (bruises not my boobs)...

This whole episode has totally changed how I feel about meeting men for sex. It has also changed the dynamics I have with my Hubby for this type of lifestyle. Before this happened our Hotwife/Cuckold playtimes were exciting and worked for both of us. The sexual tension and excitment he felt has now been replaced with fears for my safety. I am still not sure in my own head if I can relax enough with a stranger to enjoy what we had before...

I thought I was a "tough old bird" as my Hubby has said on more than one occasion. Until it happens, I don't think any of us really knows what effect it will have on us....

We have to find a new way now to explore our sex lives with others.....

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By *ust Us TogetherWoman
over a year ago

Newport

Just to confirm the above message was posted using our couples profile in case it causes any confusion....hadn't realised Hubby had left the laptop logged on....DOH!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you p.m. us please so we can avoid him?

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By *ougar1966 OP Couple
over a year ago

Newport

"Just to confirm the above message was posted using our couples profile in case it causes any confusion....hadn't realised Hubby had left the laptop logged on....DOH!!!

First time I have done that.....busted now!!

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

So sad to hear of bellends like that on this site, hope you and your hubby are getting over this, and can eventually move forward and try to put it behind you, sites like this don't need arseholes doing crap like that, can be very worrying when meeting alone, that's why if meeting I'll meet at mine where I feel safer and always got a few items stashed near by (don't ask wot) thank God I've never needed to reach for. Please PM me his name

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

"Terms of Service, points 11.2 and 11.3, people who are calling for the "ban" of the person described in the OP should go read those. Because that's why there is no ban and never will be.

Without some criminal record checks that cause the user to be prevented from using such a website, then pretty much all are welcome above the age of 18.

Unfortunately behaviour like this is going to end in a criminal record at some point. By refusing to act on reports from members the site is condoning it. If in the future someone who is assaulted decides to go to the police the fallout will be interesting.

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By *ear SkillsMan
over a year ago

Pontypool

I'm so sorry you had to experience this. You have done nothing wrong and you were more cautious than others would be. There are so many people on here just chancing a quick meet when they get the urge. They really do not care about others, only just getting themselves what they want. I'm sure if there are genuine people who are into degradation and pain they would put it on their profile to match with someone rather than inflicting this horror on someone.

I hope you both feel better soon and can only hope this doesn't happen to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you allowed to name in on here so people can avoid him and if he starts a new profile it’ll give people a chance to know who it is, hope you’re both feeling a bit better it must have been terrifying for you ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would name and shame so others can watch out for him

Hope all is OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone who has the profile name please let us know. Gayle has just started the hotwife game, first last week. This information is to protect women. Personally, I don't care about clause 11. The company has a legal duty of care to ensure safety within reasonable efforts. I think removing someone for a violent attack would seem reasonable. Leaving this unpunished yet temporarily banning some who says show me your arse in the wrong chat room shows a malfunctioning moral compass.....

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By *ohnj21Man
over a year ago

Leeds

You don't need to name or Shame.

As he hasn't given his side story.

I do agree you should be safe.

Share name of your last meet here.

You should never free frightened on meet hope you ok

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By *ohnj21Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Feel frightened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't need to name or Shame.

As he hasn't given his side story.

I do agree you should be safe.

Share name of your last meet here.

You should never free frightened on meet hope you ok

What side of the story does he need to give. Physically assaulting someone when they say no has no story. Its unacceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone who has the profile name please let us know. Gayle has just started the hotwife game, first last week. This information is to protect women. Personally, I don't care about clause 11. The company has a legal duty of care to ensure safety within reasonable efforts. I think removing someone for a violent attack would seem reasonable. Leaving this unpunished yet temporarily banning some who says show me your arse in the wrong chat room shows a malfunctioning moral compass....."

Just messaged you x

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By *ohnj21Man
over a year ago

Leeds

No one should be assaulted agreed disgusting.

If they go to the police they wil want to know his side of events that's what I mean

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By *ohnj21Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Op hope you ok.

Should also feel safe

It should be shared to protect other ladies.

. If people behave inappropriate should be kicked off site

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