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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

I’ve never had an orgasm off any meets here anyone else have the same trouble???

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Oh dear. That's not good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a guy, I never have that problem. I almost had one by just looking at your profile hah o

If my fb is struggling to organism we usually get the tingly lube and toys out then take it nice and slow

XxXxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had that issue.

But, i orgasm really easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you orgasm with previous partners?

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

It’s not me that’s the problem lol xx

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Did you orgasm with previous partners? "

Have done yes x

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

Don’t I know lol xx

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

same here i enjoy a good fucking but have never had an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The meets I've had I always put the ladies pleasure before mine. I only get to enjoy myself if she has. Thats how I roll.

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine."

I message and chat for ages I think I must have bad luck lol x

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"The meets I've had I always put the ladies pleasure before mine. I only get to enjoy myself if she has. Thats how I roll. "

Funny they said that too lol xx

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine.

I message and chat for ages I think I must have bad luck lol x"

Oh it’s definitely not foolproof, and you can never really know until you meet them, but for me it’s things like if all they want to do is talk about sex or if they’re pushy about wanting pics etc, I know they’re not going to be a good match. Or on the flip-side, if they’re too shy/prudish/whatever to even discuss likes and dislikes etc before a meet, that’s not going to work either. But yes, luck does play a big part.

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine.

I message and chat for ages I think I must have bad luck lol x

Oh it’s definitely not foolproof, and you can never really know until you meet them, but for me it’s things like if all they want to do is talk about sex or if they’re pushy about wanting pics etc, I know they’re not going to be a good match. Or on the flip-side, if they’re too shy/prudish/whatever to even discuss likes and dislikes etc before a meet, that’s not going to work either. But yes, luck does play a big part."

Yep do all that lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to find a guy that puts your needs first x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"You need to find a guy that puts your needs first x "

Thing is, virtually every man will say that, because most know that saying “I literally don’t give a shit about your pleasure, you’re just a fleshlight to me” isn’t going to get them laid! Not every man actually means it, or can back it up, or is able to adapt his technique to different women.

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"You need to find a guy that puts your needs first x

Thing is, virtually every man will say that, because most know that saying “I literally don’t give a shit about your pleasure, you’re just a fleshlight to me” isn’t going to get them laid! Not every man actually means it, or can back it up, or is able to adapt his technique to different women."

Well said lol x

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx"

9/12 previous meets without orgasm (Mr)

0/12 climax failures for the women involved.

It’s not just men.

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx

9/12 previous meets without orgasm (Mr)

0/12 climax failures for the women involved.

It’s not just men. "

Interesting I’ve never had a man not x

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By *ust Us TogetherCouple
over a year ago

Newport

I never orgasm during our meets (Female). I am very hard to get to orgasm, hubby knows just how to do it so I save it for our time!!

I enjoy our meets just as much and it takes the pressure off by not chasing something that is unlikely to happen. Although this weekend may be different!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx

9/12 previous meets without orgasm (Mr)

0/12 climax failures for the women involved.

It’s not just men.

Interesting I’ve never had a man not x"

Which is great for them and accomplishment aside not great for you. My point was more that it’s not just blokes who can be self centered when it comes to play and it’s not always about whether someone is good or bad.

Dirty pretty hit the nail right on the head in that adaptability to different preferences and techniques is key. Pretty much any guy can climax as in essence it’s one key motion that generates an orgasm (although different abilities determine how intense a guys climax is) Women are much more like cracking the enigma code to determine which order buttons are pressed and granted a lot of guys don’t have the patience for it lol

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx

9/12 previous meets without orgasm (Mr)

0/12 climax failures for the women involved.

It’s not just men.

Interesting I’ve never had a man not x

Which is great for them and accomplishment aside not great for you. My point was more that it’s not just blokes who can be self centered when it comes to play and it’s not always about whether someone is good or bad.

Dirty pretty hit the nail right on the head in that adaptability to different preferences and techniques is key. Pretty much any guy can climax as in essence it’s one key motion that generates an orgasm (although different abilities determine how intense a guys climax is) Women are much more like cracking the enigma code to determine which order buttons are pressed and granted a lot of guys don’t have the patience for it lol"

Guess they just were not for me x

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"I never orgasm during our meets (Female). I am very hard to get to orgasm, hubby knows just how to do it so I save it for our time!!

I enjoy our meets just as much and it takes the pressure off by not chasing something that is unlikely to happen. Although this weekend may be different!!! "

I get that sex can be great without it and it has been but it’s now getting to the point of exasperation lol xxx

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By *ab Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.

IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.

1. Physical atteaction

2. Mental connection.

If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.

OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.

(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).

But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never orgasm during our meets (Female). I am very hard to get to orgasm, hubby knows just how to do it so I save it for our time!!

I enjoy our meets just as much and it takes the pressure off by not chasing something that is unlikely to happen. Although this weekend may be different!!!

I get that sex can be great without it and it has been but it’s now getting to the point of exasperation lol xxx"

From my experience and goes for both men and women there’s normally a correlation between how hot someone is to how limited their ability or skills are….. to put into context I’m punching way above in the looks department when it comes to miss insatiables, but because I’m so awesome in the sack she just puts a bag over my head and imagines I’m Tom Ellis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never had an orgasm off any meets here anyone else have the same trouble??? "

That’s terrible, I like to pleasure a women until she orgasms, I’m not bothered if I cum. It’s nice if she wants to return the pleasure. What has been the problem with the meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a fantastic lady on here 2 weeks ago we went to a hotel but we spoke about what she liked not what I liked which meant I new what she was wanting and what she enjoys and she enjoys receiving oral and fisting which we did and to be honest I didn’t expect her to cum as much and as many times as she did, we had to keep moving around the bed each time she gushed to find a dry spot, bed was a soaking mess when we left so I suggest talking openly about what you want done to you and good luck

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"I met a fantastic lady on here 2 weeks ago we went to a hotel but we spoke about what she liked not what I liked which meant I new what she was wanting and what she enjoys and she enjoys receiving oral and fisting which we did and to be honest I didn’t expect her to cum as much and as many times as she did, we had to keep moving around the bed each time she gushed to find a dry spot, bed was a soaking mess when we left so I suggest talking openly about what you want done to you and good luck "

Done all that x

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.

IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.

1. Physical atteaction

2. Mental connection.

If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.

OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.

(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).

But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!!"

Lol x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.

IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.

1. Physical atteaction

2. Mental connection.

If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.

OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.

(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).

But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!!"

So you’re telling a woman, what a woman needs?

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By *ab Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.

IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.

1. Physical atteaction

2. Mental connection.

If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.

OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.

(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).

But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!!

So you’re telling a woman, what a woman needs? "

Dont get all worked up!

I was offering some friendly (and funny) advice.

I take it you don't know the meaning of IMO (In My Opinion) or just didn't read it.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.

IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.

1. Physical atteaction

2. Mental connection.

If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.

OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.

(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).

But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!!

So you’re telling a woman, what a woman needs?

Dont get all worked up!

I was offering some friendly (and funny) advice.

I take it you don't know the meaning of IMO (In My Opinion) or just didn't read it."

The problem is too many men have Big Opinions about what should please a woman, often based on bad porn and exes who faked, and they just keep doing the same thing to every woman they meet assuming it’ll work. And many of those men get very butthurt if we try to tell them we’d prefer something done differently. A bit like you’ve just got butthurt with me.

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By *ab Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Im not butthurt, I was just pointing out your inadequacies.

Funny how some people including the person who asked the question liked my post and others have nothing to offer so just complain.

But then there are those people who just complain about everything or fuck all.

Now I'm not going to hijack this thread anymore, I'd suggest you open your mind and re-read my post and you'd see where I was coming from. If not keep your opinions to yourself if they aren't positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to find a guy that puts your needs first x

Thing is, virtually every man will say that, because most know that saying “I literally don’t give a shit about your pleasure, you’re just a fleshlight to me” isn’t going to get them laid! Not every man actually means it, or can back it up, or is able to adapt his technique to different women."

Virtually but not all men

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"You need to find a guy that puts your needs first x

Thing is, virtually every man will say that, because most know that saying “I literally don’t give a shit about your pleasure, you’re just a fleshlight to me” isn’t going to get them laid! Not every man actually means it, or can back it up, or is able to adapt his technique to different women.

Virtually but not all men "

Where did I say all men? I said “virtually all” men will claim to put the woman first (not all because I’ve definitely had messages from men who expect everything and don’t want to give anything); I then said “not every” man really means it.

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales


"Did you orgasm with previous partners?

Have done yes x"

Do you orgasm with a sexual Toy if you don't mind me asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frantically scrolling to make sure none of my meets have said the same hahah!

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales


"Frantically scrolling to make sure none of my meets have said the same hahah!"

Im in the Bad books already did not mean to cause drama

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By *igDickSwansMan
over a year ago

Swansea City Centre

Personally for me im not satisfied if the lady hasnt had an orgasm, id rather make her orgasm and have nothing in return than to orgasm myself and she be unsatisfied

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By *RWYNMan
over a year ago

Blaenau Gwent

The thing is that everyone is different and what one woman likes maybe another woman doesn't, so it takes time to work things out to what people enjoy, but on the other hand you may just hit the right spots. Well thats my opinion.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Only one time I didn't but it was still good. Three didn't cum with me and that bothers me more.

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Did you orgasm with previous partners?

Have done yes x

Do you orgasm with a sexual Toy if you don't mind me asking "

I’ve no problem myself lol or should I say pleasing myself xx

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Frantically scrolling to make sure none of my meets have said the same hahah!"

Lol I’m not being disrespectful the meets I’ve had some are on my veri some not I’ve enjoyed lol and I’m sure they’ve made others orgasm xx

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

I get off on making a woman cum but sometimes it's not always the case. Every woman is different so guys try and mix up your game

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By *loveyourassMan
over a year ago

Newport

Allow me OP

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Allow me OP "

Lol xxx

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

I'm sure you will find a right Stallion to blow that mind its a Ocean on here but must be a Star fish out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my early meets I didn't orgasm - I put it down to trust and comfort - along with a mental pressure to perform and go for ages - one lady was amazing - we were at it for literally hours with her cumming several times - but in the end we had to call it as she was getting sore - I loved every minute of the play and was close in so many occasions but couldn't unload at the point (the drive home was uncomfortable lol). Our second meet I think I was more relaxed and believe me it was messy lol - the mind plays a major part in what your body will achieve - if it isn't feeling right or there is any self pressure then it will trick you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of my early meets I didn't orgasm - I put it down to trust and comfort - along with a mental pressure to perform and go for ages - one lady was amazing - we were at it for literally hours with her cumming several times - but in the end we had to call it as she was getting sore - I loved every minute of the play and was close in so many occasions but couldn't unload at the point (the drive home was uncomfortable lol). Our second meet I think I was more relaxed and believe me it was messy lol - the mind plays a major part in what your body will achieve - if it isn't feeling right or there is any self pressure then it will trick you!!"

I agree. The expectation to perform and deliver is in itself a killer. Let me be relaxed, and you (the other party) will be relaxed, and it will just happen. An orgasm is placed on some sort of holy altar. You can't force a miracle, but you can create the opportunity for it to happen naturally. And that applies to all people.

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

I must make folk feel more comfortable than they make me feel then as no man has ever had any issue xx

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

Does the man you meet relax you first before build up massage you whisper in your ear ect.

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Does the man you meet relax you first before build up massage you whisper in your ear ect. "

They have all been kind I don’t go into detail tho. If I didn’t feel safe I wouldn’t of met them x

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

Not about being safe about being in company of a stunning woman making the effort to Please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Important to remember that this original post was asking if others haven't had an orgasm from their meets from Fab.

Not about the what's, why's or how's......

To get it back on topic, I have a 50/50 ratio on myself getting there. And a higher (but not 100%) rate for my play partner getting there. Many many reasons why, but not important for this discussion .

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

May be Situational anorgasmia or try on with a woman then you will know man is usless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get so excited for a meet that I'm so horny, wet, excited and raring to go I always orgasm....and mostly a few times too.

But I must be quite lucky coz the guys I've met on here (when I had my single profile) were so much more experienced and never failed to satisfy me

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

Thank you for all your comments it’s shown me I’m not alone and maybe just met the wrong folk

I am looking for regular meets maybe that’s why the ‘one off’ hasn’t worked xxxxx

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Thank you for all your comments it’s shown me I’m not alone and maybe just met the wrong folk

I am looking for regular meets maybe that’s why the ‘one off’ hasn’t worked xxxxx"

I've always maintained that sex gets better the more you get to know each other. The trouble with one offs is there can be high expectations which can lead to performance anxiety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would not stop until you were totally fulfilled. That's more important than our satisfaction. We think it's about the prep that you all put in to understand how to please each other. What you put in you get out. We would love to give you an orgasm xxx Gayle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs have no emotional or intellectual content. Your mind must orgasm before your body. Let your joint excitement mix in each others head. Get together for the whole night. Relax together. We have an indoor relaxation room. Indoor huge hot tub, big TV, music, pool table, bar etc. We get together and have a fun night. If it turns sexual it's because that connection has spontaneously happened. Its real and therefore extremely exciting and satisfying, if it doesn't then just have fun night out with fun people. Can't turn up for one off and turn real orgasmic sensations on just like that. Come and find out, you have nothing to lose xxxxx

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"One offs have no emotional or intellectual content. Your mind must orgasm before your body. Let your joint excitement mix in each others head. Get together for the whole night. Relax together. We have an indoor relaxation room. Indoor huge hot tub, big TV, music, pool table, bar etc. We get together and have a fun night. If it turns sexual it's because that connection has spontaneously happened. Its real and therefore extremely exciting and satisfying, if it doesn't then just have fun night out with fun people. Can't turn up for one off and turn real orgasmic sensations on just like that. Come and find out, you have nothing to lose xxxxx"

Thank you very much but I don’t drive xxxx

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Thank you for all your comments it’s shown me I’m not alone and maybe just met the wrong folk

I am looking for regular meets maybe that’s why the ‘one off’ hasn’t worked xxxxx

I've always maintained that sex gets better the more you get to know each other. The trouble with one offs is there can be high expectations which can lead to performance anxiety. "

Nowt wrong with my performance

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Thank you for all your comments it’s shown me I’m not alone and maybe just met the wrong folk

I am looking for regular meets maybe that’s why the ‘one off’ hasn’t worked xxxxx

I've always maintained that sex gets better the more you get to know each other. The trouble with one offs is there can be high expectations which can lead to performance anxiety.

Nowt wrong with my performance "

Lol I don't have a single doubt in my mind there is anything wrong with your performance

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By *igboywxmMan
over a year ago

Wrexham


"I’ve never had an orgasm off any meets here anyone else have the same trouble??? "

Gone with the wrong person

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"I’ve never had an orgasm off any meets here anyone else have the same trouble???

Gone with the wrong person "

‘People’ lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please say this isn't true!!! Is this a wind up?

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By *ood times 2023Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine."

100% we the same xx

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"I’ve no problem myself lol or should I say pleasing myself xx"

I think some men have a problem with adapting to what works for a particular partner. It has to be all their own work or not at all. As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. Personally, it's all part of the shared experience, and I love doing whatever feels best for everyone.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine.

100% we the same xx"

I didn’t have a very good fuckboy radar in the beginning, I kind of learned the hard way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never had an orgasm off any meets here anyone else have the same trouble??? "

I’m very very sure that all meets I’ve had, have definitely had at least a couple of orgasms during the meet and have always wanted a return visit.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. . "

This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .

This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls "

Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .

This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls

Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted "

exactamundo my friend. And if you use bananas you got a snack too. I once used a bottle of kopparberg, top off obviously. Was a lovely cool and refreshing drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .

This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls

Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted

exactamundo my friend. And if you use bananas you got a snack too. I once used a bottle of kopparberg, top off obviously. Was a lovely cool and refreshing drink "

Don't get me started on bananas

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By *rwantfunMan
over a year ago

Ammanford


"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx"
yea I have done but my turn on is making the lady cum I just love the sounds how she looks and if I get to cum with it’s a bonus but not essential

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

We can 100% fix that for you!

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge


" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .

This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls

Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted

exactamundo my friend. And if you use bananas you got a snack too. I once used a bottle of kopparberg, top off obviously. Was a lovely cool and refreshing drink

Don't get me started on bananas "

Seriously, don't get him started on bananas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .

This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls

Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted

exactamundo my friend. And if you use bananas you got a snack too. I once used a bottle of kopparberg, top off obviously. Was a lovely cool and refreshing drink

Don't get me started on bananas

Seriously, don't get him started on bananas"

You know I love a banana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like other guys have said, the lady's pleasure is part of mine.

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By *lease300 OP   Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

Well it’s happened now lol hooray!!! Xx

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By *reeneyes72Man
over a year ago

aberdare


"I’ve never had an orgasm off any meets here anyone else have the same trouble??? "

An older gent, fuglyish, slightly overweight, will try much harder making sure you achieve orgasm orally with no hang ups using toys / fingers and their amazing double / triple tonguing skills (if you know, you know)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about following how you partner reacts, letting them guide you as well...it about .pleasure and sharing...guys need to listen and see what makes their parts quiver

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