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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are peoples thoughts on winks?

I personally appreciate receiving a wink, gives me some sort of indication that someone maybe interested and may possibly want to chat.

I also like to send winks for the same reason as an indication that I like a woman/couples profile and would be interested in chatting.

After reading a lot of profiles I've come to see a few state they ignore winks altogether so I thought I'd put this post out to see if this is the case across the board or just a select few.

Appreciate any replies and happy fabbing!

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I ignore them altogether. Women on here get hundreds, mainly from awful lazy profiles. So in the end they tend to get ignored.

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"I ignore them altogether. Women on here get hundreds, mainly from awful lazy profiles. So in the end they tend to get ignored. "

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans


"What are peoples thoughts on winks?

I personally appreciate receiving a wink, gives me some sort of indication that someone maybe interested and may possibly want to chat.

I also like to send winks for the same reason as an indication that I like a woman/couples profile and would be interested in chatting.

After reading a lot of profiles I've come to see a few state they ignore winks altogether so I thought I'd put this post out to see if this is the case across the board or just a select few.

Appreciate any replies and happy fabbing! "

i hate them and the friend requests from someone who has never even said hi to you.

winks are a lazy way to make a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never looked at them myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Winks are out the window then, thanks for the feedback all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at winks and message the ones we are interesting in and if not we just delete them.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think I've responded to a wink once but in general it doesn't tell me enough about a person/couple. It's like a message that just says, hi.

From experience, those people like my picture but they haven't read my profile and haven't thought about if we meet each other's requirements.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We always forget to look at winks but if we do like someone we will send a wink and a message and just take it from there ..

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Never look at winks, or friend request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at winks, or friend request "

I know, you've been ignoring me for weeks

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Rarely look at them tbh

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at all mine and will normally message if I'm interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see why men in particular might send a wink. If they're anything like me they send loads of nicely written polite messages,only to get most of them deleted with no reply,so it's a lot easier just to send a wink & see if they get a response.

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Never look at winks, or friend request

I know, you've been ignoring me for weeks "

Rectified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the wink system & I'm more likely to respond positively to them than to a message. For us it's a low key hi we like what we see. Sorry to those I haven't responded too but when I'm out of action I don't keep an eye on things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at winks, or friend request

I know, you've been ignoring me for weeks

Rectified "

That's better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some use them. Some don't.

It's all down to personal preference I suppose.

I use winks far more than I would message someone as If they like what they see on my profile they would wink back.

It's better than them receiving hundreds of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some use them. Some don't.

It's all down to personal preference I suppose.

I use winks far more than I would message someone as If they like what they see on my profile they would wink back.

It's better than them receiving hundreds of messages."

I know, all these hundreds of messages I receive are a pain

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By *ala1956Man
over a year ago

Cross Hands

Cant see any problems with a wink either way , saves writing an Essay and being ignored .

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By *ustUS in CardiffCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Never look at winks, or friend request "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ignore them altogether. Women on here get hundreds, mainly from awful lazy profiles. So in the end they tend to get ignored. "

Same. Just write me a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at winks, or friend request

"

Can't do either to you anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to use the wink system, I do view them, and if interested will view profile as next step.

If they aren't what I am looking for or interests don't align, I then delete.

Same goes for messages, I view profile/veris before reading message, and apply the same principle above

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By *nsatiables21Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

We view these and respond if we're interested although it may not be as speedy as a message but we don't mind a shyer hello

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We view these and respond if we're interested although it may not be as speedy as a message but we don't mind a shyer hello

Mrs"

Wink!

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"We view these and respond if we're interested although it may not be as speedy as a message but we don't mind a shyer hello

Mrs

Wink! "

This thread reminds me of the winky wanky bird. When he winks he wanks and when he wanks he winks.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I always respond to them with a message. To my way of thinking it indicates that someone is interested enough to want to know a bit more about me.

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

Because I'm a singly guy and women /couples must get inundated with men I only wink, if their interested then they'll get back to me. After that we can message etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use them.. and love when I get them…little things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do look at mine and if I get a wink off someone I like the look of I do wink back.

Not a fan of random friend invites though especially when you havent even spoken. I always ask if its ok to send an invite before I do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the wink system as a per curser to sending a message. If I don't get a reply of the wink. Ain't no point spending time on writing a message. As you ain't gonna get a message back. Just my opinion mind..

Jo xx

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

We use the winks feature. I can understand why people might think it's lazy but it's more of a gauge of interest for us. If the recipients like what they see, then they can wink or message back.

Equally, we like to receive winks, and will wink/message back dependant on attraction/curiosity.

Personally, I'd rather a wink than a poor message without much thought.

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By *r71Man
over a year ago

Nunlle & Diff


"I like to use them.. and love when I get them…little things x"

Same here. When I receive a wink, I enjoy the little validation that comes with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn..I love a good wink! I don't get them very often *flutters rubbery eyelashes* xxxx

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